Guest guest Posted March 6, 2007 Report Share Posted March 6, 2007 Of course, no need to ask Stephx > > Steph, can I email you offlist? > There is much more to this than I can put on the internet. > Vicky > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2007 Report Share Posted March 7, 2007 Vicky Paeds are always very very slow to do letters, I think when they are reluctant it will be obvious when you ask. So I would call and call and call if necessary and then doorstep. You will probably get your letter and it is unlikely to be the malign influences of the LA. I usually start off polite and then get not so nice with them if they take too long. Fax letters pointing out the urgency etc. YOu should get what you want. Ask that they fax the response letter asap, make it urgent and immediate. I usually find that works. Celia (who is in similar shite) > > Oh Pet, Dont know what to say except, fuck sake or something! Its bloody > hellish... So thinking about you but afaraid havent got anything useful. Love to > you all Vicky. > Caroline > xxx > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 8, 2007 Report Share Posted March 8, 2007 You don't swear as much as my angelic son! Have you been secretly coaching him? (nah his parents have that covered) Steph xxx > > Morning All, > Whoops just wanted to say sorry hadnt realised I had sworn on this last > night, cripes, thot I was responding to Vicky on TAC or personally, I have so > gotta check this before I hit send, sorry folks. > Have a nice day > Luv Caroline > xxx > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 8, 2007 Report Share Posted March 8, 2007 Oh Vicky, this is truely awful. I'm so sorry you're going through all this. Sharon > > From: MaddiganV@... > > Date: 2007/03/07 Wed PM 09:18:34 GMT > > To: Autism-Biomedical-Europe > > CC: MaddiganV@... > > Subject: Re: Re: cant believe it/Steph > > > > Hi Steph, taking me ages to get round to things, running round like a > > headless chicken with this DDA tribunal on the 14th. > > Anyway, the whole thing has disintegrated completely, I took out of > > school, because he was coming home so distressed, the first day back the car > > nearly left the road, he kicked me in the head and was totally beside himself. > > I worry what happens in there is non-verbal and sometimes rage is his > > only communication, clearly he was distraught going into school. > > I feel so bad for having forced him in there all these yrs suspecting all > > wasn't as it should be. > > I spoke to his paed, who said she would sign him off on grounds of school > > being too distressing for him, and also stating he should be in an autism > > specific setting. > > That was 2 weeks ago and despite phoning her since no letter has arrived. > > Apparently the only way he will be entitled to his OT and SLT is if he has a > > Doctors letter, so effectively I would have to remove him to home ED which > > would mean LEA does not have to provide a thing, so sweet as a nut for them eh? > > Consensus mediation suggested could be moved to another LEA school that > > has an autistic unit, this place isn't anywhere you would fight a tribunal > > for, but way better than his current school, they refused, so mediation broke > > down, they said they would not make a special case of ! > > They are coming to DDA with a solicitor, Barrister and full complement of > > witnesses, I will be on my own as all the money was wasted on the first > > tribunal, and Liam has to be at home to see to the children. > > Ofcourse they will totally blitz me, in the written evidence the > > headmistress has stated I told her to give Blackcurrent juice, they are more than > > happy to lie their way through this, and why not it worked at the first > > tribunal. > > One of the witnesses is a teacher who was 's reception class teacher > > when he was 5yrs old, there had to be an internal investigation back then > > because came home with bruising in the centre of his back, bruises on his body > > and hand prints on his upper arms, we were so naive and stupid, we could > > have had the place closed down, now this teacher is to be a witness, for gods > > sake, no doubt feels aggrieved that we had an internel investigation done on her > > class. > > I wonder why the paed hasn't written the letter, why do I feel the whole > > thing smacks of conspiracy and ganging up in order to make me look like a fool > > and this crowd of cruisers look professional. They all carry the required > > qualifications, course the people working with if we can call it that are > > just classroom assistants and they are not going to be present. > > was supposed to be seen by an LEA Ed Psyche on Friday, I have tried > > constantly to phone her because is not in school, left messages but she is > > not phoning me. > > Sorry to witter on but I know if I were hearing this from someone else I > > would find it hard to believe, unfortunately it is all true, we have a County > > who appear to be actively working against an autistic child and his parents, > > they will spend no end of public money to defend the indefensible, always > > very aware of the