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[Guest guest]

I don't know if I really belong here or if anyone can help me with my situation,

but I will try to give as much info as I can.

I have an adult son who is still living at home, has never held a job, lives on

the computer, doesn't drive and wants me to continue to support him (well he

says not but . . . ) for the rest of my life. I have finally gotten him into a

program run by AmericaWork for his depression and such. I don't know how much

they have helped him during the few months he's been there or if they will be

able to get him out of the house and living his own life.

I guess I need to back up some and explain how all this came about. His father

(who passed away March '08) verbally abused him and me for that matter, used him

for support, took him with him when he needed someone riding, didn't really

teach him or expect him to go out and work, etc, etc.

My boyfriend and best friend is afraid that he will physically harm me, but I'm

not so sure.

Just this morning he told me that if I put him out in the street, that he would

hire an attorny and sue me because he is being treated for depression. He also

said that when he gets his life together and finds someone and they get married,

I will not be allowed at the wedding. I am doing everything I can to get this

young man into society living a productive life, but he believes that the things

I am doing, i.e refusing to buy all the food items he whats, while he refuses to

get food stamps to help me out.

This is getting long and I'm not even sure if I've gotten the point across or if

I even belong here.

Thanks for letting me join,