Re: Cathy- boxes/funerals OT

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I too thought that was what I wanted until I was visiting my parents grave

and notice all the bird doo doo all over the headstone and grave that was

under a tree. I have trouble with people doing that to me when I'm alive so

I don't want it to happen to me on purpose after I'm dead. I'm going to be

cremated, dust to dust, but buried in a family plot in Indiana. ,

well he told the kids not to let me cremate him. He wants to be remembered

after he dies he says. I want to be remembered before I die. He doesn't

think I would get a head stone and I guess I would just cast him into the

wind. Also he wants to be buried where all the other CHILDS are buried. No

one goes there to make sure the grave sites are kept up and I don't want to

go there. Suppose he would haunt me if I didn't do what he wanted?

Don't want to be haunted

in Texas

Re: boxes/funerals OT/ slightly religious

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> >A simple cardboard box is over $600.00. I told my sister to forget that

> >and

> >instead go to a grocery store, grab a few boxes and size it to match.

With

> >any luck I'll die when I'm a bit older and will have shrunk causing less

> >carboard, tape and labour.

> >me, just cremate me, and if donnie goes later he wants a casket, put me

in

> >there iwth him and all our critters ashes too,. otherwise take my ashes

to

> >the

> >beautiful beach under a lighthouse that will lead me home to Him. that is

> >what

> >i have always wanted, i know i a weird. sharon m

> >a smile a day keeps the meanies away!!!

> >laughter is a breath of fresh air!

> >

> >

> >

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,

Well now I had never thought of that.......LOL

I may have to do some rethinking.

How are you and Holly and ? I think of you all so very very often.

M

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>:

>I too thought that was what I wanted until I was visiting my parents grave

>and notice all the bird doo doo all over the headstone and grave that was

>under a tree. I have trouble with people doing that to me when I'm alive

>so

>I don't want it to happen to me on purpose after I'm dead. I'm going to be

>cremated, dust to dust, but buried in a family plot in Indiana. ,

>well he told the kids not to let me cremate him. He wants to be remembered

>after he dies he says. I want to be remembered before I die. He doesn't

>think I would get a head stone and I guess I would just cast him into the

>wind. Also he wants to be buried where all the other CHILDS are buried.

>No

>one goes there to make sure the grave sites are kept up and I don't want to

>go there. Suppose he would haunt me if I didn't do what he wanted?

>

>Don't want to be haunted

> in Texas

> Re: boxes/funerals OT/ slightly religious

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> > >

> > >In a message dated 9/11/2004 3:19:40 AM Central Daylight Time,

>gaat@...

> > >writes:

> > >A simple cardboard box is over $600.00. I told my sister to forget

>that

> > >and

> > >instead go to a grocery store, grab a few boxes and size it to match.

>With

> > >any luck I'll die when I'm a bit older and will have shrunk causing

>less

> > >carboard, tape and labour.

> > >me, just cremate me, and if donnie goes later he wants a casket, put me

>in

> > >there iwth him and all our critters ashes too,. otherwise take my ashes

>to

> > >the

> > >beautiful beach under a lighthouse that will lead me home to Him. that

>is

> > >what

> > >i have always wanted, i know i a weird. sharon m

> > >a smile a day keeps the meanies away!!!

> > >laughter is a breath of fresh air!

> > >

> > >

> > >

[Guest guest]

:

Long days and short nights kinda describes my time. can only stay

at Holly's so long then he has to come home. Holly on the other hand has

many needs and her husband Walt works two jobs so I can't just walk out the

door and say " Take care of yourself. " Walt works, anyway right now, for

Delta Airlines. They are shutting down the maintenance facility here. They

will either move to Atlanta, not really an option, or Tampa, possibility, or

find a job with a different company here, their real choice (my choice to

keep my grandson here). They need insurance for her and Adam. Regardless

of what GEORGE says, there are no jobs out there or at least I can't find

one. Of course Walt has different talents and is a tad younger so he may

walk into something.

is getting more confused everyday. It is hard to carry on a

conversation with him and stay on the same subject. Lewy seems to have his

own vocabulary and train of thought. OR maybe we missed the train all

together. Ask him a stock price today and he will rattle it off for you.

Did he eat, doesn't have a clue. Life has to be easier than this.

Keep me/us in your Prayers

That is where my strength is coming from especially days when I can't seem

to win.

in Texas

Re: boxes/funerals OT/ slightly religious

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> > > >In a message dated 9/11/2004 3:19:40 AM Central Daylight Time,

> >gaat@...

> > > >writes:

> > > >A simple cardboard box is over $600.00. I told my sister to forget

> >that

> > > >and

> > > >instead go to a grocery store, grab a few boxes and size it to match.

> >With

> > > >any luck I'll die when I'm a bit older and will have shrunk causing

> >less

> > > >carboard, tape and labour.

> > > >me, just cremate me, and if donnie goes later he wants a casket, put

me

> >in

> > > >there iwth him and all our critters ashes too,. otherwise take my

ashes

> >to

> > > >the

> > > >beautiful beach under a lighthouse that will lead me home to Him.

that

> >is

> > > >what

> > > >i have always wanted, i know i a weird. sharon m

> > > >a smile a day keeps the meanies away!!!

> > > >laughter is a breath of fresh air!

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >