Re: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.

[Guest guest]

Hello there!!

I am so very glad you wrote us.

and I'm ever so sorry to hear about the REALLY tough stuff that has been 'handed' you.

I can't even imagine how tough this must be.

Though it may not sound right, I congratulate you for making it so far!

That takes real grit.

Of course, I do hope for you some ways that will make life easier. It would be wonderful if there could be at least moments of joy too.

I don't know if 'imagining' works for you, but I have heard that imagining some good things, can help with at least occasional good moments.

I heard someone also say that when all seemed so very dark that it helped him to be like the sundial and capture only the sunny moments, even if they hardly ever happen.

Lots of folks on this list also have a very long list of 'bad stuff happening', so you are among folks who understand. Many don't have energy to do more than just read the emails and silently send good thoughts. There will be more good wishes than you see responses, most certainly.

My best friend is now in hospital, very serious, and I need to get ready to see him, but wanted to respond first.

very best to and for you,

Jean

From: Anonymous

Sent: Tuesday, February 08, 2011 8:12 PM

To: BeingSick

Subject: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.

Died and came back to deal w/strokes, fibomyalgia,migraines, a colostomy, "care attendants".. No real family or support and I'm always sick. I'm tired of putting up with the stress that has pushed me to try a support group. Years go by with no answers or surgeries done, and I'm stuck in the same day everyday. I hurt in ways that my strength cannot handle alone. So I now reach out.

[Guest guest]

You aren’t alone in this... talk to us on the list and I’m sure you’ll get support here! I’m sending hugs if you want them!

From: Anonymous

Sent: Wednesday, February 09, 2011 1:12 AM

To: BeingSick

Subject: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.

Died and came back to deal w/strokes, fibomyalgia,migraines, a colostomy, "care attendants".. No real family or support and I'm always sick. I'm tired of putting up with the stress that has pushed me to try a support group. Years go by with no answers or surgeries done, and I'm stuck in the same day everyday. I hurt in ways that my strength cannot handle alone. So I now reach out.

[Guest guest]

I feel for you. I have Dystonia. With the exception of an elderly aunt. I have no family living close by me. My daughter lives about 2 hr from me in southern Ohio. She has decided she only needs parents, when she needs money. She has been told several times, that we are not going to be around forever. I closed The First National Bank Of Mom yrs ago. I'm about ready to pull her gas card, without telling her. Her dad needs to close The First National Bank Of Dad. I email her all the time, and never get a response. I had to get her local PD to check on her in order to get her to call me. She keeps saying she is sorry for not staying in touch. But she is working though issues, and deciding whom she wants in her life, and who she doesn't. She is doing this to the entire family (Unless she needs large amounts of money). One day her daughter, will turn around and do

the same thing to her.Sue http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/betterbodybuddies/?yguid=137091429 http://www.peternoone.com. Subject: Re: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.To: BeingSick Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 10:54 AM

Hello there!!

I am so very glad you wrote us.

and I'm ever so sorry to hear about the REALLY tough stuff that has been 'handed' you.

I can't even imagine how tough this must be.

Though it may not sound right, I congratulate you for making it so far!

That takes real grit.

Of course, I do hope for you some ways that will make life easier. It would be wonderful if there could be at least moments of joy too.

I don't know if 'imagining' works for you, but I have heard that imagining some good things, can help with at least occasional good moments.

I heard someone also say that when all seemed so very dark that it helped him to be like the sundial and capture only the sunny moments, even if they hardly ever happen.

Lots of folks on this list also have a very long list of 'bad stuff happening', so you are among folks who understand. Many don't have energy to do more than just read the emails and silently send good thoughts. There will be more good wishes than you see responses, most certainly.

My best friend is now in hospital, very serious, and I need to get ready to see him, but wanted to respond first.

very best to and for you,

Jean

From: Anonymous

Sent: Tuesday, February 08, 2011 8:12 PM

To: BeingSick

Subject: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.

Died and came back to deal w/strokes, fibomyalgia,migraines, a colostomy, "care attendants".. No real family or support and I'm always sick. I'm tired of putting up with the stress that has pushed me to try a support group. Years go by with no answers or surgeries done, and I'm stuck in the same day everyday. I hurt in ways that my strength cannot handle alone. So I now reach out.

[Guest guest]

Dear anonymous. I read your email . Please email me. To: BeingSick Sent: Wed, 9 February, 2011 18:35:29Subject: Re: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.

I feel for you. I have Dystonia. With the exception of an elderly aunt. I have no family living close by me. My daughter lives about 2 hr from me in southern Ohio. She has decided she only needs parents, when she needs money. She has been told several times, that we are not going to be around forever. I closed The First National Bank Of Mom yrs ago. I'm about ready to pull her gas card, without telling her. Her dad needs to close The First National Bank Of Dad. I email her all the time, and never get a response. I had to get her local PD to check on her in order to get her to call me. She keeps saying she is sorry for not staying in touch. But she is working though issues, and deciding whom she wants in her life, and who she doesn't. She is doing this to the entire family (Unless she needs large amounts of money). One day her daughter, will turn

around and do

the same thing to her.Sue http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/betterbodybuddies/?yguid=137091429 http://www.peternoone.com. Subject: Re: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.To: BeingSick Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 10:54 AM

Hello there!!

I am so very glad you wrote us.

and I'm ever so sorry to hear about the REALLY tough stuff that has been 'handed' you.

I can't even imagine how tough this must be.

Though it may not sound right, I congratulate you for making it so far!

That takes real grit.

Of course, I do hope for you some ways that will make life easier. It would be wonderful if there could be at least moments of joy too.

I don't know if 'imagining' works for you, but I have heard that imagining some good things, can help with at least occasional good moments.

