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, I want you to know that what you are going through is something I have

gone through....even now....after years of Ig replacement....going off and now

what inevitably seems to be starting back up....I hate it. As mentioned in the

previous posts, I think it is harder for us than it is for our kids....we are

moms and don't want them to suffer. It is that never ending place of " darned if

I do and darned if I don't. " It is a tough spot to be in. Just know you have

support here to help you through.

Terri

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Valarie,

I think you are right. We all do what works for us and none of the decisions are

wrong at all, it's just a difference in what works for one might not work for

another.

I am really struggling with whether we are making the right decision to put

Caelan back on IVIG. My husband is very set on putting him back on. The doctor

wants him back on. I guess my hesitance is more out of the mom guilt of putting

him through all of this. On the other hand, he's already feeling crummy all the

time, constant sinus infections, chronic hives, chronic fatigue etc. He's

severely allergic to two antibiotics classes already and we've overused

penicillins so much that we are concerned about resistance and developing an

allergy to those. I also don't want any permanent damage. His last chest CT

showed some bronchiectasis and I don't want any of that to progress. It's just

so hard to know what the right thing is. I read the list of adverse event for

the IVIG and I'm freaked. I remember his really bad reaction when he was 2 and

getting IVIG and it scares me. What if something really bad happens? He would

have been better off living with a sinus infection. KWIM? Sometimes this

parenting thing is really hard and it feels like I'm stuck between a rock and a

hard place. My hope is that if we get to sub-q that I can have Caelan assist as

much as he is comfortable with and feel like he is somewhat in control of what

is happening to him.

Anyway, I think everyone here is doing what they feel is best for their child in

their given situation. We (our kids and ourselves) were dealt a hard deck to

deal with and there are no easy answers with all of this.

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I understand Barbie and . I just wanted to share our situation to. There

are so many issues that play into how kids cope.

Terri

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I understand Barbie and . I just wanted to share our situation to. There

are so many issues that play into how kids cope.

Terri

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ROFL!!! we have NEVER had a pet before, largely bc of my asthmatic reactions to

dogs and cats. We heard of hypoallergenic dogs and thought it was a scam. But my

kids have been so desperate for a pet that we decided to try. We bought a

papapoo and they love her to pieces. The third day after we bought, she got an

infection in her surgery site and was put on abx. We took her for her shots and

she had severe adverse reactions to them, now she needs them separated and

premeds of benedryl and steroids. Then she got c.diff. !!!!!

But she is a wonderful puppy and Im not allergic to her!:)

The vet we have with CVID is the vet the dog " came with " , its a 45 minute drive,

and we initially thought to switch vets after we were done with all the puppy

shots...but have decided to stick with this one largely bc of this issue...she's

very open about it and I think its great for my kids to see someone else with

what they have, living their dream and not letting it hold them back. :)

On the earlier question of how hard it is to decide to start IVIG....tonight Im

so grateful that we did. Tonight, I let my two sons go to a cub scout camp out

with my husband and I am staying home. Since I am the one who does all the med

stuff, this is huge!! they are having such a fun, normal time....before we

started IG...this would NEVER have been able to happen:)

valarie

mom to 3 w/cvid

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worries with the sub-Q. I have no issue with starting it ( have a medical

background), but I worry about my son feeling like it is something that I am

doing to him or that I am hurting him.

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> > > > requiring all of this. I know that is NOT this way for all of our kids.

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to work

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> > > > with at home or for him to have the choice to go to a clinic to get his

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> > > > started. We are finally doing well about it all. I had to insist 2 years

ago

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> > > > that it be started by a nurse in the Immunologists office. ( I am a

Pediatric RN

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> > > > so makes NO sense at all). We were REALLY struggling for many months

trying to

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> > > > figure out his refusal to do his Gamma and finally figured it out.. He

finally

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> > > > told me at 12 that a mom is suppose to HUG you and love you not Poke

you. This

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> > > > did not become an issue until he was a teen and I am glad he figured it

out or

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> > > > we could have continued in a very difficult relationship throughout his

teen

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> > > > years. It is important to talk to your kids about all of this so they do

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My daughter, Lacey has CdLS and CVID. She has a MediPort and was on IVIG

since a critical illness in 2003. A couple years ago we switched to SQ.

