Re: Crazy frustration

[Guest guest]

We all have those days. I have a 4 year old daughter and 2 year old son. And I spend my time between finishing school (thank goodness i only have 20 days left), and running between doctor and therapy appointments. I try to find other resources and have actually been told " what do you want a cure, there isnt one".I just came home and cried. No one can understand unless going through it. This group is really good for helping through those days. After I have a ranting day I save the responses I get back so I can go back and read them later to remind myself I am not alone. Take every moment step by step and make it through one day at a time.

To: autism-aspergers Sent: Wednesday, October 26, 2011 10:08 AMSubject: Crazy frustration

Good Morning all..I try to project postitive, but frankly today I feel anything but.My son's 14 and 22 were only diagnosed within the last year and a half. I have been running around like a crazy person since. To make things worse Iam realizing that my brother(40) has Autism as well. I am a co-dependant want to fix everyone around me kinda person and I feel like I'm on a sinking ship. I guess what sparked me was reading other people's post. I feel like we are being bambuzzled by the system. We as parents are doing anything possible to help our children, we take them to the doctor,we medicate,we try therapy and etc. Then a doctor, a school professional,a therapist,etc gives their opinion like their a God. No feeling, no account how it might affect the parent for they don't have to live our lives. Why would they possibly think we are making up behaviors we see, aren't we the best resource of how our kids act because we are with them a

majority of the time? Why would I lie!!!!!!!!!!!! I want HELP for my family, I want answers, I don't want a hand out or sympathy. I see why people go nutso.. It is out of frustration. My youngest son goes to a great school for spectrum kids, but you can see the parent's faces and see they feel it.. I don't think anyone really knows what the best course of action is, we are all just trying to survive. My oldest(22) is harder because of his age. I have taken him to Vocational Rehab, therapy,doctors. I have followed their reccommendations and I'm still in the same spot. I'm sorry for rambling. I let crazy out for a moment,now I need to put on my happy face.

[Guest guest]

I just wanted to encourage you to keep on advocating for your children. They

need you so much. It sounds like you are doing a great job. I am sure there

are many children who think, " I wish I had a parent like that. " I do know how

hard the road can be. I am feeling like I have caused my son's autism so I have

to fix it. I am getting counseling for this.

Blessings,

Margaret

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> Good Morning all..

> I try to project postitive, but frankly today I feel anything but.

> My son's 14 and 22 were only diagnosed within the last year and a half. I have

been running around like a crazy person since. To make things worse Iam

realizing that my brother(40) has Autism as well. I am a co-dependant want to

fix everyone around me kinda person and I feel like I'm on a sinking ship.

> I guess what sparked me was reading other people's post. I feel like we are

being bambuzzled by the system. We as parents are doing anything possible to

help our children, we take them to the doctor,we medicate,we try therapy and

etc. Then a doctor, a school professional,a therapist,etc gives their opinion

like their a God. No feeling, no account how it might affect the parent for they

don't have to live our lives. Why would they possibly think we are making up

behaviors we see, aren't we the best resource of how our kids act because we are

with them a majority of the time? Why would I lie!!!!!!!!!!!! I want HELP for my

family, I want answers, I don't want a hand out or sympathy.

> I see why people go nutso.. It is out of frustration.

> My youngest son goes to a great school for spectrum kids, but you can see the

parent's faces and see they feel it.. I don't think anyone really knows what the

best course of action is, we are all just trying to survive. My oldest(22) is

harder because of his age. I have taken him to Vocational Rehab,

therapy,doctors. I have followed their reccommendations and I'm still in the

same spot.

>

>

> I'm sorry for rambling. I let crazy out for a moment,now I need to put on my

happy face.

>

[Guest guest]

I just wanted to say that I understand the frustration. You're trying to be everything to everyone and dealing with all the feelings that go along with diagnosis, acceptance, etc. Its hard, and there isn't always support for the one who has to hold it all together. I have an 11 year old boy and we've been dealing with this stuff since before he was in school. This 'stuff' has led up to now, we're sitting and waiting for an official diagnosis of Asperger's. Years of dealing with therapists, doctors, specialists...and it takes until now, and basically my push to get them to explore the spectrum. Those years have been full of stress, anxiety, pain, fear, etc and even now, we're playing the waiting game. The emotions that go along with all of it take their toll on you for sure!

Hang in there, when you need to, lock yourself in the bathroom and have a good long cry, buck convention and have ice cream for dinner, do whatever it takes to give yourself a break and whatever you do, don't beat yourself up!

[Guest guest]

There may not be a cure - but everything you are doing now WILL PAY OFF! I remember when my son was little thinking the same thing and having those tough days when you think you can't keep going. Your children are so lucky to have a mother who cares enough to do all of the running and searching for answers! Now at 14 I look at my son and feel so blessed because he is doing well. This group was a life line for me then too! Keep the faith.

LJ

Crazy frustration

Good Morning all..

