Guest guest Posted May 8, 2008 Report Share Posted May 8, 2008 How is his behaviours with his dad? Lois Issues I am having Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2008 Report Share Posted May 8, 2008 One of my clients whose 3 children were taken away from her due to unhealthy environment. She wanted to kill herself on the day the kids were removed from home. I understand her heart broken feeling. But when I visited her children at foster homes, they were in clean clothes, neat hair, ate good food, pretty happy but of course missing their mommy. Per court order, the mother will earn the kids' custody back if she can show improvement of life quality. Did you apply social services for support and guidance? Lan Subject: Issues I am havingTo: AutismBehaviorProblems Date: Wednesday, May 7, 2008, 6:18 PM I haven't been around for a long while. I have a 10 year old son named Ricky with Aspergers. Some of you may remember some of the problems I was having with my son at the end of last year and the beginning of this year. I decided in February to give over temporary custody of my son to his father for a couple of months. It was just suppossed to be until May. Now it has turned into a custody battle that is getting ugly. We had a Guardian ad Litem appointed to my case. I go back June 20th for another hearing. Hopefully this time, the court will let me have custody back of my son.I have not been doing very well with my son gone. Yes, I am glad not to have him constantly beating on me and leaving bruises. I am glad not to have the police in my home a couple times a week. I just miss my son and want to have him back to start over. He wants to come back with me as well.I have been doing all I can to get stronger and learn some more things about parenting my child. I have been going to parenting classes and reading anything I can get my hands on. I haven't really talked to many about this. I just felt like sharing. Has anyone here ever had their child taken away because of the behavior problems? I have been told that I may not be the right person to have custody of my son. It is so heartbreaking., NW OHIO Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Yahoo! Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2008 Report Share Posted May 8, 2008 Lan wrote: One of my clients whose 3 children were taken away from her due to unhealthy environment. She wanted to kill herself on the day the kids were removed from home. I understand her heart broken feeling. But when I visited her children at foster homes, they were in clean clothes, neat hair, ate good food, pretty happy but of course missing their mommy. Per court order, the mother will earn the kids' custody back if she can show improvement of life quality. Did you apply social services for support and guidance? This is an incredibly insensitive post. Furthermore, which do you think is more psychologically harmful--having uncombed hair or living in an unloving foster home with strangers? You have a strange perception of " life quality " !!! Ruth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 2008 Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 Sorry I haven't gotten back to anyone who wrote to me. I don't have a computer at home and I don't get to thel ibrary very much. I have good news. This afternoon I go to court and get temporary custody of my son back!! We have a guardian ad litem working on my case and she came by my apartment Saturday morning to see me and my son, who was here on visitation. Well, she told me that my son wasn't going back to his father on Sunday afternoon and that she filed an emergency hearing for today. My son's father and stepmother were very abusive to my son and she found out about it and called Children's Services and reported them. I am so glad to have my son back. He is doing good. We have alot to work on, but I am not giving up this time. I have a second chance. NW Ohio > > I haven't been around for a long while. I have a 10 year old son > named Ricky with Aspergers. Some of you may remember some of the > problems I was having with my son at the end of last year and the > beginning of this year. I decided in February to give over temporary > custody of my son to his father for a couple of months. It was just > suppossed to be until May. Now it has turned into a custody battle > that is getting ugly. We had a Guardian ad Litem appointed to my > case. I go back June 20th for another hearing. Hopefully this time, > the court will let me have custody back of my son. > > I have not been doing very well with my son gone. Yes, I am glad not > to have him constantly beating on me and leaving bruises. I am glad > not to have the police in my home a couple times a week. I just miss > my son and want to have him back to start over. He wants to come > back with me as well. > > I have been doing all I can to get stronger and learn some more > things about parenting my child. I have been going to parenting > classes and reading anything I can get my hands on. > > I haven't really talked to many about this. I just felt like > sharing. Has anyone here ever had their child taken away because of > the behavior problems? I have been told that I may not be the right > person to have custody of my son. It is so heartbreaking. > > , NW OHIO > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 2008 Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 I'm so sorry about what your son has gone through (and you as well). Thats great you have someone on your side though, working for your son. Congrats on getting him back. Here's to a new beginning!Good luck with everything,Jackiemlwpdb