Guest guest Posted March 30, 2004 Report Share Posted March 30, 2004 Stay inside as much as possible or window shop at dollar general stores when the pollen range is low enough so that I don't cough, sneeze, and tear up constantly. I have to air my house out, ie spring clean, during the winter months via my doctor's orders because of severe year-round allergies but are worse during spring and fall months. I take Zyrtec but some days it isn't enough. If I could get out though, I would probably work on my Azaleas and plant more Jonquils in my flower bed islands. Sam The trouble with making plans for the future, even when you can see the future, is that fate has a way of intervening and upsetting the best laid plans of mice and men. - Burns 1785 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 New to your group yesterday. Thank God for spring. I am also outside as much as possible. Golden retriever and all. She keeps me walking and the plants keep my poor hands and hips going as much as possibe. Usually I can get " lost " walking the dog and trying to digest all the surrounds in my narrow life. I just went on disability retirement in Sept. and am having a hard time adjusting. I was in a boat accident and burst fractured T12. The accident was 12 years ago and every year gets worse. Especially artheritis is setting in to my hips and tail bone; which was fractured too. Also have arteritis in my hands I have to take bextra everyday. It's raining today so maybe I will take in a movie, everybody I know works days and I spend most of my time alone; which makes the mental part even worse. Just had to have my cat put down after 22 years. Wow, what a bout of depression that brought on. Hope it will help to talk to somebody with similar problems. I know it sure will help me cause very few people understand how you can keep going and have something wrong. They look at me as if I was nuts when I can't get out of a chair or I trip over myself. Balance is a problem too. Take care. Bummback HRayN wrote: Now that Spring is here, I am usually outside as much as possible either at the garden center I work at or in my yard and garden. I truly do get " lost " while working with plants. It takes my mind off of my chronic pain and arthritic problems. I'm a gardening addict! What do the rest of you do during the Spring and Summer that allows you to " forget " your pain at least for a few hours? Ray Neal, co-moderator Know someone who could benefit from our list? Send our direct sign-up URL: http://www.yahoogroups.com/subscribe.cgi/chronic_pain or write us at: chronic_pain-listowner Manage your subscription with several special email addresses: chronic_pain-owner - Sends email to the list owners chronic_pain-subscribe - Subscribe to the list through email chronic_pain-unsubscribe - Unsubscribe from the list chronic_pain-normal - Switch your subscription to normal chronic_pain-digest - Switch your subscription to digest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 Hi: Welcome to the group and it sounds like you came to the right place. I just had to write as soon as I read your message because I could tell that you are a fellow animal lover. I have a wonderful dog, Mandy, who is a 10-year-old Border Collie/Chow mix and two cats, Willie (Persian, age 12) and Piper (Mixed breed, age 6). I've always had pets and of course I've lost a number of them due to aging so I know the grief you feel at the loss of your kitty. Even though you had your pet for a long time, I don't think one is ever really ready to part with it. My pets are just like my children and I feel many of the same feelings toward them that I felt while I raised my two kids who are now grown. I also love to garden but have had to curtail a lot of the more physical stuff because I'm too incapacitated to do such things but I still love to try new plantings and design the look of my garden. On good days when my pain level is not so bad, I sometimes go out and pull weeds which, for some reason, I find very tranquilizing. I have lots of perennial borders, an herb garden, rose garden and also raise vegetables. My spouse is the main hole digger. :-) I'm so sorry you are having such a difficult time with your back. Do you find that your pain gets worse during rainy weather? I feel that many times my pain level is very much linked to the fluctuations in the barometer. I also have severe pain in my hips, legs, and feet. Those are the worst places but I also have pain in my arms and back but at a lower level of severity. My main disease is panhypopituitarism (failure of the pituitary gland and endocrine system), but I also have fibromyalgia, heart valve disease, osteoporosis, migraines, and GERD. I was sick for over twelve years before I finally got diagnosed with pituitary disease and this delay caused some of the other problems I now have. Now I take replacement hormones for all the endocrine glands plus lots of other meds - I should have invested in pharmaceutical stocks. I've been on disability for two years and had a hard time giving up my job because I had so many friends that I knew I probably wouldn't see again. I still keep in touch with a few but it's impossible to maintain relationships with all one's friends