Guest guest Posted February 1, 2005 Report Share Posted February 1, 2005 Hey everyone, Had a very rough week. My dad fell and tore his quad muscle from his knee cap about 5 weeks ago. it took me til last tuesday to get him to go to the hospital. He was rushed into emergency surgery. My dad and i are very close. He called me before he went in and said he would just see me when he got out because he didn't want any trouble with my mother. i was so angry and hurt. It always seems like she is the one who causes all the trouble but everyone else are the ones who are punished for it. I just wanted to be there for my dad and know he was ok and out of surgery but he said he would be worried the whole time about what would happen with my stupid mother. My parents neighbour is my best friends parents and they are one of the few people that beleive our problems. So they called me whenever she got home the hospital and then I was able to go. Why does it have to be this hard. My mom causes all the problems and the rest of us pay? She doesn't care. she has my dad all to herself. Now she can go around to all her friends and tell them how awful her kids are becasue they didn't even visit their dad in the hospital. My dad's plan is to isolate her from all the fmaily until she wants to change. The problem with that is that we can't see him either. I cried for 2 days. i don't think things will ever be better. it has been 6 years since we seperated ourselves. This is the most hopeless disorder. There just never seems to be an answer. nothing seems to help. I at least wish i could have my dad back. thanks for listening kelly Sign up today for your Free E-mail at: http://www.canoe.ca/CanoeMail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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