Guest guest Posted November 3, 2004 Report Share Posted November 3, 2004 mary m, tears rolling down my face for you in pain and joy, the pain of losing your mom but the joy that she is with the man of her dreams, feel free to take a break, but know that you are family to all of us here, take care and celebrate her life and your dads life as i am sure that is what they both would want, please take care of yourself, you will have time on your hands that you dont know what ot do with, so please slowly start doing some different things, something you have wanted to do, but never had time to do, take a painting class, plant a tree or maybe a peace lily in your home to remind yourself of the peace that your parnets now have again together, good luck mary, hugs hugs andmore hugs, sharon m a smile a day keeps the meanies away!!! laughter is a breath of fresh air! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 3, 2004 Report Share Posted November 3, 2004 Dear , I send my condolences and am glad that your mom is finally at peace. Kath in Toronto janeymar54 wrote: Hello everyone. I just wanted to let you know that Mom's prayers were answered and she went to be with our Lord and my Dad on Oct. 28. I was holding her in my arms, talking to her and praying when she left us and I am so thankful I was with her. I had been telling her I loved her and that she was the best Mom ever, caressing her forehead (which would always calm her) and holding her hand for almost 48 hours straight. Even though hospice had told us on Tues. evening and again on Thurs. morning that it would be soon, it was still very hard. I miss her so much! We were best friends and we spent so much time together since my Dad's death in 1986. She was a special person who touched many lives and we celebrated that at her funeral. I am so thankful that we were able to care for her in our home the last 14 months of her life. Although, as you all know, it was very difficult at times, neither my husband nor I have any regrets. Our lives were changed and I believe that God led us on this journey for a reason. We laid her to rest on Monday and I still feel like it was all a dream. Even though we knew the time was near, it is still very hard to let go. The only thing holding me together right now is my faith which I shared with her, and knowing that she is now happy and with our Lord and my Dad. She no longer has to deal with this terrible disease. I am so thankful for all of you and such caring and love that I found here. You have no idea what a lifeline you have been every day. There were many days that I am not sure what I would have done if I hadn't had this group to turn to for encouragement and prayers. I will probably take a short break for a while but believe I will be back. I feel that it is important to try to help others if I can, as Sandie does so faithfully, in memory of my Mom. I will continue to pray for all of you and your loved ones, please keep us in your prayers, too, as we learn to live without Mom. God Bless You, M Welcome to LBDcaregivers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 3, 2004 Report Share Posted November 3, 2004 , I want to send you my support during this difficult time. The love you have for your mother really shows through in your post and I just know that your mom felt it to. How very brave of you and your husband to be there for her for the last 14 months of her life and I am so very proud of you both. Also, that you held your mom while she passed from this earth - your kindness will never be forgotten. You have become such an example for me, thank you. Courage Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 3, 2004 Report Share Posted November 3, 2004 - You were very lucky to be with your mom and to be holding her in your arms. Just know that now she is disease-free! my condolences - carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 3, 2004 Report Share Posted November 3, 2004 , I am so sorry to hear of your mothers passing. You did so much for your mom and were a very caring daughter. My thoughts are with you during this time. Gwen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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