Humiliation as a trigger

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Group,

It's time for me to " move on " . I could lurk but that would not suit my needs

now. I need to be verbal here, not lurk.

I will miss my friends here.

I have a little story though I'd like to tell first, as I " ve contemplated what

seems to transpire in regard to me on this board.

Years ago, my husbands employer called me (boundary breaking) on some trite

'excuse " . He kept on about employees stealing. Said things like " why would an

employee chance their job for stealing twenty dollars, etc. On and on he went.

This bothered me, I thought he was accusing my husband of stealing. It was crazy

making. About a year or so, this employer that called me making the thieving

innuendo was fired for embezzling thousands of dollars. A felony if I recall,

but I do remember he fled and was later captured. My point is, projection does

not go on just with nada's, it goes on in all " theatres " . The subject of

trolling came up here lately. I am not a troll, nor I do appreciate being

singled out and humiliated from the woman who professes to be the " mensched "

person on this topic.

I will miss , Carol, , Free, Deb, and many others that I cannot recall

their name without seeing their email address. You all helped me in some very

troubled times and I had hoped I gave a little bit back. But I have to look out

for myself, and being humiliated at the source where I seek solace is not

healthy for me and It's time for me to put this behind me. I cannot improve

anymore than I have. Nada will be here as long as she lives.

I hope all here continue to find their way. And I would hate to have to remind

you in your journey to health, be careful. Be very careful as you learn to

trust.

Huge hugs, Trompalina