Marty: sad day

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Hey my Brother!

I am sooooooooo very sorry you had such a sad, hard day...espeialy on your

birthday......incidentally, yesterday was my wife's birthday as well.....I know

what you are going through....my ex-wife used my daughter as a pawn

After our seperation and divorce......she threatened to kill my daughter and

herself if she didn't get custody....the *88** judge gave her custody with no

thought whatsoever.....she only wanted two things: to hurt me as much as

possible and to get child support.......funny, when my daughter turned eighteen

and my ex got the last check, she KICKED MY DAUGHTER OUT!!

What a b****! But my daughter did not come to live with us......by this time my

ex had poisoned her with such lies and perversions that she wouldn't even come

see us but aery so often...and then she was high on something........she is now

22 and living with my parents.......my ex has screwed her up so badly.......I

still only her from her when she wants something.....I know what you are

thinking, at least I hear from her////yes, BUT,

A few weeks ago, she called me at work.....she fed me a bunch of BS and then

repeatedly attempted to talk me into trading most of my pain meds for some kind

of meds her " boyfriend " had....I kept telling her no, that I needed them....she

finally relented, made a feeble apology, and hung-up.......I was sooooooooo

upset by the end of the conversation.....within a few hours, I was in a massive

flare that led to where I am now! You see,when my daughter was 12, she

wanted to move in with my new wife and family...my wife has three wonderful

children(one boy and two girls),,,,,,they all call me dad amd they ARE my

children (just as if I had fathered them...their real " dad " has had nothing to

do with them for years)........anyway, mine () wanted to move in with

us.....well, she had a tlk with her mom.......of course, her mom went

balistic.....threatened to kill herself and who knows what all!! Somewhere

in all the insanity, she told that if she stayed, she do whatever she

wanted whenever she wanted with whomever she wanted......can you

imagine........ changed overnight......between that and the lies she was

told.....well, the girl is so mesed up...when she calls or the rare times she

comes over, the stress level is so high...anyway, i'm sorry to carryon about

me.....I just hope to convey that you are not alone....I hope and pray that this

day and those that follow will bring you peace and that God will

Resolve the issues in your daughter's heart and that she will come back to you!

God bless you and yours!

We love you brother!

Larry B