Guest guest Posted May 22, 2004 Report Share Posted May 22, 2004 Hi Barb, My nada was the nurse type too. She said she had wanted to be one. > There was one time that she tried to open up to me <snip> I often >cling to that memory--wondering if *I* had let Nada in if things >might have been better between us. I think that there are so many examples of nadas baiting their offspring with indications of willingness to change. Once the nada gets the offspring to take the bait, the examples I have seen are that the nada then backs out, leaving the offspring to even feel pity for the nada who has revealed the horrible things the world has done to make her a nada. My nada never tried to open up to me that way (that I recall); if she had, and if I had refused it, I would not let myself feel guilty or second guess my refusal. In my relationship with my nada, actions must speak louder than words, because her words mean nothing. Bartnazor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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