Recently her infectious disease doctor decided to switch her back to IVIG (for

reasons I'll include in a separate post) and our previous IVIG nurse came to

our house and did her first dose. She started out initially getting her

IVIG infusions at the day hospital, but for most of the years she was on it,

it was done at home with a nurse. Now the home infusion company is telling

me that MediCare will not pay for the nurse to come out anymore and they

said I should just do it myself at home. I told her I didn't think they would

have family do IVIG and she said oh yes, we have families who do their

own. Has anyone ever heard of this? Lacey has a nurse at home Mon-Fri 8

hrs/day, but she is an LVN and not supposed to do IV, so it would be on me. I'm

very comfortable accessing her port and I always do her IV antibiotics at

home, but I thought IVIG had to be given under medical supervision. I REALLY

don't want to have to go back to doing it at the day hospital!!

Belinda

Mom to Lacey, (22, CdLS, CVID, unexplained recurrrent fevers)

Oakley, CA

In a message dated 10/16/2010 6:12:23 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time,

osdbmom@... writes:

that is the reason my kids dont want to switch to subq. They say they want

me to stay their mom and comfort them, not be the nure and stick them.

Right now, Im respecting that. If they change their minds, they know they can

switch. But Im not going to force them. They do great with IVIG, and have

wonderful nurses.

We go to our hospitals infusion room and always have. Its nice, its not

like a regular hospital room. There are comfy recliners, games, a big flat

screen for movies, a game cube and tons of games. Often, my daughter will

bring beads or crafts and the nurses will sit and do those with her:)

We used to have a problem with my sons fighting over who HAD to go first.

Then, last yr for Christmas, we bought one boy a DSI and one boy a PSP. The

catch is, they are only allowed to play with them on IVIG day:) now they

just about knock each other down trying to get to their line in first, ROFL.

valarie

mom to 3 w/cvid

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worries with the sub-Q. I have no issue with starting it ( have a medical

background), but I worry about my son feeling like it is something that I am

doing to him or that I am hurting him.

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> From: mother5590@...

> Date: Fri, 15 Oct 2010 19:42:16 -0700

> Subject: Re: location for ivig....

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> $$$'s trying to get over " mom " sticking him or MAKING him get poked. It

has been

>

> a LONG haul trying to convince him that I do not LIKE to punish him by

>

> requiring all of this. I know that is NOT this way for all of our kids.

But for

>

> my kid it has been traumatic to not be allowed the assistance of a nurse

to work

>

> with at home or for him to have the choice to go to a clinic to get his

Sub Q

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> started. We are finally doing well about it all. I had to insist 2 years

ago

>

> that it be started by a nurse in the Immunologists office. ( I am a

Pediatric RN

>

> so makes NO sense at all). We were REALLY struggling for many months

trying to

>

> figure out his refusal to do his Gamma and finally figured it out.. He

finally

>

> told me at 12 that a mom is suppose to HUG you and love you not Poke

you. This

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> did not become an issue until he was a teen and I am glad he figured it

out or

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> we could have continued in a very difficult relationship throughout his

teen

>

> years. It is important to talk to your kids about all of this so they do

not

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> " carry " this resentment.

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> BARBIE

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Belinda,

Actually, there are many patients that do IVIG at home by themselves. Until 19

months ago, when I went off IVIG, I actually started my own IVs (I was a

paramedic). I loved it! I would start my IV and then go back to housekeeping

or whatever I wanted to do. It was so much better than sitting in a clinic for

10 hours (I had to run mine 10 hours in a split dose twice a month to avoid side

effects. Then my local immuno got worried and said no more. He had never had a

patient on IVIG outside a clinic. But now, I know there are many, many patients

that manage it at home themselves. Also, because reimbursement for nursing care

at home is either nill or very poor and limited (in terms of the number of hours

they can be there), patients who do have a nurse present of the entire infusion

at home is becoming a rarity. I recently talked to a doc about going bacvk on

Ig, and explained the concern over managing at home without a nurse. We have

ALWAYS made sure someone was with me that was not afraid to use and epi pen and

ALWAYS had the epi pen taped to the IV pole). This immuno went on to tell me he

has several patients that live in the boondocks in Alaska that start and manage

their own IVIG and were NOT paramedics.

That being said, I would NEVER want to start an IV on my own kid and would draw

the line there. BUT, with a port, it certainly makes it easier to avoid that.

All in all, in my opinion, I was watched much more closely at home by my family

than I was in an infusion center where they would start the infusion, then leave

the room for hours before I saw them again.

Medicare really makes it difficult to manage PIDD. The reason I had to stop Ig

all together was because they would not allow me to infuse at home without a

nurse.....I could not get a nurse to do any more than start my IV at home then

leave (I can start my own IV better than most nurses). Then, had I gone to an

infusion center, I could not get medicare (it is a secondary policy to my

primary) to pay for the infusions. So my copay in clinic was HUGE. Plus, I

then had to pay someone $250 each day that I had to be in the clinic so I had

someone with my homebound children.

