Re: Re: Insecurity flea...just a thought

[Guest guest]

And the end result of all this is another insecure child...Carol

>> I have to say that I really feel for them all. The mother because

she is unable to trust him out of her sight and the little girl for

learning something that is not necessarily true for all men (they

aren't to be trusted).

> Many men are trust worthy. If a woman cannot trust a man to behave

himself by himself, then a woman has no business with that type of

man. He is worthless to all, but who ever he decides his creator is.<<

Something struck me about this story of the 3rd grader and her mother.

The mother insists her b/f live with her bcs he allegedly can't be

trusted. Maybe it has nothing to do with him? Maybe the mother can't

trust ANYONE and the boyfriend is part of the dysfunction? The girl's

mother sounds like a nut, and her boyfriend is probably mixed-up, too,

or he wouldn't tolerate being under constant suspect/scrutiny.

Of course I don't know any particulars, I was just looking at it from

a different angle. In any event my heart goes out to the child...

sunsh

[Guest guest]

And the end result of all this is another insecure child...Carol

>> I have to say that I really feel for them all. The mother because

she is unable to trust him out of her sight and the little girl for

learning something that is not necessarily true for all men (they

aren't to be trusted).

> Many men are trust worthy. If a woman cannot trust a man to behave

himself by himself, then a woman has no business with that type of

man. He is worthless to all, but who ever he decides his creator is.<<

Something struck me about this story of the 3rd grader and her mother.

The mother insists her b/f live with her bcs he allegedly can't be

trusted. Maybe it has nothing to do with him? Maybe the mother can't

trust ANYONE and the boyfriend is part of the dysfunction? The girl's

mother sounds like a nut, and her boyfriend is probably mixed-up, too,

or he wouldn't tolerate being under constant suspect/scrutiny.

Of course I don't know any particulars, I was just looking at it from

a different angle. In any event my heart goes out to the child...

sunsh

[Guest guest]

And the end result of all this is another insecure child...Carol

>> I have to say that I really feel for them all. The mother because

she is unable to trust him out of her sight and the little girl for

learning something that is not necessarily true for all men (they

aren't to be trusted).

> Many men are trust worthy. If a woman cannot trust a man to behave

himself by himself, then a woman has no business with that type of

man. He is worthless to all, but who ever he decides his creator is.<<

Something struck me about this story of the 3rd grader and her mother.

The mother insists her b/f live with her bcs he allegedly can't be

trusted. Maybe it has nothing to do with him? Maybe the mother can't

trust ANYONE and the boyfriend is part of the dysfunction? The girl's

mother sounds like a nut, and her boyfriend is probably mixed-up, too,

or he wouldn't tolerate being under constant suspect/scrutiny.

Of course I don't know any particulars, I was just looking at it from

a different angle. In any event my heart goes out to the child...

sunsh

[Guest guest]

you're right sunshine, it could be either way. I guess that I have seen more of

the type of men who couldn't be trusted beyond the tip of your nose. But it

could just be her insecurities. Regardless the little girl is getting the wrong

message about relationships. The mother really should not be involved in a

relationship if she is unable to trust whoever she's with no matter who's fault

its going on.

Debbie

Re: Insecurity flea...just a thought

>> I have to say that I really feel for them all. The mother because

she is unable to trust him out of her sight and the little girl for

learning something that is not necessarily true for all men (they

aren't to be trusted).

> Many men are trust worthy. If a woman cannot trust a man to behave

himself by himself, then a woman has no business with that type of

man. He is worthless to all, but who ever he decides his creator is.<<

Something struck me about this story of the 3rd grader and her mother.

The mother insists her b/f live with her bcs he allegedly can't be

trusted. Maybe it has nothing to do with him? Maybe the mother can't

trust ANYONE and the boyfriend is part of the dysfunction? The girl's

mother sounds like a nut, and her boyfriend is probably mixed-up, too,

or he wouldn't tolerate being under constant suspect/scrutiny.

Of course I don't know any particulars, I was just looking at it from

a different angle. In any event my heart goes out to the child...

sunsh

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