Re: New post to Scoutbonon Scout again

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> > I hope you keep posting. You sound like you are more advanced in

> your stage with " nada " .

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> No actually I'm starting to see more and more clearly that there is

> no advanced stage and if this list is any indication, there isn't

> much to hope for. Perspectives change but people don't, as evidenced

> by these exchanges on the list over the last week. I have nothing to

> do my mother and I don't wish to have anything to do with her, I was

> just hoping there was some possibility that I could take away some of

> the pain that comes from having had her in my life. But no, I don't

> see that happening. I don't see myself as having any more insight

> than anyone else, or as being any better than anyone else. Seeing the

> problem doesn't make one immune from being a part of the problem, but

> at least I can admit it. Not sure it makes any difference, but at

> this point, I guess I don't care. I'll stay here if nothing else to

> remind myself that it's not just ME who is incapable of healing or

> recovering, it's everyone else too and I shouldn't take it as a

> personal failure, which I guess helps, some. Misery loves company,

> right, isn't that we all keep showing ourselves and each other?