Guest guest Posted October 3, 2004 Report Share Posted October 3, 2004 I am new in this group. In ancient times to have kids was even a form of old-age pension for the parents. Either the Roman Catholic Church also stimulated their co-religionists to 'produce' as much kids as possible. Roman Catholic women were formerly almost constantly pregnant, so my bp-mother too, even during world war II. I have heard dr. Gunderson saying to a psychiatrist who asked him what to answer to a Bpw who wanted to be pregnant: " Let this Bpw first learn to take care for an animal, but " -(very seriously !) Gunderson further said-, " I mean with an animal not a dog or a cat but a goldfish. " Very little confidence has Gunderson in the power of Bp's to bring up their children in a good way. My daughter who is grown up by my ex.bpw (thanks to to-days Family Court Culture) told me some time ago: " Dad, I have the feeling that I have had to grown up by my self. " and " In mother's house I feel myself only nice in my own room, but in your house I feel myself nice in your whole house. " She is now an excellent teacher..... all done by herself ! Gerard -- In ModOasis , Jana <hellokitty435@y...> wrote: > > Why do parents like > ours even have kids anyway?------ My Dad never wanted kids, he just adopted us b/c nada wanted to. Nada had the erroneous idea that she'd be a great mother. ROFLMAO - jana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2004 Report Share Posted October 3, 2004 I am new in this group. In ancient times to have kids was even a form of old-age pension for the parents. Either the Roman Catholic Church also stimulated their co-religionists to 'produce' as much kids as possible. Roman Catholic women were formerly almost constantly pregnant, so my bp-mother too, even during world war II. I have heard dr. Gunderson saying to a psychiatrist who asked him what to answer to a Bpw who wanted to be pregnant: " Let this Bpw first learn to take care for an animal, but " -(very seriously !) Gunderson further said-, " I mean with an animal not a dog or a cat but a goldfish. " Very little confidence has Gunderson in the power of Bp's to bring up their children in a good way. My daughter who is grown up by my ex.bpw (thanks to to-days Family Court Culture) told me some time ago: " Dad, I have the feeling that I have had to grown up by my self. " and " In mother's house I feel myself only nice in my own room, but in your house I feel myself nice in your whole house. " She is now an excellent teacher..... all done by herself ! Gerard -- In ModOasis , Jana <hellokitty435@y...> wrote: > > Why do parents like > ours even have kids anyway?------ My Dad never wanted kids, he just adopted us b/c nada wanted to. Nada had the erroneous idea that she'd be a great mother. ROFLMAO - jana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 3, 2004 Report Share Posted October 3, 2004 > > In ancient times to have kids was even a form of old-age pension for >the parents. Either the Roman Catholic Church also stimulated their >co-religionists to 'produce' as much kids as possible. Roman Catholic >women were formerly almost constantly pregnant, so my bp-mother too, >even during world war II. Well, that is not a doctrine of the Roman Catholic Church, actually. There were people who had false beliefs or even misunderstandings that have continued on and on (my grand-nada even had false beliefs about such things) and made assumptions about what the Catholic church taught but producing kids constantly is not a teaching of the church and never was. Just wanted to clarify that. >Very little confidence has Gunderson in the power of Bp's to bring up >their children in a good way. I can certainly understand why ! My nada was as described in a previous post - she is real good with babies but once they get out of that " cute " and total dependent stage, she starts not to like the kid as much any more. My 14 year old daughter certainly can attest to that one! >My daughter who is grown up by my ex.bpw (thanks to to-days Family >Court Culture) told me some time ago: " Dad, I have the feeling that I >have had to grown up by my self. " and " In mother's house I feel >myself only nice in my own room, but in your house I feel myself nice >in your whole house. " She is now an excellent teacher..... all done >by herself ! Yeah, it's too bad kids have to grow up like that sometimes. Fortunately those unfortunate conditions can help make them a stronger person in the end. Unfortunate for some that they are ruined from it. Theresa ________________________________________________________________ Get your name as your email address. Includes spam protection, 1GB storage, no ads and more Only $1.99/ month - visit http://www.mysite.com/name today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 4, 2004 Report Share Posted October 4, 2004 Why they had kids? I was thinking if they did not have children, where would we be without this support? All of us growing at different levels, but a child inside we can nurture ourselves through the help of others (professionals) and people who have been through what we have been through. Gifts we all have, abilities most people do not have... Sincerely to ALL, Kim Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 4, 2004 Report Share Posted October 4, 2004 I have to add to my post that the first boy-friend of my daughter was a schizophrenic. At the age of 19 he committed suicide, the courtship was than already gone for sometime . So my daughter got also 'fleas' from her bp-mother through which she had been involved by a schizophrenic boy. She has had therefore also to learn that: Normal is Not Common ! Gerard > > >My daughter who is grown up by my ex.bpw (thanks to to-days Family > >Court Culture) told me some time ago: " Dad, I have the feeling that I > >have had to grown up by my self. " and " In mother's house I feel > >myself only nice in my own room, but in your house I feel myself nice > >in your whole house. " She is now an excellent teacher..... all done > >by herself ! > > Yeah, it's too bad kids have to grow up like that sometimes. Fortunately those unfortunate conditions can help make them a stronger person in the end. Unfortunate for some that they are ruined from it. > > Theresa > > ________________________________________________________________ > Get your name as your email address. > Includes spam protection, 1GB storage, no ads and more > Only $1.99/ month - visit http://www.mysite.com/name today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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