Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 Hello, I am new to this group and am hoping to become more educated about LBD. I guess I should start with some basics first. My name is Swanson. I have been caring for my mother full time since 2/03, because of other diagnosed medical problems. She currently has not been diagnosed with LBD, but from everything I have read about it, this seems to be what I will have her check for next. I'm not trying to self diagnose her but with her many other health problems, it is difficult to just get her to a Dr. and for yet another problem is not going to make it easier to get her to go. So, here are my questions really, at least the first that come to mind in trying to figure out if this is the right path to pursue or if time would be better spent in another way. For those who are caring for someone in the more advanced stages, is it really necessary to have a diagnosis? I mean, is putting a name to the symptoms really important? What Most stories I have read about learned that their loved one had LBD once they were in a more advanced stage. So, to those of you who can look back on your situation, what were the early warning signs (even if they were overlooked at the time) and how long did they go on before it was realized that there was a more serious problem going on? What ongoing symptoms do you see in your loved one? I ask this because with my mother, it's becoming harder and harder to tell what state of mind she is in at any given time. She has Parkinson's like symptoms, although her Dr. said he seriously doesn't think it is Parkinsons. This past weekend, she was in a total different world. She was talking to people that wasn't there, trying to do things that she couldn't physically do (she is in a wheel chair all of the time) like get out of bed. So she fell onto the floor. Later she didn't even know that she had done that. My brother lives in New York, but according to her, he frequently visits her. I could just go on and on and on with the adventures we have had lately. None of which are real. But she can't tell the difference. Anyway, my husband noticed right away, that she had no tremors while she was in this state. IT lasted from Friday night until mid-day Sunday. Then she crashed, I mean finally slept hard. I had to rub her arm and call her name loudly and such just to waken her for a meal or medicine. She is in bed most of the time and seems to like it that way. But during this period of hallucinations, she was more active, vocally more vibrant, and less sleepy. Quite honesly, we seem to like her better this way because it is more like the woman I have always known. I'm sorry to jumble so many things together. Any information you care to share with me would be very much appreciated. Whjether this turns out to actually be LBD or something else, it's so nice to know that others in similar situations are out there and so gracious to be there to support others. Thanks you all so much for taking the time to listen. Swanson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 denise, my name is sharon m and i am caregiver along iwth my husband donnie for my 70 year old father who was diagnosed with lbd this past may. he has probably had lbd for almost 7years, which started with unexpliained falls, extreme paranoid and fluctuating awareness becasme part of it. he is currently on the 3rd level of exelon 4.5 mg twice a day. he has platuead meaning he isnt getting worse and may een seem a little better. for how long of course we dont know. you ask about having the diagnosis of lbd, wellk i believe it is important beause lbd patients do not respond normally to meedicines and you would need to be awared of whatever medicines cause her distress, like sinemet for restless leg syndrome made dad a real bears, not even 1/4 of the dose could he take it made him so ugly, yelling and screaming and very profane and vulgar, other medicines make lbd patients react stragnely as welll so for that reason iti s important to know the diagosis,. also it gave mty dad peace of mind actully knowing e had a real disease and just wasnt imagaining soething. sigh, i hope some of this helps, please feel free to ask questions, ake statements, we are here to help you in any wya we can. take care and good luc, sharon m a smile a day keeps the meanies away!!! laughter is a breath of fresh air! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 Hi, I do wish that I had a diagnosis earlier so that I would not have been so angry at my mother for some of the things she did. I thought she was having a nervous breakdown and thought that she was doing things on purpose, just to get attention. Boy was I wrong, but I spent so much time being angry at her rather than angry at the disease that I missed out on what could have been some of her last lucid days. I did eventually learn to " go with " the hallucinations and it made both of us alot happier. Unfortunately alot of her disbeliefs were of the paranoid nature and she was so suspicious and angry that we finally had to agree to put her on medication to ease her mind. She is less " aware " now but a little more calm. I believe that a diagnosis is necessary so that more doctors, nurses and society in general become more aware of the disease. Until my mum's diagnosis I had only heard of Alzheimers and now know that the $ for research is being spent primarily on AD and not so much on the other dementias. Just my opinions! Annette " D. C. Swanson " wrote: Hello, I am new to this group and am hoping to become more educated about LBD. I guess I should start with some basics first. My name is Swanson. I have been caring for my mother full time since 2/03, because