Guest guest Posted February 26, 2003 Report Share Posted February 26, 2003 You are Sondra, a person blessed with the unique world view that is autism =) And a penchant for writing beautiful poetry, too. Kassiane, thanks for you nice words to me > I to guess we can show professionals who to say we are self centered and cannot be with emotions that their theory and myths about this is much not true. As you to clearly understand with emotion my words and expressions and to responded to them. We do connect more that many think. I to only have one questions what do penchant to mean? Sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 26, 2003 Report Share Posted February 26, 2003 > > You are Sondra, a person blessed with the unique world view that is > autism =) > And a penchant for writing beautiful poetry, too. > > > Kassiane, thanks for you nice words to me> I to guess we can show > professionals who to say we are self centered and cannot be with emotions > that their theory and myths about this is much not true. As you to clearly > understand with emotion my words and expressions and to responded to them. > We do connect more that many think. I to only have one questions what do > penchant to mean? > Sondra Penchant means an affinity for, being good at/with, a talent for. I like unusual words, and tis one of them. Sometimes I think the professionals who think we have no emotions havent read anything new since the Bettleheim days...MANY people on the spectrum are just full of emotion and animation, and some can express them beautifully in one way or another. Kassiane _______________________________________________________________ Get the FREE email that has everyone talking at http://www.mail2world.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 27, 2003 Report Share Posted February 27, 2003 Kassiane thanks to explain penchant to me. Was not sure of the word as to not be to ever hear that word. Sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2003 Report Share Posted April 25, 2003 Kassiane, I to share that not always when one says because you to not be parent you wouldn't be to understand is this meant in a negative fashions, but some truth to this as since you are not to be of parent yet , you lack the experiences and exposures to what the parents might be to feel and express, it does not mean you insight is of less value at all. It is like if all here were to speak Spanish and you knew only a few words and yet spoke most with you own English language it does not mean you lack intellectual thinking it means you to lack in experiences to speak in Spanish at a higher level since you have little exposure to it, yet in your own way you still speak and bring insight needed. So do not be to discredit you ability for lacking in an areas simple because you have not reached that level of experience yet. I to lack in speaking correct grammar and often get misunderstood and so frustrated with this but this does not mean I to not be able to express insight to things, I to be to do it oddly but lack ability to do it in ways others have experience too and do well. This does not make them right and me wrong because we both are able to speak just have different levels of experiences to share in it. Same for you, you to not be a parent but do be to care for children's so you have some level of understanding but maybe not at the same level a parent might be, this does not make you less than, it just means you have not reached this level of understanding yet. I to know that certain topics are much hard for you, but as life is these things are just as hard for parents to understand too. You come from one angle they are coming from another , yet both is looking at the dame thing, just each is seeing it as different. It is okay neither is right, neither is wrong. It is not a thing to be proven to be of right or wrong. It is like a balance in life and is meant to be this way. So for those who to want cures, or are seeking them , this is okay , this is their rights, and yet if you to not want cure for you or any children's you might be to birth then this is your right. This is why we to live in America to have some freedoms of choice. I to not think the whole world is out to do like a Hitler things here and exterminate us from the face of the world. As autism has been from the beginning of time, same with mental illness, and other diseases , human kind will never wipe the world clean of all its so called imperfect people, It has been tried , but was not tolerated or successful. If one wants to stop a cause of mass destructions of human life then pursue the abortion issues, but do not worry as I to be to feel no one is out to destroy those who already have autism to exterminate them would be to destroy much of the world according to the rise LOL. So dont be to take things so much negative and assume that others to be of attacking words when they have not been. If you to be unsure of the words think of ways to ask of it in ways to not be to accuse or degrade, as IAN was sharing hims response was to another and was not directed to you at all, so maybe next time do what I to be to do STOP, THINK, REACT (react can simply mean asking for clarifications of the words by saying , Ian not sure of you words , were they direct to me or another and if so can you be more specific and or can you to explain them in a better way I to seem somewhat confused by what you may be meaning in them " . this opens the door to more positive communications in the back and forths with others, when you be quick to assume and not be careful in word choices it causes others to be to get confused and feel attacked too. Just as friend, was sharing some things I to be to learned in back and forth of words. And to ask of clarifications does not mean one is not of smart it means one is cautious and wants to assure themselves they understood what was being conveyed. Sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2003 Report Share Posted April 25, 2003 Kassiane, I to share that not always when one says because you to not be parent you wouldn't be to understand is this meant in a negative fashions, but some truth to this as since you are not to be of parent yet , you lack the experiences and exposures to what the parents might be to feel and express, it does not mean you insight is of less value at all. It is like if all here were to speak Spanish and you knew only a few words and yet spoke most with you own English language it does not mean you lack intellectual thinking it means you to lack in experiences to speak in Spanish at a higher level since you have little exposure to it, yet in your own way you still speak and bring insight needed. So do not be to discredit you ability for lacking in an areas simple because you have not reached that level of experience yet. I to lack in speaking correct grammar and often get misunderstood and so frustrated with this but this does not mean I to not be able to express insight to things, I to be to do it oddly but lack ability to do it in ways others have experience too and do well. This does not make them right and me wrong because we both are able to speak just have different levels of experiences to share in it. Same for you, you to not be a parent but do be to care for children's so you have some level of understanding but maybe not at the same level a parent might be, this does not make you less than, it just means you have not reached this level of understanding yet. I to know that certain topics are much hard for you, but as life is these things are just as hard for parents to understand too. You come from one angle they are coming from another , yet both is looking at the dame thing, just each is seeing it as different. It is okay neither