I try to project postitive, but frankly today I feel anything but.

My son's 14 and 22 were only diagnosed within the last year and a half. I have been running around like a crazy person since. To make things worse Iam realizing that my brother(40) has Autism as well. I am a co-dependant want to fix everyone around me kinda person and I feel like I'm on a sinking ship.

I guess what sparked me was reading other people's post. I feel like we are being bambuzzled by the system. We as parents are doing anything possible to help our children, we take them to the doctor,we medicate,we try therapy and etc. Then a doctor, a school professional,a therapist,etc gives their opinion like their a God. No feeling, no account how it might affect the parent for they don't have to live our lives. Why would they possibly think we are making up behaviors we see, aren't we the best resource of how our kids act because we are with them a majority of the time? Why would I lie!!!!!!!!!!!! I want HELP for my family, I want answers, I don't want a hand out or sympathy.

I see why people go nutso.. It is out of frustration.

My youngest son goes to a great school for spectrum kids, but you can see the parent's faces and see they feel it.. I don't think anyone really knows what the best course of action is, we are all just trying to survive. My oldest(22) is harder because of his age. I have taken him to Vocational Rehab, therapy,doctors. I have followed their reccommendations and I'm still in the same spot.

I'm sorry for rambling. I let crazy out for a moment,now I need to put on my happy face.

[Guest guest]

i can understand your feelings completely. my daughters severely autistic and

delayed and 14 yrs old.

i feel wore out

i feel insufficient

i just want to rest

but i am enough to keep her safe and happy

so i pray for God to make my way a little easier so i can keep going

lots of love to you - it's a hard road for us

Cammy

http://stores.ebay.com/Cammys-Clothing-Treasures

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> Good Morning all..

> I try to project postitive, but frankly today I feel anything but.

> My son's 14 and 22 were only diagnosed within the last year and a half. I have

been running around like a crazy person since. To make things worse Iam

realizing that my brother(40) has Autism as well. I am a co-dependant want to

fix everyone around me kinda person and I feel like I'm on a sinking ship.

> I guess what sparked me was reading other people's post. I feel like we are

being bambuzzled by the system. We as parents are doing anything possible to

help our children, we take them to the doctor,we medicate,we try therapy and

etc. Then a doctor, a school professional,a therapist,etc gives their opinion

like their a God. No feeling, no account how it might affect the parent for they

don't have to live our lives. Why would they possibly think we are making up

behaviors we see, aren't we the best resource of how our kids act because we are

with them a majority of the time? Why would I lie!!!!!!!!!!!! I want HELP for my

family, I want answers, I don't want a hand out or sympathy.

> I see why people go nutso.. It is out of frustration.

> My youngest son goes to a great school for spectrum kids, but you can see the

parent's faces and see they feel it.. I don't think anyone really knows what the

best course of action is, we are all just trying to survive. My oldest(22) is

harder because of his age. I have taken him to Vocational Rehab,

therapy,doctors. I have followed their reccommendations and I'm still in the

same spot.

>

>

> I'm sorry for rambling. I let crazy out for a moment,now I need to put on my

happy face.

>

[Guest guest]

I think that " essay " should be published. That is how I feel and I am not sure how we can help everyone understand.

You're not alone!!!!! These emails and comments make me feel a little more like a real person. Not so crazy!!

 

i can understand your feelings completely. my daughters severely autistic and delayed and 14 yrs old.i feel wore outi feel insufficienti just want to restbut i am enough to keep her safe and happy

so i pray for God to make my way a little easier so i can keep goinglots of love to you - it's a hard road for usCammyhttp://stores.ebay.com/Cammys-Clothing-Treasures

>> Good Morning all..> I try to project postitive, but frankly today I feel anything but.

> My son's 14 and 22 were only diagnosed within the last year and a half. I have been running around like a crazy person since. To make things worse Iam realizing that my brother(40) has Autism as well. I am a co-dependant want to fix everyone around me kinda person and I feel like I'm on a sinking ship.

> I guess what sparked me was reading other people's post. I feel like we are being bambuzzled by the system. We as parents are doing anything possible to help our children, we take them to the doctor,we medicate,we try therapy and etc. Then a doctor, a school professional,a therapist,etc gives their opinion like their a God. No feeling, no account how it might affect the parent for they don't have to live our lives. Why would they possibly think we are making up behaviors we see, aren't we the best resource of how our kids act because we are with them a majority of the time? Why would I lie!!!!!!!!!!!! I want HELP for my family, I want answers, I don't want a hand out or sympathy.

> I see why people go nutso.. It is out of frustration. > My youngest son goes to a great school for spectrum kids, but you can see the parent's faces and see they feel it.. I don't think anyone really knows what the best course of action is, we are all just trying to survive. My oldest(22) is harder because of his age. I have taken him to Vocational Rehab, therapy,doctors. I have followed their reccommendations and I'm still in the same spot.

