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The ADOS (or ADOS-G which has superceded it for the past few years) is not a diagnostic tool for autism. A further ADOS wiull not clarify much. It only assesses current behaviour so gives an indication of what the person currently does. ICD and DSM criteria bot rely on developmental history as a critical part of the picture. An ADI-R would help to clarify things.Hope this helps.Ken From: K <kjaworowska@...>Subject: Diagnosis dilemnaAutism Treatment Date: Wednesday, 1 September, 2010, 20:58

My local communication clinic is on a mission to diagnose Kuba. We had our first pediatrician meeting in February 2009, she gave us an appointment for receiving a diagnosis in July 2009. In the time between those 2 dates we changed diet and started biomedical. During the diagnosis meeting they basically did a long interview with us barely noticing Kuba. We said Lorene did the ADOS with Kuba and according to it Kuba was not autistic. They would not accept Lorene's assessment . At this point we also knew that Kuba had constant glue ear but we knew nothing about the condition which was presented to us a minor problem. We went to the meeting prepared that they would give us a diagnosis, instead we were told they were not sure what his difficulties were and because Kuba was improving greatly, they wouldn't give us a diagnosis. After summer holiday, Jakub had another ear infection. Then we started ABA and our therapist said that she suspected some

auditory problems because Jakub guesses a lot. We started thinking and reading about it and the obvious starting point was glue ear. We read that contrary to what we were told glue ear gives a lot of behavioural problems (sometimes similar to autistm) and if not treated in time can lead to auditory processing disorder. We wrote a letter to our ENT department (which was "monitoring" Kuba's hearing loss of more than 30 dB for over a year) that we are no longer willing to do so and requested immediate surgery. Kuba had his grommets inserted in March this year. They sent us appointment for ADOS when we were away on holidays. And they have now sent another appointment for September.

Sorry for the long history. As Jakub gets older its more and more obvious he is not autistic, but he hates the hospital and doesn't like being tested. I feel he might not behave in the hospital the same way as anywhere else. I also feel that even if he was autistic he is so high on the spectrum that the diagnosis at this point would not help him, especially in Scotland where I feel this diagnosis is an excuse for not doing anything about child's health or education.

I feel I have 3 options:

1. refuse the test (but then would they get off our back?)

2. go for it and if I see Jakub is not acting like himself leave

3. pretend I've never received the letter

Thank you for reading and if you could suggest what you would do of the three, or can suggest any other options to us, we'd greatly appreciate it.

Kasia

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Thank you Ken. They interview us before, not sure if it was ADI-R.

I think my real question is: what if they say Kuba is autistic and I don't agree

with that. Can I ask them not to share the diagnosis with anyone else. Can I

fight the diagnosis?

On one hand I would love to have the " all clear " from the communication clinic

because that would stop everyone from wondering is he or isn't he autistic? I

would like to have that statement to. On other hand I'm more and more aware of

the limitation of the diagnosis of autism (not sure anymore if there is a single

thing called autism) and have even lessfaith in the health professionals.

Kasia

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> My local communication clinic is on a mission to diagnose Kuba. We had

our first pediatrician meeting in February 2009, she gave us an appointment for

receiving a diagnosis in July 2009. In the time between those 2 dates we changed

diet and started biomedical. During the diagnosis meeting they basically did a

long interview with us barely noticing Kuba. We said Lorene did the ADOS with

Kuba and according to it Kuba was not autistic. They would not accept Lorene's

assessment . At this point we also knew that Kuba had constant glue ear but we

knew nothing about the condition which was presented to us a minor problem. We

went to the meeting prepared that they would give us a diagnosis, instead we

were told they were not sure what his difficulties were and because Kuba was

improving greatly, they wouldn't give us a diagnosis. After summer holiday,

Jakub had another ear infection. Then we started ABA and our therapist said that

she suspected some

> auditory problems because Jakub guesses a lot. We started thinking and

reading about it and the obvious starting point was glue ear. We read that

contrary to what we were told glue ear gives a lot of behavioural problems

(sometimes similar to autistm) and if not treated in time can lead to auditory

processing disorder. We wrote a letter to our ENT department (which was

" monitoring " Kuba's hearing loss of more than 30 dB for over a year) that we are

no longer willing to do so and requested immediate surgery. Kuba had his

grommets inserted in March this year. They sent us appointment for ADOS when we

were away on holidays. And they have now sent another appointment for

September.

