Re: Happy New Year To All - Is My Marriage Over?

[Guest guest]

Dear RoseI am so glad that you are not jumping out and you are going to give your marriage a chance by at least attempting to rescue what you might think has already sunk. Sometimes it is the only thing that is going to give you peace is knowing that you at least gave it a real effort at saving something that you know is good. I can only imagine the torment that you would be feeling. It is hard when there is another person in the relationship that is in many ways a negative and counter balance to you. Can you and your husband go away and have a clean space to talk things thru? No children or M-I-L to colour the conversation? You perhaps do need to not so much lay down the law but tell your husband your needs and wants for the relationship and then ask him what he wants and needs. I do hope and pray that you work this thru and you have the best outcome what ever that is. You have made a good `resolution' – pleased someone had the guts to do what I don't. Your children are a factor, but there is also the fact that staying together just for the kids is not always the right option and is worth thinking about too. Parents that don't get on have tension that the children can sense better than you realise. Please let me know if you need anything, even going for a coffee just to hear you out. Give me a call, 0403 844 258.CiaoNx