Son runs off]

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Boy do I ever tell them that also, warn them that somebody will take

them and not only because somebody couldn't have children. I watched a

documentary in fact two nights ago where a man kidnapped a boy age 12

with the lure of giving him work to earn money, then took him to a room

he had built underground way out in the woods, and raped him over and

over for about a week and finally left him. Some hunters miraculously

found him. I was just telling my grandson, age 10 yesterday in fact as I

had seen him playing near an abandoned building the other day skate

boarding with some friends, don't ever ever ever get in a car with

anybody, no matter what they promise, no matter how nice they seem. And

don't go and play in those places, stay closer to home.

He said, " I know grandma. "

Carolyn

R. Tucker wrote:

>

> I don't tell my kids I'm going to leave them. I warn them if they

> don't stick close that someone will take them. Some mother/ father

> that wasn't able to have children that always wanted a child. I'm

> sure this scenerio does exist, but it seems to work. They say, no

> Mommy, I want to live with you always. I say good, then keep close,

> because I don't want to lose you either.

>

>

> ------------------------------------------------------------------------

> *From:* Carolyn

> *To:* autism-aspergers

> *Sent:* Tue, June 14, 2011 2:15:56 PM

> *Subject:* Re: Son runs off

>

>

>

> But don't you see people refuse to agree to disagree, that is the

> problem. Seems they want you and your views to simply disappear!

>

> Also I think it is bullying any time threats and ultimatums are given

> about leaving a group, that is bullying. Then people jump on the

> bandwagon to join the bullier and you have a gang of bullies.

>

> I don't think it is particularly childish to stand up to bullies. Some

> very strong and mature people have been known to do this in past

> history, like and the Goliath, many stories like that. To me they

> are my inspiration.

>

> Have lived my whole life so far standing up to bullies in my life and

> don't plan to stop....just me.

>

> Carolyn

>

> daisy carlson wrote:

> >

> >

> > Cant we all just agree to disagree. I've read all these posts and

> > dont see where anyone is bullying anyone but its getting very

> > childish. Every CHILD IS DIFFERENT EVERY PARENT IS DIFFERENT> I dont

> > see why things should get so heated and childish. I've seen way too

> > many of these debates on here and other lists and facebook in the last

> > 2 days. These kids are all very special and unique....what works or

> > doesnt work for these kids is unique but everything is worth a try.

> > NO I DO NOT CONDONE BEATING OR SEVERE EMOTIONAL ABUSE however you have

> > to remember these kids emotions are so different from a normal child

> > it takes much more in many cases to be emotional abuse, Also it can

> > take alot less for physical abuse with the sensory issues alot of

> > these kids do have.

> >

> > /Daisy: wife to ,/

> > /Mom to Adayla, Braydon, Colton, and Faythe/

> >

> >

> >

> > >

> > >

> > > Jasmine,

> > > Did you know that now I am a bully!! Considering that I am not

> > only a

> > > mom of a child on the spectrum, but a special education teacher who

> > > advocates for our children every single day, I really find that

> > > offensive.

> > > Jodie

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > RE: Son runs off

> > >

> > >

> > > Please don't let one person and their comments or judgments make

> > you

> > > leave the site. I know we hear many judgments and ridicules,

> > however,

> > > I find a lot of the information shared to be inspiring and

> > helpful......

> > >

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> > >