Guest guest Posted November 23, 2004 Report Share Posted November 23, 2004 " I was thinking I don't like to share any heavy news with her because it becomes all about her and she goes into this emotional hemorrhage that makes me feel even worse than I already felt about some difficult situation. Sound famailiar to anyone? " ***The story of my life. It used to be 3 hour long distance phone conversations where I would try to sneak in news about me..always turned back into Nada's issues. And god forbid that I have a differing opinion, because I was always wrong. She has NEVER seen my side of the story. Not only that, Nada goes into detail ad nauseum. When I started to get annoyed and years later would try to say.. " Okay, just get to the point " or try and shorten her story, then she would get angry and snap that I didn't care about her and that I was rude. I haven't had a phone conversation with her in months, and it feels so good. Oh, and when later Nada would hear about something I did from my sister, Nada would get all mad and say, " well, you didn't tell ME about this or that! " God knows that I tried to tell her! She has NO ability to tell that she is boring the hell out of people either. It is embarressing to have her around at holiday dinners or parties. People can't escape her. She just doesn't get it. Di. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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