from work. After 30 years working, the adjustment is a big challenge. I used to feel awkward about talking to folks about my infirmities but when I can't do something, that's just the reality of my situation. I figure if people have a problem with it, then that says more about them than it does about me. I have many problems regarding memory and often forget that I've told a story to someone, so then I will repeat it and the person has to tell me that I've already told them that same story. I used to feel embarrassed but now I just laugh about it and then so does everyone else. Everybody has flaws, some obvious and some invisible. I think you'll find this group of people very open, honest, caring and willing to listen or make suggestions if you want them to. The commonality is that we all have an intimate knowledge of chronic pain. Take care, Virginia USA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 Hi Ray, I'm with you during spring, summer and fall. I live in my gardens and it sure does help to take my mind off everything, including my pain. The only problem is that spring has not sprung here. It is rainy and cold and both will continue until early next week, sigh. It is barely 40 degrees during the day which is much too cold for my achy bones. I guess I'll start my windows tomorrow. I usually begin on April 1st. I have 24 windows, blinds, and curtains to do so the sooner I get started, the sooner I get outside. I could care less if it's raining to do the windows as they tilt inward to wash anyway. So, if I can get some get up and go, I'll start tomorrow. Arianne [snip] " HRayN " <hrayn@c...> wrote: > Now that Spring is here, I am usually outside as much as possible either at the garden center I work at or in my yard and garden. [snip] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 Hi Ray, I'm with you during spring, summer and fall. I live in my gardens and it sure does help to take my mind off everything, including my pain. The only problem is that spring has not sprung here. It is rainy and cold and both will continue until early next week, sigh. It is barely 40 degrees during the day which is much too cold for my achy bones. I guess I'll start my windows tomorrow. I usually begin on April 1st. I have 24 windows, blinds, and curtains to do so the sooner I get started, the sooner I get outside. I could care less if it's raining to do the windows as they tilt inward to wash anyway. So, if I can get some get up and go, I'll start tomorrow. Arianne [snip] " HRayN " <hrayn@c...> wrote: > Now that Spring is here, I am usually outside as much as possible either at the garden center I work at or in my yard and garden. [snip] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 Hi Stanley. I too have arthritic hips. One is worse than the other. I limp and have pain every step I take. My doctor has set up some physical therapy for me beginning tomorrow. I have been going to a heated pool for 15 months. It really has helped, but my doc thinks that PT might help me in standing and using my body to reduce the pain. I certainly hope so. I have one of those kneelers to work in my gardens with. It helps me to get up as it has handles on each side. I have 1/4 acres of gardens and a pond. I just love to be out there getting dirty, smelling the earth, and watching everything grow. I can't wait for the weather to break here. I hope that by April 15th, It will have warmed up to 50 degree sunny days. I can take that, but no cooler. If it is cloudy, it has to be near 60 or not windy. My hands and hips will ache for days afterward if it's too cool. I wish you sunny, warm days in your garden as well. Arianne [snip] STANLEY J KUHARSKI <d.berg43@s...> wrote: New to your group yesterday. Thank God for spring. I am also outside as much as possible. Golden retriever and all. [snip] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 Hi Stanley. I too have arthritic hips. One is worse than the other. I limp and have pain every step I take. My doctor has set up some physical therapy for me beginning tomorrow. I have been going to a heated pool for 15 months. It really has helped, but my doc thinks that PT might help me in standing and using my body to reduce the pain. I certainly hope so. I have one of those kneelers to work in my gardens with. It helps me to get up as it has handles on each side. I have 1/4 acres of gardens and a pond. I just love to be out there getting dirty, smelling the earth, and watching everything grow. I can't wait for the weather to break here. I hope that by April 15th, It will have warmed up to 50 degree sunny days. I can take that, but no cooler. If it is cloudy, it has to be near 60 or not windy. My hands and hips will ache for days afterward if it's too cool. I wish you sunny, warm days in your garden as well. Arianne [snip] STANLEY J KUHARSKI <d.berg43@s...