of other diagnosed medical problems. She currently has not been diagnosed with LBD, but from everything I have read about it, this seems to be what I will have her check for next. I'm not trying to self diagnose her but with her many other health problems, it is difficult to just get her to a Dr. and for yet another problem is not going to make it easier to get her to go. So, here are my questions really, at least the first that come to mind in trying to figure out if this is the right path to pursue or if time would be better spent in another way. For those who are caring for someone in the more advanced stages, is it really necessary to have a diagnosis? I mean, is putting a name to the symptoms really important? What Most stories I have read about learned that their loved one had LBD once they were in a more advanced stage. So, to those of you who can look back on your situation, what were the early warning signs (even if they were overlooked at the time) and how long did they go on before it was realized that there was a more serious problem going on? What ongoing symptoms do you see in your loved one? I ask this because with my mother, it's becoming harder and harder to tell what state of mind she is in at any given time. She has Parkinson's like symptoms, although her Dr. said he seriously doesn't think it is Parkinsons. This past weekend, she was in a total different world. She was talking to people that wasn't there, trying to do things that she couldn't physically do (she is in a wheel chair all of the time) like get out of bed. So she fell onto the floor. Later she didn't even know that she had done that. My brother lives in New York, but according to her, he frequently visits her. I could just go on and on and on with the adventures we have had lately. None of which are real. But she can't tell the difference. Anyway, my husband noticed right away, that she had no tremors while she was in this state. IT lasted from Friday night until mid-day Sunday. Then she crashed, I mean finally slept hard. I had to rub her arm and call her name loudly and such just to waken her for a meal or medicine. She is in bed most of the time and seems to like it that way. But during this period of hallucinations, she was more active, vocally more vibrant, and less sleepy. Quite honesly, we seem to like her better this way because it is more like the woman I have always known. I'm sorry to jumble so many things together. Any information you care to share with me would be very much appreciated. Whjether this turns out to actually be LBD or something else, it's so nice to know that others in similar situations are out there and so gracious to be there to support others. Thanks you all so much for taking the time to listen. Swanson Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 Hello , Welcome to the group and nice to have you here. There is alot of information here in the files that has helped me. I have LBD and I am not in the late stages of the disease. Not exactly sure what stage I am in, but I would say I have early dementia. To tell you what the first symptom was I cannot do that as I myself am not sure where the parkinsonism ends and the LBD begins. I can tell you that I have had problems since my 30's. It was around ten years before I ever saw a neurologist as I could always explain away the symptoms. It was upon a surmounting amount of them that started affecting my ambulation and staying erect that I finally went. As the matter of fact it was a fall at work that first sent me to the neurologist. After going it was another 7 years before the PD diagnosis and because the symptoms were moving more rapidly than PD is why he gave me a parkisonism diagnosis. I became delusional and hallucinatory in 2002 and declined to the point I was hositalized in 2003 where I was kept for 5 weeks before they found a good drug regimen that would bring me under control. I now am on a plateau and I am trying to hang onto it as long as I can. BTW I am just 55 now and have just recently learned that it is Diffuse Lewy Body Disease. So here I am learning what I can to hang on as long as I can and praying for a cure. I would be pleased to answer what questions I can....Hugs....Patti > Hello, > I am new to this group and am hoping to become more educated about LBD. I guess I should start with some basics first. My name is Swanson. I have been caring for my mother full time since 2/03, because of other diagnosed medical problems. She currently has not been diagnosed with LBD, but from everything I have read about it, this seems to be what I will have her check for next. I'm not trying to self diagnose her but with her many other health problems, it is difficult to just get her to a Dr. and for yet another problem is not going to make it easier to get her to go. So, here are my questions really, at least the first that come to mind in trying to figure out if this is the right path to pursue or if time would be better spent in another way. > For those who are caring for someone in the more advanced stages, is it really necessary to have a diagnosis? I mean, is putting a name to the symptoms really important? What > Most stories I have read about learned that their loved one had LBD once they were in a more advanced stage. So, to those of you who can look back on your situation, what were the early warning signs (even if they were overlooked at the time) and how long did they go on before it was realized that there was a more serious problem going on? > What ongoing symptoms do you see in your loved one? I ask this because with my mother, it's becoming harder and harder to tell what state of mind she is in at any given time. She has Parkinson's