Is this part of ASD?

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I'm wondering something. My 10 yr old with PDD-NOS gives me so much trouble when it comes to rules. For instance, he got poison ivy really bad from taking the trail to the school bus stop instead of taking the road. Once I figured out he was taking this trail, I told him NOT to take the trail anymore, not just because of the poison ivy (he had a horrible reaction to it, face swelled up) but also because youre not visiable and you never know if there are any creeps in the woods. Since then, Ive caught him several times, the last time I took his Transformers away for the day, then a few days, then a week, and I warned him if he did it again he would lose them Permanently. I caught him taking the trail this morning, so I took his transformers away from him. He came home from school and saw his brother playing with them and he got really angry, I told him quite simply that they didnt belong to him anymore because he had yet again broke my rule. He is angry right now, telling me that I hate him, etc and He doent like it here and even called up family to ask them for transformers. I called them and told them NO!! he was trying to play a con to get more transformers, he told me it didnt matter that I took them away because they were going to get him more. I stopped that dead in the tracks and advised them he was in trouble for breaking the rule.

He doesnt seem to get cause and effect concept of that if you break a rule there will be consequences. He automatically says things like he wished he was dead and that I wanted him dead, hate stuff like he is trying to put a guilt trip on me, after awhile I stopped responding to this talk. I shouldnt have to keep telling him that I do love him and I dont want him dead, etc. I dont know if this is part of the ASD or if he is just trying "reverse psychology" on me. Anyone else have this problem and any advi ce. When he is disciplined he acts like Im doing so for no reason, like im just being mean to him for kicks. According to him, he only "loves me when he is NOT in trouble. I trhink its bullcrap that he tries to use this to get his way, So ive told him TOUGH!! TOO BAD!! Pack up or back up–use SkyDrive to transfer files or keep extra copies. Learn how.