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> Sorry for the long history. As Jakub gets older its more and more obvious he

is not autistic, but he hates the hospital and doesn't like being tested. I feel

he might not behave in the hospital the same way as anywhere else. I also feel

that even if he was autistic he is so high on the spectrum that the diagnosis at

this point would not help him, especially in Scotland where I feel this

diagnosis is an excuse for not doing anything about child's health or education.

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> 2. go for it and if I see Jakub is not acting like himself leave

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> 3. pretend I've never received the letter

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> Thank you for reading and if you could suggest what you would do of the three,

or can suggest any other options to us, we'd greatly appreciate it.

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> Kasia

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Hi Kasia

Stall them -absolutely.

IMHO

What I find amazing is how you're keeping to keep a clear head with all this

going on. Getting a child through any op is horrible. Poor Kid. Stress.

They are pressurising you for a diagnosis because they want to squeeze him into

the system and that's it. Well your child might be a number to them but he's

worth fighting for, every child is,

because as you've seen its not as clear cut as it would appear.

An education for a child who has compromised hearing is very different from one

with autism. Even if he is on the spectrum, which is in doubt, to help in the

right way he is going to need a great deal of speech and language therapy from a

therapist, 1-1 (i.e. not assistants/teaching assistants) who has an

understanding of children with hearing loss and auditory processing disorder.

You might want to educate him at home for a while and fight for funding to do

this which will give you flexibility on the therapy side, to find the right

person, because Speech and Language Therapists are hard to come by in schools,

special or otherwise. If you're at home, you can use funds they supply to find

your own.

If you get the wrong diagnosis Jakub could be placed in a special school, or

mainstream with support, where they do not understand the impact of his other

problems and fall further behind, so I totally understand your concerns.

I'm presuming there is no detailed Statement in place yet - if there is you will

have to fight to get this kind of education in the Statement.

So you need to buy time on this diagnosis.

You could say that you would like to revisit the diagnosis in x amount of time,

because the hearing loss he has suffered is affecting how he presents and

responds to tests,and you would like to give Jakub time to recover from the op?

March this year isn't long for a person to adjust to grommets. You could say you

have noticed deterioriation/very intermittent responses.

That way when you do need to go back you will have an open door and everyone has

saved face. Can you ring the ENT clinic and ask them when typically a child

might have recovered from the op first? Tell them you have noticed

deterioration?

Then when you have got the time you need:

I would then press for your Son to be referred to Great Ormond Street or a

Specialist children's hearing hospital for a detailed exam if you have not done

that yet. Tell them you are greatly concerned and you do not feel this is

untoward (it isn't). What you will do is gain evidence for Kuba's diagnosis,

however this turns out. They usually book in a follow up appointment after

assessment which takes ages, so you can buy yet more time. You can go privately

if you have the money.

Jakub's going to need a lot of help in this area and without evidence it will be

hard to get.

If you can afford it then I would be looking at an independent point of view on

the diagnosis, not in-depth at this stage - just a brief interview with an

autism specialist to ask their opinion on how Jakub presents, given all the

information. Not a detailed and costly report at this stage - you could get that

later if needed(!) Someone mainstream enough to command respect from these

people and if that person says the right things, you can call on their opinion

in conversation/letters. Lorene's opinion would carry a lot of weight with me,

but usually biomed doesn't go down well with mainstream medicine.

Sounds like they are rushing things to me particularly after Kuba has had his

grommets put in place, a wrong diagnosis isn't the way to go for his education

and his life.

They are wrong to put such pressure on you. If you can afford to do so without

compromising any other education he is receiving, buy time.

Nightmare - I'm really sorry for you and hope Jakub is picking up and doing OK

at the moment.

Eileen xx

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> My local communication clinic is on a mission to diagnose Kuba. We had our

first pediatrician meeting in February 2009, she gave us an appointment for

receiving a diagnosis in July 2009. In the time between those 2 dates we changed

diet and started biomedical. During the diagnosis meeting they basically did a

long interview with us barely noticing Kuba. We said Lorene did the ADOS with

Kuba and according to it Kuba was not autistic. They would not accept Lorene's

assessment . At this point we also knew that Kuba had constant glue ear but we

knew nothing about the condition which was presented to us a minor problem. We

went to the meeting prepared that they would give us a diagnosis, instead we

were told they were not sure what his difficulties were and because Kuba was

improving greatly, they wouldn't give us a diagnosis. After summer holiday,

Jakub had another ear infection. Then we started ABA and our therapist said that

she suspected some auditory problems because Jakub guesses a lot. We started

thinking and reading about it and the obvious starting point was glue ear. We

read that contrary to what we were told glue ear gives a lot of behavioural

problems (sometimes similar to autistm) and if not treated in time can lead to

auditory processing disorder. We wrote a letter to our ENT department (which was

" monitoring " Kuba's hearing loss of more than 30 dB for over a year) that we are

no longer willing to do so and requested immediate surgery. Kuba had his

grommets inserted in March this year. They sent us appointment for ADOS when we

were away on holidays. And they have now sent another appointment for

September.

