Re: well been of busy

[Guest guest]

aggy he never responds to e mail but hims staff will at times answer of

questions, but the phone number of him is of this .

sondra

[Guest guest]

aggy he never responds to e mail but hims staff will at times answer of

questions, but the phone number of him is of this .

sondra

[Guest guest]

aggy he never responds to e mail but hims staff will at times answer of

questions, but the phone number of him is of this .

sondra

[Guest guest]

debi I to not be of to know you were of a cinco person too. that is of

interesting. I to be of planning for my trip to you state for june and getting

happy to meet of you in the real of life. I to hope that you will be of to like

of me in the real of life and to think of me in a bad way I to worry of that

when meeting of people to the on-line things.

But have met of a neighbor in my areas who is of much nice to me. I to liked of

her and met of her son who is much fun kido. both her childrens are of autism.

not the aspergers form but more of the HFA like of me. I to often wonder where

some of the kids I to know with autism now will be of in 20 years but then for

self will be of too old to remember of them LOL.

Yes the plant was of special to me for many reasons to get for him a gift. I to

hoped that it was of an okay gift for a male person but I to know he loves of

gardening too. the odd is much time back I to colored of him a picture that was

of a bunny working in the garden and hims garden did not have flowers but hearts

and I to wrote to that paper Dr. Amigo growing hearts to that coloring paper and

gave of it as a gift. that was a time back and now found the perfect plant that

i to hoped he would like for what it means. He seems much happy in the choices

of gifts over the years I to gave of him for various things. I to be of

practicing gift giving and remembering certain peoples to send of gifts too.

I to be of much much thirsty and want of a soda and then will close of self to

my room to do more puzzels and have of quiet.

may seems like of a good month to have of a birthday.

sondra

[Guest guest]

debi I to not be of to know you were of a cinco person too. that is of

interesting. I to be of planning for my trip to you state for june and getting

happy to meet of you in the real of life. I to hope that you will be of to like

of me in the real of life and to think of me in a bad way I to worry of that

when meeting of people to the on-line things.

But have met of a neighbor in my areas who is of much nice to me. I to liked of

her and met of her son who is much fun kido. both her childrens are of autism.

not the aspergers form but more of the HFA like of me. I to often wonder where

some of the kids I to know with autism now will be of in 20 years but then for

self will be of too old to remember of them LOL.

Yes the plant was of special to me for many reasons to get for him a gift. I to

hoped that it was of an okay gift for a male person but I to know he loves of

gardening too. the odd is much time back I to colored of him a picture that was

of a bunny working in the garden and hims garden did not have flowers but hearts

and I to wrote to that paper Dr. Amigo growing hearts to that coloring paper and

gave of it as a gift. that was a time back and now found the perfect plant that

i to hoped he would like for what it means. He seems much happy in the choices

of gifts over the years I to gave of him for various things. I to be of

practicing gift giving and remembering certain peoples to send of gifts too.

I to be of much much thirsty and want of a soda and then will close of self to

my room to do more puzzels and have of quiet.

may seems like of a good month to have of a birthday.

sondra

[Guest guest]

Sondra, I am sure I will love you when I meet you. I expect you to be quiet in

person and I do not expect you to be very sociable, as I expect that with most

people on spectrum. I recall your article about the gumballs and that you often

want to get out the particular color but as hard as you try you often get out

the opposite color. I hope you don't feel you have to find the correct color

with me, I like many colors :-)

What I hope you can do is share with me what makes you comfortable and

uncomfortable. Like, do you expect me to hug you, shake your hand, or simply say

hello? I fear I may do something that may cause you sensory overload or to be

uncomfortable. You make the rules and I will try to follow them. You may find me

to be a bit shadow syndromey as I often avoid direct eye contact and am not a

" touchy-feely " sort of person.

I do like summer months for birthdays. I think it's easier on babies as they

don't have all the respiratory stuff & breast milk to protect their guts from

the stomach bugs that hit in the summer months.

Debi

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[Guest guest]

Debi thanks to share of this,

wanted to share in the begin might be of more silent and such until my brain

absorbs the voice tones and movements and energy if you will from the person and

then can become chatty if i to get of too excited inside and really like of the

connection and want to connect verbally to the person, and yet also can be of

silent if " just right " and calm with the person. with kids can give of some

brief eye contact in greetings and such not know why can do that but think it is

of the often are of true to their emotional facial expressions and do not use

advanced body langauge and non verbals they just are in aspects more true to

their body with more calm aspects at times. and if they are surging with an

emotional state they tend to over show of it to where can read of it at times.

such as a child wants of something might turn to the mom and be of jumping some

as they ask it in their excitement of wanting to do something. or thier voice

might go up and or they facial expression are very pronounced so can see of

positive or a negative reflection so this is of why can be of more socially

engaged in an eye to face gaze with them.

about hugs okay to them as long as one asks of it first and not just bear hugs

me LOL some do that and not do it to cause me harm but because they want to show

a gesture of happy in the greet and so it can hurt. when it comes unexpected.

but again when young kids are of around it causes me brain to pre-prepare that

the chance of getting touched or bumped and things will happen and that causes

my brain to not react because my brain is aware it might happen my laney is sort

of satiating this for me to some degree. she isof always climbing to me ,

sitting in my lap and if angry ties to do karate kicks as I to carry of her in a

side ways hold and she shouts then HI-YA over and over LOL I to tell her Nana is

not afraid of her her HI-YA's. But it is of a cute attempt from her to gain

access to what she wants if told no or that we need to leave now. It isof rare

for her to act this way but when she does I to try hard to not laugh to her for

it and at the same i to respect and acknowledge her emotions of not wanting to

leave a place.