There are so many benefits to being at home.....in terms of lessening exposure

risk to the emotional benefits. I also wanted to share that 2 years ago, we saw

an immuno on consult who wanted to put our kiddos back on IVIG, taking them off

subq. He said there had been several studies done where they found that

children with chronic lung infections improve more on IVIG than on SCIG. I have

not been able to find a study and their regular immuno had never heard of such a

thing. Not sure.

Terri

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> > Barbie,

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> > Thank you for sharing your story. That is actually one of my biggest

> worries with the sub-Q. I have no issue with starting it ( have a medical

> background), but I worry about my son feeling like it is something that I am

> doing to him or that I am hurting him.

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> >

> > _ _ (mailto: )

> > From: mother5590@

> > Date: Fri, 15 Oct 2010 19:42:16 -0700

> > Subject: Re: location for ivig....

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> > $$$'s trying to get over " mom " sticking him or MAKING him get poked. It

> has been

> >

> > a LONG haul trying to convince him that I do not LIKE to punish him by

> >

> > requiring all of this. I know that is NOT this way for all of our kids.

> But for

> >

> > my kid it has been traumatic to not be allowed the assistance of a nurse

> to work

> >

> > with at home or for him to have the choice to go to a clinic to get his

> Sub Q

> >

> > started. We are finally doing well about it all. I had to insist 2 years

> ago

> >

> > that it be started by a nurse in the Immunologists office. ( I am a

> Pediatric RN

> >

> > so makes NO sense at all). We were REALLY struggling for many months

> trying to

> >

> > figure out his refusal to do his Gamma and finally figured it out.. He

> finally

> >

> > told me at 12 that a mom is suppose to HUG you and love you not Poke

> you. This

> >

> > did not become an issue until he was a teen and I am glad he figured it

> out or

> >

> > we could have continued in a very difficult relationship throughout his

> teen

> >

> > years. It is important to talk to your kids about all of this so they do

> not

> >

> > " carry " this resentment.

> >

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> >

> > BARBIE

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Belinda,

Actually, there are many patients that do IVIG at home by themselves. Until 19

months ago, when I went off IVIG, I actually started my own IVs (I was a

paramedic). I loved it! I would start my IV and then go back to housekeeping

or whatever I wanted to do. It was so much better than sitting in a clinic for

10 hours (I had to run mine 10 hours in a split dose twice a month to avoid side

effects. Then my local immuno got worried and said no more. He had never had a

patient on IVIG outside a clinic. But now, I know there are many, many patients

that manage it at home themselves. Also, because reimbursement for nursing care

at home is either nill or very poor and limited (in terms of the number of hours

they can be there), patients who do have a nurse present of the entire infusion

at home is becoming a rarity. I recently talked to a doc about going bacvk on

Ig, and explained the concern over managing at home without a nurse. We have

ALWAYS made sure someone was with me that was not afraid to use and epi pen and

ALWAYS had the epi pen taped to the IV pole). This immuno went on to tell me he

has several patients that live in the boondocks in Alaska that start and manage

their own IVIG and were NOT paramedics.

That being said, I would NEVER want to start an IV on my own kid and would draw

the line there. BUT, with a port, it certainly makes it easier to avoid that.

All in all, in my opinion, I was watched much more closely at home by my family

than I was in an infusion center where they would start the infusion, then leave

the room for hours before I saw them again.

Medicare really makes it difficult to manage PIDD. The reason I had to stop Ig

all together was because they would not allow me to infuse at home without a

nurse.....I could not get a nurse to do any more than start my IV at home then

leave (I can start my own IV better than most nurses). Then, had I gone to an

infusion center, I could not get medicare (it is a secondary policy to my

primary) to pay for the infusions. So my copay in clinic was HUGE. Plus, I

then had to pay someone $250 each day that I had to be in the clinic so I had

someone with my homebound children.

There are so many benefits to being at home.....in terms of lessening exposure

risk to the emotional benefits. I also wanted to share that 2 years ago, we saw

an immuno on consult who wanted to put our kiddos back on IVIG, taking them off

subq. He said there had been several studies done where they found that

children with chronic lung infections improve more on IVIG than on SCIG. I have

not been able to find a study and their regular immuno had never heard of such a

thing. Not sure.