> wrote: New to your group yesterday. Thank God for spring. I am also outside as much as possible. Golden retriever and all. [snip] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 Hi Stanley. I too have arthritic hips. One is worse than the other. I limp and have pain every step I take. My doctor has set up some physical therapy for me beginning tomorrow. I have been going to a heated pool for 15 months. It really has helped, but my doc thinks that PT might help me in standing and using my body to reduce the pain. I certainly hope so. I have one of those kneelers to work in my gardens with. It helps me to get up as it has handles on each side. I have 1/4 acres of gardens and a pond. I just love to be out there getting dirty, smelling the earth, and watching everything grow. I can't wait for the weather to break here. I hope that by April 15th, It will have warmed up to 50 degree sunny days. I can take that, but no cooler. If it is cloudy, it has to be near 60 or not windy. My hands and hips will ache for days afterward if it's too cool. I wish you sunny, warm days in your garden as well. Arianne [snip] STANLEY J KUHARSKI <d.berg43@s...> wrote: New to your group yesterday. Thank God for spring. I am also outside as much as possible. Golden retriever and all. [snip] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 Kathy, like you, I also like pulling weeds. Everyone I know thinks it's weird, but I also find it tranquilizing. It's a mindless job and lets my mind wander to the sights and sounds out in the garden. Sometimes I play music but mostly just listen. I't amazing what you hear when you 'listen'. Arianne [snip] " Kathy Featherston " <kfxston@c...> wrote: Hi: Welcome to the group and it sounds like you came to the right place.[snip] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 Kathy, like you, I also like pulling weeds. Everyone I know thinks it's weird, but I also find it tranquilizing. It's a mindless job and lets my mind wander to the sights and sounds out in the garden. Sometimes I play music but mostly just listen. I't amazing what you hear when you 'listen'. Arianne [snip] " Kathy Featherston " <kfxston@c...> wrote: Hi: Welcome to the group and it sounds like you came to the right place.[snip] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 Kathy, like you, I also like pulling weeds. Everyone I know thinks it's weird, but I also find it tranquilizing. It's a mindless job and lets my mind wander to the sights and sounds out in the garden. Sometimes I play music but mostly just listen. I't amazing what you hear when you 'listen'. Arianne [snip] " Kathy Featherston " <kfxston@c...> wrote: Hi: Welcome to the group and it sounds like you came to the right place.[snip] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 [[ What do the rest of you do during the Spring and Summer that allows you to " forget " your pain at least for a few hours?]] Hey Ray, I with you on the garden stuff...also a garden addict! My only wish is that I could do more...it's usually only about 1/2 hour of work and my pain reminds me it's still there. I try to take frequent breaks, maybe put ice on my back, turn up the stimulator and relax with some ice tea for a while. If I do this then I can go back to the garden for a while. I have also recently put up lots of bird feeders in my yard so I can sit on the deck and watch them while I'm on a break. I used to do lots of veggie gardening but where my veggie garden is located is way in the back of my property and up a hill so it would kill me just to get to it. Now I do a lot less but in containers and it makes for a lot less pain. I still get tomatoes, onions, lettuce and even green beans from containers...just love picking my own fresh veggies! I'm ready for spring!!! Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 [[ What do the rest of you do during the Spring and Summer that allows you to " forget " your pain at least for a few hours?]] Hey Ray, I with you on the garden stuff...also a garden addict! My only wish is that I could do more...it's usually only about 1/2 hour of work and my pain reminds me it's still there. I try to take frequent breaks, maybe put ice on my back, turn up the stimulator and relax with some ice tea for a while. If I do this then I can go back to the garden for a while. I have also recently put up lots of bird feeders in my yard so I can sit on the deck and watch them while I'm on a break. I used to do lots of veggie gardening but where my veggie garden is located is way in the back of my property and up a hill so it would kill me just to get to it. Now I do a lot less but in containers and it makes for a lot less pain. I still get tomatoes, onions, lettuce and even green beans from containers...just love picking my own fresh veggies! I'm ready for spring!!! Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2004 Report Share Posted March 31, 2004 [[ What do the rest of you do during the Spring and Summer that allows you to " forget " your pain at least for a few hours?]] Hey Ray, I with you on the garden stuff...also a garden addict! My only wish is that I could do more...it's usually only about 1/2 hour of work and my pain reminds me it's still there. I try to take frequent breaks, maybe put ice on my back, turn up the stimulator and relax with some ice tea for a while. If I do this then I can go back to the garden for a while. I have also recently put up lots of bird feeders in my yard so I can sit on the deck and watch them while I'm on a break. I used to do lots of veggie gardening but where my veggie garden is located is way in the back of my property and up a hill so it would kill me just to get to it. Now I do a lot less but in containers and it makes for a lot less pain. I still get tomatoes, onions, lettuce and even green beans from containers...just love picking my own fresh veggies! I'm ready for spring!!! Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 STANLEY J > It's raining today so maybe I will take in a movie, everybody I know > works days and I spend most of my time alone; which makes the mental > part even worse. Just had to have my cat put down after 22 years. Yes, good idea, take in a movie. Enjoy the big screen and the good sound. It's such a heart ache to have your cat die. I'm sorry you are going through that grief. There's lots of kitty and pet lovers here. So I hope you can feel all the warm thoughts from us cos we know how you are feeling. I do hope if you haven' already, you can get another kitty, my boys and girls are the best to have around. I love my three cats. Sharon in Australia. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 I feel better to know that someone else has the same problems I have. Spring is a good thing and a great thing to look forward too. Can't wait to get into the dirt. Don't really forget the pain. YOu can put it at bay for a while, or on the back burner as they say. Happy Spring. melback wrote: [[ What do the rest of you do during the Spring and Summer that allows you to " forget " your pain at least for a few hours?]] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 I feel better to know that someone else has the same problems I have. Spring is a good thing and a great thing to look forward too. Can't wait to get into the dirt. Don't really forget the pain. YOu can put it at bay for a while, or on the back burner as they say. Happy Spring. melback wrote: [[ What do the rest of you do during the Spring and Summer that allows you to " forget " your pain at least for a few hours?]] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 Sharon in Australia, Thanks so much for the kind words and good thoughts. It's raining in the Northeast U.S. too. Soooo depressing. And a dentist appointment too. UGH! Thanks, Bummback Sharon wrote: Yes, good idea, take in a movie. Enjoy the big screen and the good sound. It's such a heart ache to have your cat die. I'm sorry you are going through that grief. There's lots of kitty and pet lovers here. So I hope you can feel all the warm thoughts from us cos we know how you are feeling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 Sharon in Australia, Thanks so much for the kind words and good thoughts. It's raining in the Northeast U.S. too. Soooo depressing. And a dentist appointment too. UGH! Thanks, Bummback Sharon wrote: Yes, good idea, take in a movie. Enjoy the big screen and the good sound. It's such a heart ache to have your cat die. I'm sorry you are going through that grief. There's lots of kitty and pet lovers here. So I hope you can feel all the warm thoughts from us cos we know how you are feeling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 Sharon in Australia, Thanks so much for the kind words and good thoughts. It's raining in the Northeast U.S. too. Soooo depressing. And a dentist appointment too. UGH! Thanks, Bummback Sharon wrote: Yes, good idea, take in a movie. Enjoy the big screen and the good sound. It's such a heart ache to have your cat die. I'm sorry you are going through that grief. There's lots of kitty and pet lovers here. So I hope you can feel all the warm thoughts from us cos we know how you are feeling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 Hi everyone Spring almost arrived here in Montana. Several inches of snow arrived last night. All this talk of gardening reminds me of a good story. My father was an avid vegetable gardener and since he was a surveyor his vegetables were in perfectly spaced rows.We used two wood stakes with a string attached to them and would measure the rows together. So after I left home I had to opportunity to have my own garden. Dad was quite excited and said: " did you place the rows like I taught you? " Dad's precision didn't truly wear off on me so I had to say: " No I just took a hoe and dug a row because the green beans won't know if they are growing in a straight line or a crooked one " . He shook his head and never asked me about my garden again. HaHaHa My dear rigid,precise wonderful Dad ended up with a daughter who is a free thinker. He has been dead for 7 years now and I still miss him. Kaylene >Now that Spring is here, I am usually outside as much as possible either at >the garden center I work at or in my yard and garden. I truly do get > " lost " >while working with plants. It takes my mind off of my chronic pain and >arthritic problems. I'm a gardening addict! > >What do the rest of you do during the Spring and Summer that allows you to > " forget " your pain at least for a few hours? > >Ray Neal, co-moderator > > _________________________________________________________________ Find a broadband plan that fits. Great local deals on high-speed Internet access. https://broadband.msn.com/?pgmarket=en-us/go/onm00200360ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 Hi everyone Spring almost arrived here