Guest guest Posted June 14, 2011 Report Share Posted June 14, 2011 My grandson is not allowed either, he's 10, but kids push their limits especially when they are together. I only found him because we had been out for a drive and went past my daughter's and she said she had not heard from for awhile so we down past his friends house but didn 't see him...so just by chance went a certain way and I talked to him and told him to call his mom and he did from his friend's phone because he forgot his. Carolyn R. Tucker wrote: > > I have a 9 yr. old and he's not allowed to leave the block, let alone > play in some field somewhere. > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > *From:* Carolyn > *To:* autism-aspergers > *Sent:* Tue, June 14, 2011 2:33:29 PM > *Subject:* Son runs off] > > > > > > Boy do I ever tell them that also, warn them that somebody will take > them and not only because somebody couldn't have children. I watched a > documentary in fact two nights ago where a man kidnapped a boy age 12 > with the lure of giving him work to earn money, then took him to a room > he had built underground way out in the woods, and raped him over and > over for about a week and finally left him. Some hunters miraculously > found him. I was just telling my grandson, age 10 yesterday in fact as I > had seen him playing near an abandoned building the other day skate > boarding with some friends, don't ever ever ever get in a car with > anybody, no matter what they promise, no matter how nice they seem. And > don't go and play in those places, stay closer to home. > > He said, " I know grandma. " > > Carolyn > > R. Tucker wrote: > > > > I don't tell my kids I'm going to leave them. I warn them if they > > don't stick close that someone will take them. Some mother/ father > > that wasn't able to have children that always wanted a child. I'm > > sure this scenerio does exist, but it seems to work. They say, no > > Mommy, I want to live with you always. I say good, then keep close, > > because I don't want to lose you either. > > > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------- > > *From:* Carolyn <charper777@... > <mailto:charper777%40comcast.net>> > > *To:* autism-aspergers > <mailto:autism-aspergers%40yahoogroups.com> > > *Sent:* Tue, June 14, 2011 2:15:56 PM > > *Subject:* Re: Son runs off > > > > > > > > But don't you see people refuse to agree to disagree, that is the > > problem. Seems they want you and your views to simply disappear! > > > > Also I think it is bullying any time threats and ultimatums are given > > about leaving a group, that is bullying. Then people jump on the > > bandwagon to join the bullier and you have a gang of bullies. > > > > I don't think it is particularly childish to stand up to bullies. Some > > very strong and mature people have been known to do this in past > > history, like and the Goliath, many stories like that. To me they > > are my inspiration. > > > > Have lived my whole life so far standing up to bullies in my life and > > don't plan to stop....just me. > > > > Carolyn > > > > daisy carlson wrote: > > > > > > > > > Cant we all just agree to disagree. I've read all these posts and > > > dont see where anyone is bullying anyone but its getting very > > > childish. Every CHILD IS DIFFERENT EVERY PARENT IS DIFFERENT> I dont > > > see why things should get so heated and childish. I've seen way too > > > many of these debates on here and other lists and facebook in the last > > > 2 days. These kids are all very special and unique....what works or > > > doesnt work for these kids is unique but everything is worth a try. > > > NO I DO NOT CONDONE BEATING OR SEVERE EMOTIONAL ABUSE however you have > > > to remember these kids emotions are so different from a normal child > > > it takes much more in many cases to be emotional abuse, Also it can > > > take alot less for physical abuse with the sensory issues alot of > > > these kids do have. > > > > > > /Daisy: wife to ,/ > > > /Mom to Adayla, Braydon, Colton, and Faythe/ > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Jasmine, > > > > Did you know that now I am a bully!! Considering that I am not > > > only a > > > > mom of a child on the spectrum, but a special education teacher who > > > > advocates for our children every single day, I really find that > > > > offensive. > > > > Jodie > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > RE: Son runs off > > > > > > > > > > > > Please don't let one person and their comments or judgments make > > > you > > > > leave the site. I know we hear many judgments and ridicules, > > > however, > > > > I find a lot of the information shared to be inspiring and > > > helpful...... > > > > > > > > ---------------------------------------------------------- > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2011 Report Share Posted June 14, 2011 I am always out in the front yard watching him. He is NEVER out of my sight but he is autistic and I don't trust his judgement. He