cost of everything and the value of nothing as their own > > salaries demonstrate so well, > > Just don't know where to turn to anymore, we have spent a fortune, did not > > get a fair hearing, were not reperesented properly by our legal team who seemed > > not to have read the stuff they charged me for reading, and an authority who > > smell victory against a 9yr old profoundly autistic child. > > Please don't forward this to anyone at this stage. > > Vicky > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 9, 2007 Report Share Posted March 9, 2007 Vicky this is terrible. Is your local MP any good? i take it you don't want to go to the papers with it? I did that when they first refused to assess Charlie and it worked for that - apparently LEA's don't like bad publicity. So sorry for you. Peta - In Autism-Biomedical-Europe , " sharon_asd_uk " wrote: > > Oh Vicky, this is truely awful. I'm so sorry you're going through > all this. > > Sharon > > > > > From: MaddiganV@ > > > Date: 2007/03/07 Wed PM 09:18:34 GMT > > > To: Autism-Biomedical-Europe > > > CC: MaddiganV@ > > > Subject: Re: Re: cant believe it/Steph > > > > > > Hi Steph, taking me ages to get round to things, running round > like a > > > headless chicken with this DDA tribunal on the 14th. > > > Anyway, the whole thing has disintegrated completely, I took > out of > > > school, because he was coming home so distressed, the first day > back the car > > > nearly left the road, he kicked me in the head and was totally > beside himself. > > > I worry what happens in there is non-verbal and sometimes > rage is his > > > only communication, clearly he was distraught going into school. > > > I feel so bad for having forced him in there all these yrs > suspecting all > > > wasn't as it should be. > > > I spoke to his paed, who said she would sign him off on grounds > of school > > > being too distressing for him, and also stating he should be in > an autism > > > specific setting. > > > That was 2 weeks ago and despite phoning her since no letter has > arrived. > > > Apparently the only way he will be entitled to his OT and SLT is > if he has a > > > Doctors letter, so effectively I would have to remove him to home > ED which > > > would mean LEA does not have to provide a thing, so sweet as a > nut for them eh? > > > Consensus mediation suggested could be moved to another LEA > school that > > > has an autistic unit, this place isn't anywhere you would fight a > tribunal > > > for, but way better than his current school, they refused, so > mediation broke > > > down, they said they would not make a special case of ! > > > They are coming to DDA with a solicitor, Barrister and full > complement of > > > witnesses, I will be on my own as all the money was wasted on the > first > > > tribunal, and Liam has to be at home to see to the children. > > > Ofcourse they will totally blitz me, in the written evidence the > > > headmistress has stated I told her to give Blackcurrent > juice, they are more than > > > happy to lie their way through this, and why not it worked at > the first > > > tribunal. > > > One of the witnesses is a teacher who was 's reception class > teacher > > > when he was 5yrs old, there had to be an internal investigation > back then > > > because came home with bruising in the centre of his back, > bruises on his body > > > and hand prints on his upper arms, we were so naive and stupid, > we could > > > have had the place closed down, now this teacher is to be a > witness, for gods > > > sake, no doubt feels aggrieved that we had an internel > investigation done on her > > > class. > > > I wonder why the paed hasn't written the letter, why do I feel > the whole > > > thing smacks of conspiracy and ganging up in order to make me > look like a fool > > > and this crowd of cruisers look professional. They all carry the > required > > > qualifications, course the people working with if we can > call it that are > > > just classroom assistants and they are not going to be present. > > > was supposed to be seen by an LEA Ed Psyche on Friday, I > have tried > > > constantly to phone her because is not in school, left > messages but she is > > > not phoning me. > > > Sorry to witter on but I know if I were hearing this from > someone else I > > > would find it hard to believe, unfortunately it is all true, we > have a County > > > who appear to be actively working against an autistic child and > his parents, > > > they will spend no end of public money to defend the > indefensible, always > > > very aware of the cost of everything and the value of nothing as > their own > > > salaries demonstrate so well, > > > Just don't know where to turn to anymore, we have spent a > fortune, did not > > > get a fair hearing, were not reperesented properly by our legal > team who seemed > > > not to have read the stuff they charged me for reading, and an > authority who > > > smell victory against a 9yr old profoundly autistic child. > > > Please don't forward this to anyone at this stage. > > > Vicky > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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