in Montana. Several inches of snow arrived last night. All this talk of gardening reminds me of a good story. My father was an avid vegetable gardener and since he was a surveyor his vegetables were in perfectly spaced rows.We used two wood stakes with a string attached to them and would measure the rows together. So after I left home I had to opportunity to have my own garden. Dad was quite excited and said: " did you place the rows like I taught you? " Dad's precision didn't truly wear off on me so I had to say: " No I just took a hoe and dug a row because the green beans won't know if they are growing in a straight line or a crooked one " . He shook his head and never asked me about my garden again. HaHaHa My dear rigid,precise wonderful Dad ended up with a daughter who is a free thinker. He has been dead for 7 years now and I still miss him. Kaylene >Now that Spring is here, I am usually outside as much as possible either at >the garden center I work at or in my yard and garden. I truly do get > " lost " >while working with plants. It takes my mind off of my chronic pain and >arthritic problems. I'm a gardening addict! > >What do the rest of you do during the Spring and Summer that allows you to > " forget " your pain at least for a few hours? > >Ray Neal, co-moderator > > _________________________________________________________________ Find a broadband plan that fits. Great local deals on high-speed Internet access. https://broadband.msn.com/?pgmarket=en-us/go/onm00200360ave/direct/01/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 Well, I used to walk early in the morning hours before it had time to get sticky and humid hot but that was prelupus and DJD. Now, my poor knee and hip joint just won't let me walk like that. There is a little ice cream/sandwich shop in the downtown area of our town, which isn't a very town, population 900 and that is counting 1 mile outside the city limits. Now, I try to walk the other way early mornings when I can afford it and can physically do it, and get my hair washed, trimmed, and styled. I also like trimming up my Azalea bushes but even with the gas-powered trimmer, it hurts like heck to do this. So now, I sit back in a cooler house and listen to audio books and try to keep my sanity with two kids home from school after early June. Thankfully, after a few short weeks out of school, they - the little one especially, will sleep in a little longer and that gives me a break from the school mornings of getting everyone up, dressed, fed, combed and brushed, and out the door before each bus runs. I think I enjoy not having to do the school morning routine the most. Sam The trouble with making plans for the future, even when you can see the future, is that fate has a way of intervening and upsetting the best laid plans of mice and men. - Burns 1785 >What do the rest of you do during the Spring and Summer that allows you to > " forget " your pain at least for a few hours? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 Well, I used to walk early in the morning hours before it had time to get sticky and humid hot but that was prelupus and DJD. Now, my poor knee and hip joint just won't let me walk like that. There is a little ice cream/sandwich shop in the downtown area of our town, which isn't a very town, population 900 and that is counting 1 mile outside the city limits. Now, I try to walk the other way early mornings when I can afford it and can physically do it, and get my hair washed, trimmed, and styled. I also like trimming up my Azalea bushes but even with the gas-powered trimmer, it hurts like heck to do this. So now, I sit back in a cooler house and listen to audio books and try to keep my sanity with two kids home from school after early June. Thankfully, after a few short weeks out of school, they - the little one especially, will sleep in a little longer and that gives me a break from the school mornings of getting everyone up, dressed, fed, combed and brushed, and out the door before each bus runs. I think I enjoy not having to do the school morning routine the most. Sam The trouble with making plans for the future, even when you can see the future, is that fate has a way of intervening and upsetting the best laid plans of mice and men. - Burns 1785 >What do the rest of you do during the Spring and Summer that allows you to > " forget " your pain at least for a few hours? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2004 Report Share Posted April 1, 2004 So glad that I am welcome. I need some people. All my good friends; like grade school, are across the country and in the south. Lonesome me. You can all be my family. Mom and Dad are gone, brother on Martha's Vinyard and one in Ohio. Two kids...girls. one near that " has her own life " and the other dear little thing is in California. Miss her with all my heart.' Thanks for excepting me and hoping to have many meaningful conversations and backing. Sometimes you feel like your worth s---. Get the jist. Be all well...Donna [snip] " Kathy Featherston " wrote: Hi: Welcome to the group and it sounds like you came to the right place.[snip] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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