> > > I'm sorry for rambling. I let crazy out for a moment,now I need to put on my happy face.>

[Guest guest]

Hi Everyone!

We were where you are now. Yes you can cure, heal, reverse autism and other neurological and digestive disorders. We are doing just that! So don't be crazy and frustrated.

: Autism: Compromised Immune System

Autism, ASD, ADD, ADHD, Dyspraxia, Dyslexia, Depression, Schizophrenia, Allergies, Eczema, Asthma, have one underlying factor: A COMPROMISED IMMUNE SYSTEM.Gut and Psychology Syndrome-by Dr. Natasha -McBrideThere is no cure for autism at this point in time. Once autistic, always autistic. There is no cure for diabetes.My analogy is diabetes. Once a diabetic always a

diabetic. You can reverse the symptoms of diabetes by regulating and reversing the symptoms through diet/supplements/insulin/lifestyle changes/doctor. Deviating from any of the above mentioned can cause horrible negative reactions. This diabetic person can reverse the diabetes to a point of healing where they can lead a productive life.We are reversing my grandson, 's autism through:1. Natural Diet (Foods To Avoid/Foods Recommended List)2. Whole Foods and Natural Supplementation (NES Scans)3. Detoxing Through Lifestyle Changes4. Programming and SchedulingThe same holds true for autism and the other above mentioned. I have learned through Dr's Greene and that through diet (not GFCF Diet). Her diet

allows the body to help heal and seal the gut which in turn helps to heal the brain.Dr Natasha 's GAPS diet recommends the consumption of eggs, butter, natural cheeses,and coconut milk. Her FOODS TO AVOID/FOODS RECOMMENDED LIST) can be found in the books \'s Window/www.brandonswindow.com and Gut and Psychology/.www.gaps.meDr. Greene's whole food supplementation/www.wakeuptonutrition.com and his expertise of NES scans/om, NES Health.com, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pn4h3Ek-F68 Detoxing through lifestyle changes (Gut

and Psychology Syndrome/'s Window)Scheduling and Program Implementing ('s Window/Gut and Psychology Syndrome)You can reverse the symptoms of autism and begin healing to lead a productive life. This regimen has to become a way of life so the inflammation which causes the COMPROMISED IMMUNE SYSTEM will not reoccur. Heal the gut, you can heal the brain. It is that simple but it's hard consistent work.Dr. Natasha believes" Vaccines do not cause autism, it triggers it. She believes that it is the straw that broke the camels back".'s immune system is so strong that he has not been sick in 30 months, Thank You Jesus!Seeing is believing!!!! For more information go to www.brandonswindow.com and get direct links to over 200

videos of 's amazing progress. Reversing my grandson \'s autism is a blessing!! Blessings are a choice, you can choose to accept a blessing or let it pass you by.My grandson, lives in Stone Mountain Georgia, and Dr. Greene lives in Decatur, Georgia. Our plight is to help others!!!If you have any questions, feel free to contact me (1) or email brandonswindow@...http://www.youtube.com/user/lynneanthonybrandonwww.brandonswindow.comhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdMB6j58vzE www.wakeuptonutrition.comwww.neshealth.comwww.mihealth.comwww.gaps.me

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Subject: Re: Crazy frustrationTo: autism-aspergers Date: Thursday, October 27, 2011, 4:19 PM

There may not be a cure - but everything you are doing now WILL PAY OFF! I remember when my son was little thinking the same thing and having those tough days when you think you can't keep going. Your children are so lucky to have a mother who cares enough to do all of the running and searching for answers! Now at 14 I look at my son and feel so blessed because he is doing well. This group was a life line for me then too! Keep the faith.

LJ

Crazy frustration

Good Morning all..I try to project postitive, but frankly today I feel anything but.My son's 14 and 22 were only diagnosed within the last year and a half. I have been running around like a crazy person since. To make things worse Iam realizing that my brother(40) has Autism as well. I am a co-dependant want to fix everyone around me kinda person and I feel like I'm on a sinking ship. I guess what sparked me was reading other people's post. I feel like we are being bambuzzled by the system. We as parents are doing anything possible to help our children, we take them to the doctor,we medicate,we try therapy and etc. Then a doctor, a school professional,a therapist,etc gives their opinion like their a God. No feeling, no account how it might affect the parent for they don't have to live our lives. Why would they possibly think we are making up behaviors we see, aren't we the best resource of how our kids act because we are with them a

majority of the time? Why would I lie!!!!!!!!!!!! I want HELP for my family, I want answers, I don't want a hand out or sympathy. I see why people go nutso.. It is out of frustration. My youngest son goes to a great school for spectrum kids, but you can see the parent's faces and see they feel it.. I don't think anyone really knows what the best course of action is, we are all just trying to survive. My oldest(22) is harder because of his age. I have taken him to Vocational Rehab, therapy,doctors. I have followed their reccommendations and I'm still in the same spot. I'm sorry for rambling. I let crazy out for a moment,now I need to put on my happy face.