Guest guest Posted October 1, 2005 Report Share Posted October 1, 2005 Hi I was sitting here thinking about my Mom's viewing and funeral. You would think they were sad occasions, but they weren't. My nephew said it best when he said they were the happiest he had ever attended. We were all happy she was at peace and out of pain. Everyone commented on how beautiful she looked. More like her old self. She wore the sexy pink nightgown she bought some years back and never got a chance to wear. There were some tears but mainly it was remember when she...or she told me...or she helped me with...and a lot of laughter. We celebrated her life before LBD. At the funeral mass the priest asked us who Irene was and we answered him. She was a wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother, but most of all she was the one who kept this family together with lots of love and wisdom. One of my daughters got up and read something she wrote 6 mos ago when she was suppose to die. She had a close call but sprang back, she was a fighter. Lori (daughter) said growing up next door to her grandparents was one of the best gifts I could have given my children. I have to agree because I was a widow with 5 kids to raise and Mom helped me many a time. Will I miss my Mom....you bet. But I will remember she is still with me in my heart and soul. I talk to her even now. One of the hardest things is going thru her things and deciding what to keep and what to give away. My brother is here helping with that. I just wanted to let you all know that I am alright but won't be posting for awhile. We are taking my parents ashes to their home town of Fort Kent, Maine to be buried in the family plot. Mom is finally going home like she wanted. After that I am going to Alaska for a month to visit with Lori and her family and take some time for me. One last thing, we are going to have Xmas Eve at Mom's one last time before we sell the house. I will be doing all the cooking like usual. My heart goes out to all of you that have lost a LO this year. I am walking in your shoes. For those of you that still have your LO's..give them an extra hug and kiss for me. You are all in my prayers. Jacqui Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2005 Report Share Posted October 1, 2005 Jacqui, Thanks for sharing this with us. Your mom is proud. I will certainly give my mom a big hug and kiss on your and your mom's behalf. Take some much needed time for yourself - your mom would want you to. Sending you strength, Courage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2005 Report Share Posted October 2, 2005 Jacqui- I am so sorry that you have lost you Mother and you have my deepest sympathy. I lost my Dad 3 weeks ago today andI too feel like we are walking in the same shoes. Just as you do, I talk to my Dad. He has helped me solve problems even after his death. He is still here for me in a way. You mentioned that your Mom lived next to you. Well, the same with our family. I was divorced and my parents, who lived next to me, helped to raise my 3 children. One of the things that the priest talked about at Dad's mass was how he made each and every grand and great grandchild feel like they were the only one and he always had time for them. Aren't we lucky that we had such wonderful parents? The road has been rocky the last few weeks. I think the first week I was numb. I am at the point where I am tired of tearful outbursts and mourning, but I understand it is normal at this point. I am anxious for the time when I can smile about all his wonderful memories, rather than cry. I want you to know Jacqui that I will be thinking of you and pray that you will be enjoying life again soon. Enjoy your time with your daughter. Sincerely, Gerry Wilmington, De. From: mama A tribute to my Mom/OT Hi I was sitting here thinking about my Mom's viewing and funeral. You would think they were sad occasions, but they weren't. My nephew said it best when he said they were the happiest he had ever attended. We were all happy she was at peace and out of pain. Everyone commented on how beautiful she looked. More like her old self. She wore the sexy pink nightgown she bought some years back and never got a chance to wear. There were some tears but mainly it was remember when she...or she told me...or she helped me with...and a lot of laughter. We celebrated her life before LBD. At the funeral mass the priest asked us who Irene was and we answered him. She was a wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother, but most of all she was the one who kept this family together with lots of love and wisdom. One of my daughters got up and read something she wrote 6 mos ago when she was suppose to die. She had a close call but sprang back, she was a fighter. Lori (daughter) said growing up next door to her grandparents was one of the best gifts I could have given my children. I have to agree because I was a widow with 5 kids to raise and Mom helped me many a time. Will I miss my Mom....you bet. But I will remember she is still with me in my heart and soul. I talk to her even now. One of the hardest things is going thru her things and deciding what to keep and what to give away. My brother is here helping with that. I just wanted to let you all know that I am alright but won't be posting for awhile. We are taking my parents ashes to their home town of Fort Kent, Maine to be buried in the family plot. Mom is finally going home like she wanted. After that I am going to Alaska for a month to visit with Lori and her family and take some time for me. One last thing, we are going to have Xmas Eve at Mom's one last time before we sell the house. I will be doing all the cooking like usual. My heart goes out to all of you that have lost a LO this year. I am walking in your shoes. For those of you that still have your LO's..give them an extra hug and kiss for me. You are all in my prayers. Jacqui Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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