Guest guest Posted March 12, 2007 Report Share Posted March 12, 2007 I think at this point she is so wrapped up in her feelings that she is more or less ignoring the outside world entirely, and not just you. But if I were you, I would look at this statement that you wrote more closely: " ...not sure if this relationship is gonna work or get somewhere now because ppl can have depression for long periods of time and that what i'm not looking for in a woman, I'm not selfish or anything, I have depression too, but i cannot go thru this with samantha and i'm just sitting there wasting time waiting for her to recover, time goes on and really want to be happy with my woman, thats all I'm asking. " It sounds to me like you know your limits. While I think that depression is something that cannot be gotten over right away, and you may want to give her some time, I also feel that if you already know what your limits are, and if you feel you have already exceeded your limits, then it may be time to move on. The thing to remember though is that all relationships will have problems and difficulties, and none would survive for any lengthy period of time if people didn't hang in there through hard times as well as good. Tom Administrator Also this morning send me a message but it wasn't very nice best ones I had from her, she told me she tried to kill herself and shes under doctors supervision and not sure if this relationship is gonna work or get somewhere now because ppl can have depression for long periods of time and that what i'm not looking for in a woman, I'm not selfish or anything, I have depression too, but i cannot go thru this with samantha and i'm just sitting there wasting time waiting for her to recover, time goes on and really want to be happy with my woman, thats all I'm asking. I don't know when she treat me more with respect also, she kept me hanging all week and wondered what is wrong, something doesn't seem quite right. It was uncaring for her to do that, and really upset about this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2007 Report Share Posted March 12, 2007 I think at this point she is so wrapped up in her feelings that she is more or less ignoring the outside world entirely, and not just you. But if I were you, I would look at this statement that you wrote more closely: " ...not sure if this relationship is gonna work or get somewhere now because ppl can have depression for long periods of time and that what i'm not looking for in a woman, I'm not selfish or anything, I have depression too, but i cannot go thru this with samantha and i'm just sitting there wasting time waiting for her to recover, time goes on and really want to be happy with my woman, thats all I'm asking. " It sounds to me like you know your limits. While I think that depression is something that cannot be gotten over right away, and you may want to give her some time, I also feel that if you already know what your limits are, and if you feel you have already exceeded your limits, then it may be time to move on. The thing to remember though is that all relationships will have problems and difficulties, and none would survive for any lengthy period of time if people didn't hang in there through hard times as well as good. Tom Administrator Also this morning send me a message but it wasn't very nice best ones I had from her, she told me she tried to kill herself and shes under doctors supervision and not sure if this relationship is gonna work or get somewhere now because ppl can have depression for long periods of time and that what i'm not looking for in a woman, I'm not selfish or anything, I have depression too, but i cannot go thru this with samantha and i'm just sitting there wasting time waiting for her to recover, time goes on and really want to be happy with my woman, thats all I'm asking. I don't know when she treat me more with respect also, she kept me hanging all week and wondered what is wrong, something doesn't seem quite right. It was uncaring for her to do that, and really upset about this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2007 Report Share Posted March 12, 2007 Yes. But another thing to consider is that part of love means accepting other people's difficulties and disabilities if you can. I am not trying to confuse you. I am just try to help you make the best decision. Tom Administrator " true i need to find a happier woman, depression isn't like u get over with over night it takes time, I cannot wait round forever till shes sorted herself out. I hate to bring down with her depressive moods, been there, don't want to be there again, thats why though. So I know what i want out of her relationship. Susie " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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