Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 My Auntie Dearest comes across as peacemaker, but in fact, is a conduit of information back to Nada. She is so nice and seemingly pleasant, that it is hard not to get swept back into the game. Auntie says that Nada lacks empathy (well, I'd say that was an understatement), but won't go as far as to say she is abusive. This has been a real sticking point for me, because I want validation of my experience of childhood in hell. Not going to get it there, I'm afraid. So, I've changed the phone numbers. I am concerned that Nada could try to do some legal grandparent rights type action, though she's made no move to do that up to this point. She does, however, frequently sue other people. How to exit without provoking her? Any thoughts? Marla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 My Auntie Dearest comes across as peacemaker, but in fact, is a conduit of information back to Nada. She is so nice and seemingly pleasant, that it is hard not to get swept back into the game. Auntie says that Nada lacks empathy (well, I'd say that was an understatement), but won't go as far as to say she is abusive. This has been a real sticking point for me, because I want validation of my experience of childhood in hell. Not going to get it there, I'm afraid. So, I've changed the phone numbers. I am concerned that Nada could try to do some legal grandparent rights type action, though she's made no move to do that up to this point. She does, however, frequently sue other people. How to exit without provoking her? Any thoughts? Marla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 I want to go.....too. Carol In a message dated 3/29/04 10:43:10 PM Eastern Standard Time, smhtrain2@... writes: Sign me up, too! - Sylvia > I think what I need is to go into some sort of KO program based on the > Witness Protection Program. Wouldn't that be wonderful? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 Marla, I don't know if that is possible. The very nature of BPD is about lack of emotional control, overreacting, missunderstand, rewriting history, and so on. Sylvia <<<<<<< ..............> So, I've changed the phone numbers. I am concerned that Nada could try to do > some legal grandparent rights type action, though she's made no move to do > that up to this point. She does, however, frequently sue other people. How to > exit without provoking her? Any thoughts? > > Marla>>>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2004 Report Share Posted March 29, 2004 Sign me up, too! - Sylvia > I think what I need is to go into some sort of KO program based on the > Witness Protection Program. Wouldn't that be wonderful? > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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