wrote: Sorry I haven't gotten back to anyone who wrote to me. I don't have a computer at home and I don't get to thel ibrary very much. I have good news. This afternoon I go to court and get temporary custody of my son back!! We have a guardian ad litem working on my case and she came by my apartment Saturday morning to see me and my son, who was here on visitation. Well, she told me that my son wasn't going back to his father on Sunday afternoon and that she filed an emergency hearing for today. My son's father and stepmother were very abusive to my son and she found out about it and called Children's Services and reported them. I am so glad to have my son back. He is doing good. We have alot to work on, but I am not giving up this time. I have a second chance. NW Ohio > > I haven't been around for a long while. I have a 10 year old son > named Ricky with Aspergers. Some of you may remember some of the > problems I was having with my son at the end of last year and the > beginning of this year. I decided in February to give over temporary > custody of my son to his father for a couple of months. It was just > suppossed to be until May. Now it has turned into a custody battle > that is getting ugly. We had a Guardian ad Litem appointed to my > case. I go back June 20th for another hearing. Hopefully this time, > the court will let me have custody back of my son. > > I have not been doing very well with my son gone. Yes, I am glad not > to have him constantly beating on me and leaving bruises. I am glad > not to have the police in my home a couple times a week. I just miss > my son and want to have him back to start over. He wants to come > back with me as well. > > I have been doing all I can to get stronger and learn some more > things about parenting my child. I have been going to parenting > classes and reading anything I can get my hands on. > > I haven't really talked to many about this. I just felt like > sharing. Has anyone here ever had their child taken away because of > the behavior problems? I have been told that I may not be the right > person to have custody of my son. It is so heartbreaking. > > , NW OHIO > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 2008 Report Share Posted May 27, 2008 I am happy that you have a second chance. I hope things work out well for all of you Allie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2008 Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 - I will do some research to see who can provide assistance with your son- could you be more specific about your location in Ohio? You are welcome to e-mail me personally. Re: Re: Issues I am having I'm so sorry about what your son has gone through (and you as well). Thats great you have someone on your side though, working for your son. Congrats on getting him back. Here's to a new beginning!Good luck with everything,Jackiemlwpdb <mlwpdbyahoo (DOT) com> wrote: Sorry I haven't gotten back to anyone who wrote to me. I don't have a computer at home and I don't get to thel ibrary very much. I have good news. This afternoon I go to court and get temporary custody of my son back!! We have a guardian ad litem working on my case and she came by my apartment Saturday morning to see me and my son, who was here on visitation. Well, she told me that my son wasn't going back to his father on Sunday afternoon and that she filed an emergency hearing for today. My son's father and stepmother were very abusive to my son and she found out about it and called Children's Services and reported them. I am so glad to have my son back. He is doing good. We have alot to work on, but I am not giving up this time. I have a second chance.NW Ohio>> I haven't been around for a long while. I have a 10 year old son > named Ricky with Aspergers. Some of you may remember some of the > problems I was having with my son at the end of last year and the > beginning of this year. I decided in February to give over temporary > custody of my son to his father for a couple of months. It was just > suppossed to be until May. Now it has turned into a custody battle > that is getting ugly. We had a Guardian ad Litem appointed to my > case. I go back June 20th for another hearing. Hopefully this time, > the court will let me have custody back of my son.> > I have not been doing very well with my son gone. Yes, I am glad not > to have him constantly beating on me and leaving bruises. I am glad > not to have the police in my home a couple times a week. I just miss > my son and want to have him back to start over. He wants to come > back with me as well.> > I have been doing all I can to get stronger and learn some more > things about parenting my child. I have been going to parenting > classes and reading anything I can get my hands on. > > I haven't really talked to many about this. I just felt like > sharing. Has anyone here ever had their child taken away because of > the behavior problems? I have been told that I may not be the right > person to have custody of my son. It is so heartbreaking.