Terri

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> > Barbie,

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> > Thank you for sharing your story. That is actually one of my biggest

> worries with the sub-Q. I have no issue with starting it ( have a medical

> background), but I worry about my son feeling like it is something that I am

> doing to him or that I am hurting him.

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> > _ _ (mailto: )

> > From: mother5590@

> > Date: Fri, 15 Oct 2010 19:42:16 -0700

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> > $$$'s trying to get over " mom " sticking him or MAKING him get poked. It

> has been

> >

> > a LONG haul trying to convince him that I do not LIKE to punish him by

> >

> > requiring all of this. I know that is NOT this way for all of our kids.

> But for

> >

> > my kid it has been traumatic to not be allowed the assistance of a nurse

> to work

> >

> > with at home or for him to have the choice to go to a clinic to get his

> Sub Q

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> > started. We are finally doing well about it all. I had to insist 2 years

> ago

> >

> > that it be started by a nurse in the Immunologists office. ( I am a

> Pediatric RN

> >

> > so makes NO sense at all). We were REALLY struggling for many months

> trying to

> >

> > figure out his refusal to do his Gamma and finally figured it out.. He

> finally

> >

> > told me at 12 that a mom is suppose to HUG you and love you not Poke

> you. This

> >

> > did not become an issue until he was a teen and I am glad he figured it

> out or

> >

> > we could have continued in a very difficult relationship throughout his

> teen

> >

> > years. It is important to talk to your kids about all of this so they do

> not

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> > " carry " this resentment.

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For myself, I would not want to do that, and only because if there is an

emergency...what would you do? at an infusion center, if a kid reacts to IVIG,

there can be staff there in seconds to help...what would you do, for instance,

if the child had a rigors reaction(like mine did) after doing IG perfectly fine

for years, just out of the blue? or I know some kids who have anaphylaxis

reactions, neurological reactions,etc...some kids can do IG just fine for a long

time then suddenly react....that would be a lot of responsiblity on your

shoulders, when it sounds like you already have an awful lot to deal with

concerning your child.

I hope you can get things worked out.

valarie

mom to 3 w/cvid

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> > > Barbie,

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> > > Thank you for sharing your story. That is actually one of my biggest

> > worries with the sub-Q. I have no issue with starting it ( have a medical

> > background), but I worry about my son feeling like it is something that I

am

> > doing to him or that I am hurting him.

> > >

> > >

> > > _ _ (mailto: )

> > > From: mother5590@

> > > Date: Fri, 15 Oct 2010 19:42:16 -0700

> > > Subject: Re: location for ivig....

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> > > $$$'s trying to get over " mom " sticking him or MAKING him get poked. It

> > has been

> > >

> > > a LONG haul trying to convince him that I do not LIKE to punish him by

> > >

> > > requiring all of this. I know that is NOT this way for all of our kids.

> > But for

> > >

> > > my kid it has been traumatic to not be allowed the assistance of a nurse

> > to work

> > >

> > > with at home or for him to have the choice to go to a clinic to get his

> > Sub Q

> > >

> > > started. We are finally doing well about it all. I had to insist 2 years

> > ago

> > >

> > > that it be started by a nurse in the Immunologists office. ( I am a

> > Pediatric RN

> > >

> > > so makes NO sense at all). We were REALLY struggling for many months

> > trying to

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For myself, I would not want to do that, and only because if there is an

emergency...what would you do? at an infusion center, if a kid reacts to IVIG,

there can be staff there in seconds to help...what would you do, for instance,

if the child had a rigors reaction(like mine did) after doing IG perfectly fine

for years, just out of the blue? or I know some kids who have anaphylaxis

reactions, neurological reactions,etc...some kids can do IG just fine for a long

time then suddenly react....that would be a lot of responsiblity on your

shoulders, when it sounds like you already have an awful lot to deal with

concerning your child.

I hope you can get things worked out.

valarie

mom to 3 w/cvid

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> > background), but I worry about my son feeling like it is something that I

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> > > _ _ (mailto: )

> > > From: mother5590@

> > > Date: Fri, 15 Oct 2010 19:42:16 -0700

> > > Subject: Re: location for ivig....

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> > > so makes NO sense at all). We were REALLY struggling for many months

> > trying to

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> > > figure out his refusal to do his Gamma and finally figured it out.. He

> > finally

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> > > told me at 12 that a mom is suppose to HUG you and love you not Poke

> > you. This

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> > > did not become an issue until he was a teen and I am glad he figured it

> > out or

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> > > we could have continued in a very difficult relationship throughout his

> > teen

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> > > years. It is important to talk to your kids about all of this so they do

> > not

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> > > " carry " this resentment.