Debi please not feel nervous to meet of me, I to be of a very flexible sorts of

person when it comes to new people and not be to get of angry or upset to

peoples social mistakes to me.... how can I to be of get of angry for them to be

as they are in life, and yet expect them to be of to accept me as I to be in

this life. It is of just a mutual learning process is of all,I to be fo honest

though I to have of a lot of odd mannerisms and movements of the hands. these

are of all just a nuerology of me and some are of non verbals of me. such as if

sudden loud noise might hit of self but not worry as soon as my body figures out

the source of the sound i to be of okay and it is of usually one hit as a

impulsive reaction not to worry as not going into any meltdown or rage or things

of that just a reaction to the sudden fear that surged. if noise is of too much

I to self adapt and close off my ears, I to might hear of a siren or sound that

might not be of evident to others so if close off my ears it is of not you I to

be of closing out but a sound that is hurting of me.

the rest is often just happy movements as I to call of them, or just parts of me

that just surge out and not with any intent to do them they just come out of me.

Much to say when then met of me that these things are of strong to a person of

spectrum and so it upsets of them that the professionals did not see of autism

instead of the crazy things they dx of me. Dr. Amigo shares when he readed of

the reports that he is very upset for me of the poor qulity care I to had in my

birth town. it was of reported of the abuse and things and non even had in any

treatment plan for me for that nor did they even look at developmental screening

of me. He shared it would be of evident to him that there should be of a full

developmental screen and treatment for the PTSD that they never even mention in

the report but was of evident of my presentation and things. but anyways my

reflection is of strong in the odd mannerisms and voice tones and things and so

hope that is of not to make of you to feel embarrassed of me because people

stare to me for it and so I to try hard to sit on my hands or to stuff the

surging by self adapted deep pressure things,

with you I to have already much knowing of you and like of the words you share

and so it makes it an adventure to meet of you and the girls. we need of to

take of much pictures so we can be of to share of them to the list.

I to plan to be of to try to come the day before and leave the day after the

conference so it will give of me time to regulate for the confernece. and this

way we can be of to meet on one of those days. I to like of to meet of the shana

person too but not see of her post in long long time.

some day will meet of much of the people here I to have of long time exposure

too and like from this list.

another one not from this list is of a lady named of Newland I to met of

her from other lists and like of her greatly too.

next summer i to want to come to Canada to meet of the teen named of Carly and

her family. Have not maked any arrangements to that yet but plan too do that.

But for me to go to another country I to need of to get of me a travel buddy to

go for that weekend to visit of them.

sondra

[Guest guest]

I won't be embarrassed with you if you won't be embarrassed if I tell someone

staring at you to mind their own business! Allie I have noticed lately when she

is going from one place to another will lean forward and try to run, sometimes

shaking her hands. I think it's cute & funny but know others may see it as odd.

Heck, I'm sure I do plenty of things that appear odd that I don't even know I'm

doing.

I'm gonna post some pics of my flowers in a second in my photos file so you can

see them.

Debi

but anyways my reflection is of strong in the odd mannerisms and voice tones

and things and so hope that is of not to make of you to feel embarrassed of me

because people stare to me for it and so I to try hard to sit on my hands or to

stuff the surging by self adapted deep pressure things,

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> with you I to have already much knowing of you and like of the words you share

and so it makes it an adventure to meet of you and the girls. we need of to

take of much pictures so we can be of to share of them to the list.

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> I to plan to be of to try to come the day before and leave the day after the

conference so it will give of me time to regulate for the confernece. and this

way we can be of to meet on one of those days. I to like of to meet of the shana

person too but not see of her post in long long time.

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[Guest guest]

I won't be embarrassed with you if you won't be embarrassed if I tell someone

staring at you to mind their own business! Allie I have noticed lately when she

is going from one place to another will lean forward and try to run, sometimes

shaking her hands. I think it's cute & funny but know others may see it as odd.

Heck, I'm sure I do plenty of things that appear odd that I don't even know I'm

doing.

I'm gonna post some pics of my flowers in a second in my photos file so you can

see them.

Debi

but anyways my reflection is of strong in the odd mannerisms and voice tones

and things and so hope that is of not to make of you to feel embarrassed of me

because people stare to me for it and so I to try hard to sit on my hands or to

stuff the surging by self adapted deep pressure things,

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> with you I to have already much knowing of you and like of the words you share

and so it makes it an adventure to meet of you and the girls. we need of to

take of much pictures so we can be of to share of them to the list.

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> I to plan to be of to try to come the day before and leave the day after the

conference so it will give of me time to regulate for the confernece. and this

way we can be of to meet on one of those days. I to like of to meet of the shana

person too but not see of her post in long long time.

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