> Sorry for the long history. As Jakub gets older its more and more obvious he

is not autistic, but he hates the hospital and doesn't like being tested. I feel

he might not behave in the hospital the same way as anywhere else. I also feel

that even if he was autistic he is so high on the spectrum that the diagnosis at

this point would not help him, especially in Scotland where I feel this

diagnosis is an excuse for not doing anything about child's health or education.

> I feel I have 3 options:

> 1. refuse the test (but then would they get off our back?)

> 2. go for it and if I see Jakub is not acting like himself leave

> 3. pretend I've never received the letter

> Thank you for reading and if you could suggest what you would do of the three,

or can suggest any other options to us, we'd greatly appreciate it.

> Kasia

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Sorry Kasia sorry if my post wasn't clear :

Press the ENT to refer you to Great Ormond St. Not the guys who are backing you

into a corner.

Eileen xx

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> > My local communication clinic is on a mission to diagnose Kuba. We had our

first pediatrician meeting in February 2009, she gave us an appointment for

receiving a diagnosis in July 2009. In the time between those 2 dates we changed

diet and started biomedical. During the diagnosis meeting they basically did a

long interview with us barely noticing Kuba. We said Lorene did the ADOS with

Kuba and according to it Kuba was not autistic. They would not accept Lorene's

assessment . At this point we also knew that Kuba had constant glue ear but we

knew nothing about the condition which was presented to us a minor problem. We

went to the meeting prepared that they would give us a diagnosis, instead we

were told they were not sure what his difficulties were and because Kuba was

improving greatly, they wouldn't give us a diagnosis. After summer holiday,

Jakub had another ear infection. Then we started ABA and our therapist said that

she suspected some auditory problems because Jakub guesses a lot. We started

thinking and reading about it and the obvious starting point was glue ear. We

read that contrary to what we were told glue ear gives a lot of behavioural

problems (sometimes similar to autistm) and if not treated in time can lead to

auditory processing disorder. We wrote a letter to our ENT department (which was

" monitoring " Kuba's hearing loss of more than 30 dB for over a year) that we are

no longer willing to do so and requested immediate surgery. Kuba had his

grommets inserted in March this year. They sent us appointment for ADOS when we

were away on holidays. And they have now sent another appointment for

September.

> > Sorry for the long history. As Jakub gets older its more and more obvious he

is not autistic, but he hates the hospital and doesn't like being tested. I feel

he might not behave in the hospital the same way as anywhere else. I also feel

that even if he was autistic he is so high on the spectrum that the diagnosis at

this point would not help him, especially in Scotland where I feel this

diagnosis is an excuse for not doing anything about child's health or education.

> > I feel I have 3 options:

> > 1. refuse the test (but then would they get off our back?)

> > 2. go for it and if I see Jakub is not acting like himself leave

> > 3. pretend I've never received the letter

> > Thank you for reading and if you could suggest what you would do of the

three, or can suggest any other options to us, we'd greatly appreciate it.

> > Kasia

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Hi - just wanted to say this struck a real cord with me. My son is nearly 3 (how

old is Kuba ?) - he was in the process of getting a diagnosis which was leaning

towards ASD / Aspergers. He had recurrent glue ear from a baby and has just been

clear (without intervention for about a year now. We also began bio-med and have

seen huge improvements although he does still exhibit some traits - odd

behaviours they are much less in frequency. We have only been on biomed 4-6mnths

anyway - so waiting to see the impact of that. As you say too - my son would be

very much on the high functioning side of ASD and I think it is this fact that

makes me keen to delay a diagnosis which he cannot then shake off down the line.

