RE: Re:womens sex lives /to Sharon - help!

[Guest guest]

sharon i tried to send you private email,but it would not send this is about

my neice im here aunt my spelling is bad, she is 19 and has told whole family

she is gay ,im find with it but the rest are mean about it no acceptance i

think it is her choice they could be kinder,this girl lost her mom at three

murdered,then my mom adopted her and died when she was six, my god what did

they expect i love my family but man it not fair to her at all she does have

habit of telling big tales i can see why, how can i help her is there any

place she can get counsel on this subject so she can know how to deal with

family. i get so mad at them about this,it her choice i dont feel any difrent

about her. how can i help her i just want her to be happy do i have a right

to be mad at family my side is fine with it but they are dissappointed that

she is not what they wanted her to be. excuse me but who is screwed up here

,how do i make it better,it so sad, she sings like a angel. i love her so

much.

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>Reply-To: chronic_pain

>To: chronic_pain

>Subject: Re:womens sex lives

[Guest guest]

Dee:

I'm not Sharon but I do have some gay friends who are some of my dearest

friends, male and female. To be honest, I think it is the family's problem

that they can't accept who she is and not her problem. I honestly feel

sorry for her family. They can either love her as she is or turn away from

her. She, if she is true to herself, cannot change the way she feels and

the way she wants to live her life. It is not and would not be fair of her

family to expect her to live any other way than the way she is meant to

live. I have heard all the balony about gay and lesbian habits being a

disease, a sin, etc.. until I am sick of it. Love is love. There is no

shame or sin in that and if love is a disease, then I am glad to be infected

with it.

What can be so sinful about one person loving another person regardless of

their sex but then again, remember that I am the one that honestly feels

that there is a point where love goes beyond the body. I think that

somewhere out there, the spiritual equivolent of sex can be found. I'm not

talking about God, preaching, the Bible, or anything like that. I am

talking about finding the true person you were meant to be with. I mean, if

you really loved someone, it would go deeper than the flesh, it would be

happier than sex. Really, there has got to be something else. If two

people really loved one another they couldn't be torn apart no matter what

happened. If two souls are one; if that is the ultimate, then the flesh is

nothing. So, if the flesh is nothing, why do so many people have such

trouble getting past the the body and on to what is even better - the soul,

the part that makes a person who they are.

Dee, I hope your niece finds happiness no matter what her family thinks.

Give her my best wishes. It is her life and she has to find her own way

without interference from others or she cannot be true to herself and

therefore will never find happiness in any form.

BB,

Sam

The trouble with making plans for the future, even when you can see the

future, is that fate has a way of intervening and upsetting the best laid

plans of mice and men.

- Burns 1785

[Guest guest]

thankyou very much i agree.i well give her your mess

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>Reply-To: chronic_pain

>To: <chronic_pain >

>Subject: RE: Re:womens sex lives /to Sharon - help!

>Date: Fri, 26 Mar 2004 14:15:49 -0500

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