is allowed four houses down in either direction. He is not allowed in the st. He is on a very short leash (no not literally). To: autism-aspergers Sent: Tue, June 14, 2011 2:49:23 PMSubject: Re: Son runs off] My grandson is not allowed either, he's 10, but kids push their limits especially when they are together. I only found him because we had been out for a drive and went past my daughter's and she said she had not heard from for awhile so we down past his friends house but didn 't see him...so just by chance went a certain way and I talked to him and told him to call his mom and he did from his friend's phone because he forgot his.Carolyn R. Tucker wrote:> > I have a 9 yr. old and he's not allowed to leave the block, let alone > play in some field somewhere. > > >>> ----------------------------------------------------------> *From:* Carolyn > *To:* autism-aspergers > *Sent:* Tue, June 14, 2011 2:33:29 PM> *Subject:* Son runs off]>> >>>> Boy do I ever tell them that also, warn them that somebody will take> them and not only because somebody couldn't have children. I watched a> documentary in fact two nights ago where a man kidnapped a boy age 12> with the lure of giving him work to earn money, then took him to a room> he had built underground way out in the woods, and raped him over and> over for about a week and finally left him. Some hunters miraculously> found him. I was just telling my grandson, age 10 yesterday in fact as I> had seen him playing near an abandoned building the other day skate> boarding with some friends, don't ever ever ever get in a car with> anybody, no matter what they promise, no matter how nice they seem. And> don't go and play in those places, stay closer to home.>> He said, "I know grandma.">> Carolyn>> R. Tucker wrote:> >> > I don't tell my kids I'm going to leave them. I warn them if they> > don't stick close that someone will take them. Some mother/ father> > that wasn't able to have children that always wanted a child. I'm> > sure this scenerio does exist, but it seems to work. They say, no> > Mommy, I want to live with you always. I say good, then keep close,> > because I don't want to lose you either. > >> > > > ----------------------------------------------------------> > *From:* Carolyn <charper777@... > <mailto:charper777%40comcast.net>>> > *To:* autism-aspergers > <mailto:autism-aspergers%40yahoogroups.com>> > *Sent:* Tue, June 14, 2011 2:15:56 PM> > *Subject:* Re: Son runs off> >> >> >> > But don't you see people refuse to agree to disagree, that is the> > problem. Seems they want you and your views to simply disappear!> >> > Also I think it is bullying any time threats and ultimatums are given> > about leaving a group, that is bullying. Then people jump on the> > bandwagon to join the bullier and you have a gang of bullies.> >> > I don't think it is particularly childish to stand up to bullies. Some> > very strong and mature people have been known to do this in past> > history, like and the Goliath, many stories like that. To me they> > are my inspiration.> >> > Have lived my whole life so far standing up to bullies in my life and> > don't plan to stop....just me.> >> > Carolyn> >> > daisy carlson wrote:> > >> > >> > > Cant we all just agree to disagree. I've read all these posts and> > > dont see where anyone is bullying anyone but its getting very> > > childish. Every CHILD IS DIFFERENT EVERY PARENT IS DIFFERENT> I dont> > > see why things should get so heated and childish. I've seen way too> > > many of these debates on here and other lists and facebook in the last> > > 2 days. These kids are all very special and unique....what works or> > > doesnt work for these kids is unique but everything is worth a try.> > > NO I DO NOT CONDONE BEATING OR SEVERE EMOTIONAL ABUSE however you have> > > to remember these kids emotions are so different from a normal child> > > it takes much more in many cases to be emotional abuse, Also it can> > > take alot less for physical abuse with the sensory issues alot of> > > these kids do have.> > >> > > /Daisy: wife to ,/> > > /Mom to Adayla, Braydon, Colton, and Faythe/> > >> > >> > > > > > >> > > >> > > > Jasmine,> > > > Did you know that now I am a bully!! Considering that I am not> > > only a> > > > mom of a child on the spectrum, but a special education teacher who> > > > advocates for our children every single day, I really find that> > > > offensive.> > > > Jodie> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > > RE: Son runs off> > > >> > > >> > > > Please don't let one person and their comments or judgments make> > > you> > > > leave the site. I know we hear many judgments and ridicules,> > > however,> > > > I find a lot of the information shared to be inspiring and> > > helpful......