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> > > BARBIE

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Hi Terri~~

Thank you so much for your comments and information! That's very

interesting about IVIG and lung infections. Lacey's main problem is her lungs so

maybe she will do better on IV vs SQ. It will be interesting to see as we go

along!

Belinda

Mom to Lacey, (22, CdLS, CVID, recurrent unexplained fevers)

Oakley, CA

In a message dated 10/17/2010 7:03:50 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time,

tcerda@... writes:

Belinda,

Actually, there are many patients that do IVIG at home by themselves.

Until 19 months ago, when I went off IVIG, I actually started my own IVs (I was

a paramedic). I loved it! I would start my IV and then go back to

housekeeping or whatever I wanted to do. It was so much better than sitting in

a

clinic for 10 hours (I had to run mine 10 hours in a split dose twice a month

to avoid side effects. Then my local immuno got worried and said no more.

He had never had a patient on IVIG outside a clinic. But now, I know there

are many, many patients that manage it at home themselves. Also, because

reimbursement for nursing care at home is either nill or very poor and limited

(in terms of the number of hours they can be there), patients who do have

a nurse present of the entire infusion at home is becoming a rarity. I

recently talked to a doc about going bacvk on Ig, and explained the concern

over managing at home without a nurse. We have ALWAYS made sure someone was

with me that was not afraid to use and epi pen and ALWAYS had the epi pen

taped to the IV pole). This immuno went on to tell me he has several patients

that live in the boondocks in Alaska that start and manage their own IVIG

and were NOT paramedics.

That being said, I would NEVER want to start an IV on my own kid and would

draw the line there. BUT, with a port, it certainly makes it easier to

avoid that. All in all, in my opinion, I was watched much more closely at home

by my family than I was in an infusion center where they would start the

infusion, then leave the room for hours before I saw them again.

Medicare really makes it difficult to manage PIDD. The reason I had to

stop Ig all together was because they would not allow me to infuse at home

without a nurse.....I could not get a nurse to do any more than start my IV at

home then leave (I can start my own IV better than most nurses). Then, had

I gone to an infusion center, I could not get medicare (it is a secondary

policy to my primary) to pay for the infusions. So my copay in clinic was

HUGE. Plus, I then had to pay someone $250 each day that I had to be in the

clinic so I had someone with my homebound children.

There are so many benefits to being at home.....in terms of lessening

exposure risk to the emotional benefits. I also wanted to share that 2 years

ago, we saw an immuno on consult who wanted to put our kiddos back on IVIG,

taking them off subq. He said there had been several studies done where they

found that children with chronic lung infections improve more on IVIG than

on SCIG. I have not been able to find a study and their regular immuno had

never heard of such a thing. Not sure.

Terri

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> > Barbie,

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> > Thank you for sharing your story. That is actually one of my biggest

> worries with the sub-Q. I have no issue with starting it ( have a

medical

> background), but I worry about my son feeling like it is something that

I am

> doing to him or that I am hurting him.

> >

> >

> > __ _ (mailto:_ ) _

(mailto:_ _ (mailto: ) )

> > From: mother5590@

> > Date: Fri, 15 Oct 2010 19:42:16 -0700

> > Subject: Re: location for ivig....

> >

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> > The BIGGEST issue for me is that my son has spent a great deal of

> counseling

> >

> > $$$'s trying to get over " mom " sticking him or MAKING him get poked.

It

> has been

> >

> > a LONG haul trying to convince him that I do not LIKE to punish him by

> >

> > requiring all of this. I know that is NOT this way for all of our

kids.

> But for

> >

> > my kid it has been traumatic to not be allowed the assistance of a

nurse

> to work

> >

> > with at home or for him to have the choice to go to a clinic to get

his

> Sub Q

> >

> > started. We are finally doing well about it all. I had to insist 2

years

> ago

> >

> > that it be started by a nurse in the Immunologists office. ( I am a

> Pediatric RN

> >

> > so makes NO sense at all). We were REALLY struggling for many months

> trying to

> >

> > figure out his refusal to do his Gamma and finally figured it out.. He

> finally

> >

> > told me at 12 that a mom is suppose to HUG you and love you not Poke

> you. This

> >

> > did not become an issue until he was a teen and I am glad he figured

it

> out or

> >

> > we could have continued in a very difficult relationship throughout

his

> teen

> >

> > years. It is important to talk to your kids about all of this so they

do

> not

> >

> > " carry " this resentment.

> >

> >

> >

> > BARBIE

> >

> >

> >

> > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

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