> > , NW OHIO> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2008 Report Share Posted May 29, 2008 , that is just great. i am happy for you. I am sorry your son had to go through that abuse. I am glad you have your son back. Stacie B Aurora IL Sorry I haven't gotten back to anyone who wrote to me. I don't have a computer at home and I don't get to thel ibrary very much. I have good news. This afternoon I go to court and get temporary custody of my son back!! We have a guardian ad litem working on my case and she came by my apartment Saturday morning to see me and my son, who was here on visitation. Well, she told me that my son wasn't going back to his father on Sunday afternoon and that she filed an emergency hearing for today. My son's father and stepmother were very abusive to my son and she found out about it and called Children's Services and reported them. I am so glad to have my son back. He is doing good. We have alot to work on, but I am not giving up this time. I have a second chance.NW Ohio>> I haven't been around for a long while. I have a 10 year old son > named Ricky with Aspergers. Some of you may remember some of the > problems I was having with my son at the end of last year and the > beginning of this year. I decided in February to give over temporary > custody of my son to his father for a couple of months. It was just > suppossed to be until May. Now it has turned into a custody battle > that is getting ugly. We had a Guardian ad Litem appointed to my > case. I go back June 20th for another hearing. Hopefully this time, > the court will let me have custody back of my son.> > I have not been doing very well with my son gone. Yes, I am glad not > to have him constantly beating on me and leaving bruises. I am glad > not to have the police in my home a couple times a week. I just miss > my son and want to have him back to start over. He wants to come > back with me as well.> > I have been doing all I can to get stronger and learn some more > things about parenting my child. I have been going to parenting > classes and reading anything I can get my hands on. > > I haven't really talked to many about this. I just felt like > sharing. Has anyone here ever had their child taken away because of > the behavior problems? I have been told that I may not be the right > person to have custody of my son. It is so heartbreaking.> > , NW OHIO> Get trade secrets for amazing burgers. Watch "Cooking with Tyler Florence" on AOL Food. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2008 Report Share Posted June 3, 2008 I live in Oregon, OH, suburb of Toledo( on the east side) > > > > I haven't been around for a long while. I have a 10 year old son > > named Ricky with Aspergers. Some of you may remember some of the > > problems I was having with my son at the end of last year and the > > beginning of this year. I decided in February to give over > temporary > > custody of my son to his father for a couple of months. It was > just > > suppossed to be until May. Now it has turned into a custody battle > > that is getting ugly. We had a Guardian ad Litem appointed to my > > case. I go back June 20th for another hearing. Hopefully this > time, > > the court will let me have custody back of my son. > > > > I have not been doing very well with my son gone. Yes, I am glad > not > > to have him constantly beating on me and leaving bruises. I am > glad > > not to have the police in my home a couple times a week. I just > miss > > my son and want to have him back to start over. He wants to come > > back with me as well. > > > > I have been doing all I can to get stronger and learn some more > > things about parenting my child. I have been going to parenting > > classes and reading anything I can get my hands on. > > > > I haven't really talked to many about this. I just felt like > > sharing. Has anyone here ever had their child taken away because > of > > the behavior problems? I have been told that I may not be the > right > > person to have custody of my son. It is so heartbreaking. > > > > , NW OHIO > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2008 Report Share Posted June 3, 2008 Thanks to everyone for your kind words. Everything so far is going really good. Very little behavior problems, so far. I hope to keep it that way. He went back to school for the last few days. His teachers told me that he is so much calmer and relaxed and more cooperative, than he was a few months ago. That is good news to me. > > > > I haven't been around for a long while. I have a 10 year old son > > named Ricky with Aspergers. Some of you may remember some of the > > problems I was having with my son at the end of last year and the > > beginning of this year. I decided in February to give over > temporary > > custody of my son to his father for a couple of months. It was > just > > suppossed to be until May. Now it has turned into a custody battle > > that is getting ugly. We had a Guardian ad Litem appointed to my > > case. I go back June 20th for another hearing. Hopefully this > time, > > the court will let me have custody back of my son. > > > > I have not been doing very well with my son gone. Yes, I am glad > not > > to have him constantly beating on me and leaving bruises. I am > glad > > not to have the police in my home a couple times a week. I just > miss > > my son and want to have him back to start over. He wants to come > > back with me as well. > > > > I have been doing all I can to get stronger and learn some more > > things about parenting my child. I have been going to parenting > > classes and reading anything I can get my hands on. > > > > I haven't really talked to many about this. I just felt like > > sharing. Has anyone here ever had their child taken away because > of > > the behavior problems? I have been told that I may not be the > right > > person to have custody of my son. It is so heartbreaking. > > > > , NW OHIO > > > > > > > > > > **************Get trade secrets for amazing burgers. Watch " Cooking with > Tyler Florence " on AOL Food. > (http://food.aol.com/tyler-florence?video=4 & ? NCID=aolfod00030000000002) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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