> > > >> > > > ----------------------------------------------------------> > > >>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2011 Report Share Posted June 14, 2011 I am always out in the front yard watching him. He is NEVER out of my sight but he is autistic and I don't trust his judgement. He is allowed four houses down in either direction. He is not allowed in the st. He is on a very short leash (no not literally). To: autism-aspergers Sent: Tue, June 14, 2011 2:49:23 PMSubject: Re: Son runs off] My grandson is not allowed either, he's 10, but kids push their limits especially when they are together. I only found him because we had been out for a drive and went past my daughter's and she said she had not heard from for awhile so we down past his friends house but didn 't see him...so just by chance went a certain way and I talked to him and told him to call his mom and he did from his friend's phone because he forgot his.Carolyn R. Tucker wrote:> > I have a 9 yr. old and he's not allowed to leave the block, let alone > play in some field somewhere. > > >>> ----------------------------------------------------------> *From:* Carolyn > *To:* autism-aspergers > *Sent:* Tue, June 14, 2011 2:33:29 PM> *Subject:* Son runs off]>> >>>> Boy do I ever tell them that also, warn them that somebody will take> them and not only because somebody couldn't have children. I watched a> documentary in fact two nights ago where a man kidnapped a boy age 12> with the lure of giving him work to earn money, then took him to a room> he had built underground way out in the woods, and raped him over and> over for about a week and finally left him. Some hunters miraculously> found him. I was just telling my grandson, age 10 yesterday in fact as I> had seen him playing near an abandoned building the other day skate> boarding with some friends, don't ever ever ever get in a car with> anybody, no matter what they promise, no matter how nice they seem. And> don't go and play in those places, stay closer to home.>> He said, "I know grandma.">> Carolyn>> R. Tucker wrote:> >> > I don't tell my kids I'm going to leave them. I warn them if they> > don't stick close that someone will take them. Some mother/ father> > that wasn't able to have children that always wanted a child. I'm> > sure this scenerio does exist, but it seems to work. They say, no> > Mommy, I want to live with you always. I say good, then keep close,> > because I don't want to lose you either. > >> > > > ----------------------------------------------------------> > *From:* Carolyn <charper777@... > <mailto:charper777%40comcast.net>>> > *To:* autism-aspergers > <mailto:autism-aspergers%40yahoogroups.com>> > *Sent:* Tue, June 14, 2011 2:15:56 PM> > *Subject:* Re: Son runs off> >> >> >> > But don't you see people refuse to agree to disagree, that is the> > problem. Seems they want you and your views to simply disappear!> >> > Also I think it is bullying any time threats and ultimatums are given> > about leaving a group, that is bullying. Then people jump on the> > bandwagon to join the bullier and you have a gang of bullies.> >> > I don't think it is particularly childish to stand up to bullies. Some> > very strong and mature people have been known to do this in past> > history, like and the Goliath, many stories like that. To me they> > are my inspiration.> >> > Have lived my whole life so far standing up to bullies in my life and> > don't plan to stop....just me.> >> > Carolyn> >> > daisy carlson wrote:> > >> > >> > > Cant we all just agree to disagree. I've read all these posts and> > > dont see where anyone is bullying anyone but its getting very> > > childish. Every CHILD IS DIFFERENT EVERY PARENT IS DIFFERENT> I dont> > > see why things should get so heated and childish. I've seen way too> > > many of these debates on here and other lists and facebook in the last> > > 2 days. These kids are all very special and unique....what works or> > > doesnt work for these kids is unique but everything is worth a try.> > > NO I DO NOT CONDONE BEATING OR SEVERE EMOTIONAL ABUSE however you have> > > to remember these kids emotions are so different from a normal child> > > it takes much more in many cases to be emotional abuse, Also it can> > > take alot less for physical abuse with the sensory issues alot of> > > these kids do have.> > >> > > /Daisy: wife to ,/> > > /Mom to Adayla, Braydon, Colton, and Faythe/> > >> > >> > > > > > >> > > >> > > > Jasmine,> > > > Did you know that now I am a bully!! Considering that I am not> > > only a> > > > mom of a child on the spectrum, but a special education teacher who> > > > advocates for our children every single day, I really find that> > > > offensive.> > > > Jodie> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > > RE: Son runs off> > > >> > > >> > > > Please don't let one person and their comments or judgments make> > > you> > > > leave the site. I know we hear many judgments and ridicules,> > > however,> > > > I find a lot of the information shared to be inspiring and> > > helpful......> > > >> > > > ----------------------------------------------------------> > > >>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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