I heard someone also say that when all seemed so very dark that it helped him to be like the sundial and capture only the sunny moments, even if they hardly ever happen.

Lots of folks on this list also have a very long list of 'bad stuff happening', so you are among folks who understand. Many don't have energy to do more than just read the emails and silently send good thoughts. There will be more good wishes than you see responses, most certainly.

My best friend is now in hospital, very serious, and I need to get ready to see him, but wanted to respond first.

very best to and for you,

Jean

From: Anonymous

Sent: Tuesday, February 08, 2011 8:12 PM

To: BeingSick

Subject: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.

Died and came back to deal w/strokes, fibomyalgia,migraines, a colostomy, "care attendants".. No real family or support and I'm always sick. I'm tired of putting up with the stress that has pushed me to try a support group. Years go by with no answers or surgeries done, and I'm stuck in the same day everyday. I hurt in ways that my strength cannot handle alone. So I now reach out.

[Guest guest]

Dear Anonymous<I just read your post and am glad that you are reaching out,that is a big step.I know how hard it is being sick all the time and feeling isolated from the rest of the world.Hope to hear more from you. Beverly

Subject: Re: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.To: BeingSick Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 10:54 AM

Hello there!!

I am so very glad you wrote us.

and I'm ever so sorry to hear about the REALLY tough stuff that has been 'handed' you.

I can't even imagine how tough this must be.

Though it may not sound right, I congratulate you for making it so far!

That takes real grit.

Of course, I do hope for you some ways that will make life easier. It would be wonderful if there could be at least moments of joy too.

I don't know if 'imagining' works for you, but I have heard that imagining some good things, can help with at least occasional good moments.

I heard someone also say that when all seemed so very dark that it helped him to be like the sundial and capture only the sunny moments, even if they hardly ever happen.

Lots of folks on this list also have a very long list of 'bad stuff happening', so you are among folks who understand. Many don't have energy to do more than just read the emails and silently send good thoughts. There will be more good wishes than you see responses, most certainly.

My best friend is now in hospital, very serious, and I need to get ready to see him, but wanted to respond first.

very best to and for you,

Jean

From: Anonymous

Sent: Tuesday, February 08, 2011 8:12 PM

To: BeingSick

Subject: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.

Died and came back to deal w/strokes, fibomyalgia,migraines, a colostomy, "care attendants".. No real family or support and I'm always sick. I'm tired of putting up with the stress that has pushed me to try a support group. Years go by with no answers or surgeries done, and I'm stuck in the same day everyday. I hurt in ways that my strength cannot handle alone. So I now reach out.

[Guest guest]

Hmm... I'm not sure about this. I had a moment to check replies and, most likely due to the fact that I did not write a full detailed story of my life and of me in general, I'm being told what I already know and study to help others. Things like, "I'm desperate." I understand it is said with the best of intentions, and I both appreciate and respect that. I just feel out of place. My entire life forced me into spiritual education and I've been a life long scholar of mysticism and natural spiritual law, as I've been in combat with far worse traumas than the brief statement I made would obviously lead one to think. I did not see guidelines as to what to type, thus I made it briefly summed up. I've overcome, quite positively, deaths, losses of many kinds, childhood traumas, life experience that pushed me to grow up swiftly and learn the

right verses the wrong... I'm extremely young. It is not that I feel "desperate".... The summation of my entire life thus far just has me aware of all beautiful blessings within everything, and how I'm becoming

increasingly fatigued, as my entire system is weak. I just thought that

perhaps finding one of the supposed support groups

might help me link up with others who are not just suffering, but have extraordinary stories of their own that, relating to, might serve as a positive addition in adding some levity to a life that is not completely

alone, but deeply felt as lonely. I read the kind of responses that I received in a multitude of ways everyday in the people whose paths I cross while doing healing work and what I can for many causes...

I help. It is what I do. I just don't REALLY, in all pureness of truth,

have one person I can trust as there are numerous backwards forms of which I've been manipulated and harmed by those who should care. They have made it more difficult for me to be strong enough to be impenetrable from their games which are indeed twisted and real. All of which just add layers, making immense stress that catalyzes physical illness and steps backwards after any steps forwards were reached. I guess I really need to find who or where to contact to both get my story

out and ask what help is available, unbeknown to me. Unknown... I remain anonymous. Blessings.To: BeingSick Sent: Wed, February 9, 2011 10:54:25 AMSubject: Re: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.

Hello there!!

I am so very glad you wrote us.

and I'm ever so sorry to hear about the REALLY tough stuff that has been 'handed' you.

I can't even imagine how tough this must be.

Though it may not sound right, I congratulate you for making it so far!

That takes real grit.

Of course, I do hope for you some ways that will make life easier. It would be wonderful if there could be at least moments of joy too.

I don't know if 'imagining' works for you, but I have heard that imagining some good things, can help with at least occasional good moments.

I heard someone also say that when all seemed so very dark that it helped him to be like the sundial and capture only the sunny moments, even if they hardly ever happen.

Lots of folks on this list also have a very long list of 'bad stuff happening', so you are among folks who understand. Many don't have energy to do more than just read the emails and silently send good thoughts. There will be more good wishes than you see responses, most certainly.

My best friend is now in hospital, very serious, and I need to get ready to see him, but wanted to respond first.

very best to and for you,

Jean

From: Anonymous

Sent: Tuesday, February 08, 2011 8:12 PM

To: BeingSick

Subject: Tired, lonely, and sick: A very long story.

Died and came back to deal w/strokes, fibomyalgia,migraines, a colostomy, "care attendants".. No real family or support and I'm always sick. I'm tired of putting up with the stress that has pushed me to try a support group. Years go by with no answers or surgeries done, and I'm stuck in the same day everyday. I hurt in ways that my strength cannot handle alone. So I now reach out.