like symptoms, although her Dr. said he seriously doesn't think it is Parkinsons. This past weekend, she was in a total different world. She was talking to people that wasn't there, trying to do things that she couldn't physically do (she is in a wheel chair all of the time) like get out of bed. So she fell onto the floor. Later she didn't even know that she had done that. My brother lives in New York, but according to her, he frequently visits her. I could just go on and on and on with the adventures we have had lately. None of which are real. But she can't tell the difference. Anyway, my husband noticed right away, that she had no tremors while she was in this state. IT lasted from Friday night until mid-day Sunday. Then she crashed, I mean finally slept hard. I had to rub her arm and call her name loudly and such just to waken her for a meal or medicine. She is in bed most of the time and seems to like it that way. But during this period of hallucinations, she was more active, vocally more vibrant, and less sleepy. Quite honesly, we seem to like her better this way because it is more like the woman I have always known. > > I'm sorry to jumble so many things together. Any information you care to share with me would be very much appreciated. Whjether this turns out to actually be LBD or something else, it's so nice to know that others in similar situations are out there and so gracious to be there to support others. > > Thanks you all so much for taking the time to listen. > > Swanson > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 I have to agree with the advise you have received here. My Mom has LBD and she wasn't diagnosed until last year. She had the signs for at least 5 yrs prior but no one found out what it was until then. She hallucinates and is angry quite a bit. There is an overview in the files that you might want to look at. It gives some of the signs that indicate LBD. I handed that out to alot of people who didn't know what it was. Including the medical people in the Emergency Room I took her to recently. The doctors hadn't heard of it. The right meds are important to her safety. My Mom was not doing well on Seroquel but most people with LBD do. Right now she is on Exelon and Resperdal (small dose) and seems to be doing better. You indicated she has other medical problems, so does Mom. She has asbestosis around her lungs, a heart problem and has had cancer to boot. So she is on quite a few meds. I continually have her doctors go over her meds to make sure they all get along together. Please get her to the right doctors asap. The more you know the better you can take care of her. You and your Mom are in my daily prayers. Hugs to you Jacqui Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 Not being an MD, I wouldn't attempt to diagnose your mother. In terms of actual handling of the disease, I'm not sure a diagnosis is really absolutely necessary. My Dad was diagnosed in 1997, early in the disease when he was having falls, some Parkinson-like symptoms and one day was talking to my husband (who lives an hour away from him) in the closet. It was this last inappropriate activity that brought us to a new neurologist who made the diagnosis. Did giving it a name really matter? Not so much in terms of treatment, but it helps to give it a name and know that the various symptoms are known to the disease. Because of the fluctuations of symptoms, it's easy to think that someone isn't really ill, maybe " milking " a situation or " faking " it. It's helpful to know that the fluctuations are part and parcel of this miserable disease. My Dad's episode with unreality lasted on and off for several weeks and although he's become a much sicker, frailer man, has never recurred in the same way. There are times when his blood pressure is very so low that he's not quite sure of where he is for very brief durations. At times he has has trouble with judgement and direction, but on the whole is quite rooted in reality. I wish you well in handling your mother's illness. It's a roller coaster. The silver lining for me is that I've gotten much closer to my Dad because of his illness and I've learned love and patience in a way that I never experienced before, even as a parent to three children. This board is a wonderful place to ask questions, get information and support. There are some very loving and expressive people here, Although I'm not a " regular " poster, I look forward to reading the posts daily. Gitch Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 , Welcome! My Mom has been gone for 2 years and your information looked so familiar. I hate to rain on everyone else's parade, but having never gotten a diagnosis for my mother, I went to specialists, and they almost destroyed Mom. So even if you find specialists, make sure they are aware of LBD. THe clue that I finally had was the falls Mom was having way back in the beginning. She never had tremors, and was first diagnosed with AD. She lived away from me and by the time I found out all of what was happening, she would not come and live with me until the MD gave her no alternatives. I had her for 3 years and she slept every other night. No one ever believed me when I said every other night and that is all she slept. It was the specialist who took her legs out from under her by giving her meds he should have never given her., Mom could never take much in the line of meds at all. When I gave her meds the MD prescribed, I usually cut them in half or quarters.. When nothing else worked that did. Please find some one who knows what they are doing. Donna R Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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