Guest guest Posted November 27, 2004 Report Share Posted November 27, 2004 Bingo! I know that during the past months, having learned about BPD and how it has affected me, I have finally found a voice with my nada. I am the only one in my family who will tell it like it is to her. Often , I let things pass, but on important issues I speak my mind. I have been setting some boundaries, although I still have contact almost daily with my nada. I know other family members think I am wrong to try to tell the truth to nada. They will hardly ever actually try to solve something with her. I realize my truth will never change her, and if she understands it at the moment, in no time at all she turns it around to make her feel completely innocent and blames all on someone else. (Usually me) But in spite of the lack of change in her, it has helped me somehow to feel I can tell her my truth. Saying it out loud helps me validate myself. I am getting stronger all the time. Be good to yourself, Dee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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