is right, neither is wrong. It is not a thing to be proven to be of right or wrong. It is like a balance in life and is meant to be this way. So for those who to want cures, or are seeking them , this is okay , this is their rights, and yet if you to not want cure for you or any children's you might be to birth then this is your right. This is why we to live in America to have some freedoms of choice. I to not think the whole world is out to do like a Hitler things here and exterminate us from the face of the world. As autism has been from the beginning of time, same with mental illness, and other diseases , human kind will never wipe the world clean of all its so called imperfect people, It has been tried , but was not tolerated or successful. If one wants to stop a cause of mass destructions of human life then pursue the abortion issues, but do not worry as I to be to feel no one is out to destroy those who already have autism to exterminate them would be to destroy much of the world according to the rise LOL. So dont be to take things so much negative and assume that others to be of attacking words when they have not been. If you to be unsure of the words think of ways to ask of it in ways to not be to accuse or degrade, as IAN was sharing hims response was to another and was not directed to you at all, so maybe next time do what I to be to do STOP, THINK, REACT (react can simply mean asking for clarifications of the words by saying , Ian not sure of you words , were they direct to me or another and if so can you be more specific and or can you to explain them in a better way I to seem somewhat confused by what you may be meaning in them " . this opens the door to more positive communications in the back and forths with others, when you be quick to assume and not be careful in word choices it causes others to be to get confused and feel attacked too. Just as friend, was sharing some things I to be to learned in back and forth of words. And to ask of clarifications does not mean one is not of smart it means one is cautious and wants to assure themselves they understood what was being conveyed. Sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2003 Report Share Posted April 25, 2003 Kassiane, I to share that not always when one says because you to not be parent you wouldn't be to understand is this meant in a negative fashions, but some truth to this as since you are not to be of parent yet , you lack the experiences and exposures to what the parents might be to feel and express, it does not mean you insight is of less value at all. It is like if all here were to speak Spanish and you knew only a few words and yet spoke most with you own English language it does not mean you lack intellectual thinking it means you to lack in experiences to speak in Spanish at a higher level since you have little exposure to it, yet in your own way you still speak and bring insight needed. So do not be to discredit you ability for lacking in an areas simple because you have not reached that level of experience yet. I to lack in speaking correct grammar and often get misunderstood and so frustrated with this but this does not mean I to not be able to express insight to things, I to be to do it oddly but lack ability to do it in ways others have experience too and do well. This does not make them right and me wrong because we both are able to speak just have different levels of experiences to share in it. Same for you, you to not be a parent but do be to care for children's so you have some level of understanding but maybe not at the same level a parent might be, this does not make you less than, it just means you have not reached this level of understanding yet. I to know that certain topics are much hard for you, but as life is these things are just as hard for parents to understand too. You come from one angle they are coming from another , yet both is looking at the dame thing, just each is seeing it as different. It is okay neither is right, neither is wrong. It is not a thing to be proven to be of right or wrong. It is like a balance in life and is meant to be this way. So for those who to want cures, or are seeking them , this is okay , this is their rights, and yet if you to not want cure for you or any children's you might be to birth then this is your right. This is why we to live in America to have some freedoms of choice. I to not think the whole world is out to do like a Hitler things here and exterminate us from the face of the world. As autism has been from the beginning of time, same with mental illness, and other diseases , human kind will never wipe the world clean of all its so called imperfect people, It has been tried , but was not tolerated or successful. If one wants to stop a cause of mass destructions of human life then pursue the abortion issues, but do not worry as I to be to feel no one is out to destroy those who already have autism to exterminate them would be to destroy much of the world according to the rise LOL. So dont be to take things so much negative and assume that others to be of attacking words when they have not been. If you to be unsure of the words think of ways to ask of it in ways to not be to accuse or degrade, as IAN was sharing hims response was to another and was not directed to you at all, so maybe next time do what I to be to do STOP, THINK, REACT (react can simply mean asking for clarifications of the words by saying , Ian not sure of you words , were they direct to me or another and if so can you be more specific and or can you to explain them in a better way I to seem somewhat confused by what you may be meaning in them " . this opens the door to more positive communications in the back and forths with others, when you be quick to assume and not be careful in word choices it causes others to be to get confused and feel attacked too. Just as friend, was sharing some things I to be to learned in back and forth of words. And to ask of clarifications does not mean one is not of smart it means one is cautious and wants to assure themselves they understood what was being conveyed. Sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2003 Report Share Posted April 25, 2003 Sondra, you say that you dont speak correct grammer but I think you say things just beautifully. Pennie Abby's Mom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2003 Report Share Posted April 25, 2003 Sondra, you say that you dont speak correct grammer but I think you say things just beautifully. Pennie Abby's Mom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2003 Report Share Posted April 25, 2003 Sondra, you say that you dont speak correct grammer but I think you say things just beautifully. Pennie Abby's Mom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2003 Report Share Posted April 25, 2003 Pennie much to say this to me and it encourages me to be to continue to share in my words. My therapist to shared to me that although the mechanics of my grammar is different my ability to express self is very intact. Sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2003 Report Share Posted April 25, 2003 Pennie much to say this to me and it encourages me to be to continue to share in my words. My therapist to shared to me that although the mechanics of my grammar is different my ability to express self is very intact. Sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2003 Report Share Posted April 25, 2003 Pennie much to say this to me and it encourages me to be to continue to share in my words. My therapist to shared to me that although the mechanics of my grammar is different my ability to express self is very intact. Sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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