Re: Resting to make memories

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Sharon

 you are so right about kids . my mother and dad could not have any or so they

thought . when dads sister died mom and dad took in there two nefs as no one

other would . both had some mental retardation one more then the other. any

hootbefore i became a dad I was my nefs best friend and when he was little being

mom was single he kept asking me to be his dad LOL. now my own life I have a

favorite Aunt and Uncle. I know were not suposed to do that but i do. any hoot

if i could be adopted I would want to by them . My aunt always remembered b days

and such. always made me feel special and to this day still dose. when ever I

think of travailing some were I want to stop and see them as they also travel a

lot. when she had cancer of the breast I cried then knowing she got the docs to

release her early so that she could come and help take care of dad as he was

dieing ( she is an RN and home hospice one also) showed even more how special

she is and proud

she is my aunt. I even would choose to this day to see or do something with

them over some of my own brothers and sisters.

 my nef and I when we would  talk of the camping trips and things we did even

times he got in trouble by me and they were with fondness only . . So being an

aunt is special big time !

 how involved you are is a choice some thing that sets you apart same as a

parent just because your biologically a parent dose  not make you one that is by

choose of the heart and in that aunts, uncles grandparents that make that choose

receive great amounts of love and happiness from the kids  and they never and I

do mean never forget as my nef is now  36 and he and I were buds from his birth.

he is the first dippers i changed first baby I did all that stuff with. so yup I

got all the baby stuff, the parent stuff from him including love and happiness's

for many years .

the  rednecks

Marty & G.

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[Guest guest]

Sorry Sharon to hear you are still not good. And by the way, I have

some fabulous aunties whom I am very close to, so never underestimate

how important you are to those little nephews & niece of yours! I love

your positive outlook on life, keep it up. Here is a poem from my niece

which I think you deserve too, on behalf of your niece & nephews! :

" God gave us dads & mothers, Brothers & sisters too, and to make the

family love complete, he gave us aunts like you. You are the very

dearest aunt, you've added to my days, a wealth of treasured memories

of your warm and loving ways! " Hope you are feeling better soon and

having more good days than bad. Libby :-)