Marty and whats going on as of now .

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Hi all

 first thanks for all the prayers and thoughts and also all the hints of things

and or places to look.

I am putting together a list to night with my Aunt who is also a reiterd nurse.

so far no news of any thing but we do know no fluid on or around the lungs or

heart this wa confuermed with a ct scan and ultra sound. she is still on the

resperator now and to day makes it a week. this morning they did try to lower

the O2 but had to bring it again back up after a few hours to 100% as any thing

less her saturation leaves drop to below 86% she is doing a bit over havlf the

breathing on her own as the resperator is set for 12 BPM and she is normaly

doing between 22 and 27 BPM. other then that nothing.

   Mom is well all I can say is stressed out . she is not saying any thing but i

belive in her mind she is thinking my sis is dieing . the pastor has been by

every day and to day asked mom if she was the one that would have to make the

call to take her off life suport ( resperator as with out it right now my sister

will die) this upset mom as no one has said it out load to her. then also my

aunt moms sis and I were telling her were we belived the pastor got the idea

about mom being the one to do that call and also his Idea that sis is maybe on

her last days . my sisters daughter was here ( a basket case wacked out kid) any

hoot all she has been talking to me is about her mom dieing and to day she

called the pastor and well we belive that is were the coment came from mom was

very very upset to both her it and that any one would even talk like that . this

is understandable after all she is a mom. any hoot yes my sis will die right now

with out the

resporator I know that but i also know if they kind find what the proble is and

if there is a way to treat it and or if it is not to later she has a chance and

that is were my faith is . but mom gets her hopes up when others say things or a

doc dose like when they lowerd her o2 but she dose not wait tell time has passed

to see if it works first or take what others say and ask the doc if thats there

thought also . I wish I could slap the you know what out of some people that are

doing this to mom .I know they do not mean any thing but well but there arm

chiar doctoring is also causing a old lady a lot of stress and angwesh from

there unsuported talk.

 any hoot if i sound stressed I am and yes I am scared for my sis.  right now i

can not be frank or honest any more with my mom about things and how to go about

getting things done such as getting power of attury or some form of leagle

gardean ship for the mean time so that health and financhial chouses can be

made. My Aut her sis is going to try talking with her. we have to do this as my

sisters health covrage is about ended because of her not working and the company

now making her go on to cobra . we also have to find out about her funds as she

also because of the o2 being lowere then 86% can get on medacaide and that will

give her medacal also . that will give ehr better covrage then cobra and for

less dollars . we also have to make some calls about her law case dealing with

ehr workers comp lawyer and to do that we also have to have the power of atterny

.. my sister also did not have a health dericitive.

 I am saying this for two resons one what were dealing with and the stress of

and to also let any of you know if you do not have a health dericitive do your

self and loved ones a big favor get one done now and not later. also set up a

power of atterny so that some one can handle you finacel and legal affiars if

need be incase your in a hospital and can not comunacat be it as my sister a

induced unconchesnus or  the real thing like a coma from some thing that happend

to you. do not relie on a comunaity property stte and if your not married but

over the leagal age of 18 it is very inportant!!!!!

 any hoot thanks for the tips so far and I will be useing them again tomarow

morning when we see the doc also any new ones keep them comeing as I will be

checking again be fore I leave to go to the hospital and again thanks for the

suport as right now I have needed you my family so thank you for being her

love yas  

the  rednecks

Marty & G.

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