NHS do seem keen to DX - and like you I have decided to delay any further

testing to give him some time to mature and see where we end up

Good luck - sounds like we have some similarities so will watch your progress

with interest x

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our first pediatrician meeting in February 2009, she gave us an appointment for

receiving a diagnosis in July 2009. In the time between those 2 dates we changed

diet and started biomedical. During the diagnosis meeting they basically did a

long interview with us barely noticing Kuba. We said Lorene did the ADOS with

Kuba and according to it Kuba was not autistic. They would not accept Lorene's

assessment . At this point we also knew that Kuba had constant glue ear but we

knew nothing about the condition which was presented to us a minor problem. We

went to the meeting prepared that they would give us a diagnosis, instead we

were told they were not sure what his difficulties were and because Kuba was

improving greatly, they wouldn't give us a diagnosis. After summer holiday,

Jakub had another ear infection. Then we started ABA and our therapist said that

she suspected some

> > auditory problems because Jakub guesses a lot. We started thinking and

reading about it and the obvious starting point was glue ear. We read that

contrary to what we were told glue ear gives a lot of behavioural problems

(sometimes similar to autistm) and if not treated in time can lead to auditory

processing disorder. We wrote a letter to our ENT department (which was

" monitoring " Kuba's hearing loss of more than 30 dB for over a year) that we are

no longer willing to do so and requested immediate surgery. Kuba had his

grommets inserted in March this year. They sent us appointment for ADOS when we

were away on holidays. And they have now sent another appointment for

September.

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> > Sorry for the long history. As Jakub gets older its more and more obvious he

is not autistic, but he hates the hospital and doesn't like being tested. I feel

he might not behave in the hospital the same way as anywhere else. I also feel

that even if he was autistic he is so high on the spectrum that the diagnosis at

this point would not help him, especially in Scotland where I feel this

diagnosis is an excuse for not doing anything about child's health or education.

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three, or can suggest any other options to us, we'd greatly appreciate it.

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Kasia - I'd play for time. I would highlight why I didn't want the diagnosis to

go ahead so your concerns are clearly stated so you have some comeback.

From what I know a " lay " practitioner can be trained to administer the ADOS.

Often therapists who aren't in the clinical field use it. Don't know if you've

seen it but from where I sit its the kind of test most people wouldn't struggle

that much with and to my mind extremely subjective. (But so many of the tests

are anyway.)

Probably Lorene was giving an opinion rather than a diagnosis but I take Darla's

point. I thought she had a child with Autism as well or did I imagine that? From

my experience and we're all different, I got a more honest opinion (and as it

turned out, a more accurate one) from people like Lorene than those in

developmental paediatrics in teaching hospitals, who are a little more cautious

for a variety of reasons some of which you state

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> > > My local communication clinic is on a mission to diagnose Kuba. We had

> > our first pediatrician meeting in February 2009, she gave us an appointment

> > for receiving a diagnosis in July 2009. In the time between those 2 dates we

> > changed diet and started biomedical. During the diagnosis meeting they

> > basically did a long interview with us barely noticing Kuba. We said Lorene

> > did the ADOS with Kuba and according to it Kuba was not autistic. They would

> > not accept Lorene's assessment . At this point we also knew that Kuba had

> > constant glue ear but we knew nothing about the condition which was

> > presented to us a minor problem. We went to the meeting prepared that they

> > would give us a diagnosis, instead we were told they were not sure what his

> > difficulties were and because Kuba was improving greatly, they wouldn't give

> > us a diagnosis. After summer holiday, Jakub had another ear infection. Then

> > we started ABA and our therapist said that she suspected some auditory

> > problems because Jakub guesses a lot. We started thinking and reading about

> > it and the obvious starting point was glue ear. We read that contrary to

> > what we were told glue ear gives a lot of behavioural problems (sometimes

> > similar to autistm) and if not treated in time can lead to auditory

> > processing disorder. We wrote a letter to our ENT department (which was

> > " monitoring " Kuba's hearing loss of more than 30 dB for over a year) that we

> > are no longer willing to do so and requested immediate surgery. Kuba had his

> > grommets inserted in March this year. They sent us appointment for ADOS when

> > we were away on holidays. And they have now sent another appointment for

> > September.

> > > Sorry for the long history. As Jakub gets older its more and more obvious

> > he is not autistic, but he hates the hospital and doesn't like being tested.

> > I feel he might not behave in the hospital the same way as anywhere else. I

> > also feel that even if he was autistic he is so high on the spectrum that

> > the diagnosis at this point would not help him, especially in Scotland where

> > I feel this diagnosis is an excuse for not doing anything about child's

> > health or education.

> > > I feel I have 3 options:

> > > 1. refuse the test (but then would they get off our back?)

> > > 2. go for it and if I see Jakub is not acting like himself leave

> > > 3. pretend I've never received the letter

> > > Thank you for reading and if you could suggest what you would do of the

> > three, or can suggest any other options to us, we'd greatly appreciate it.

> > > Kasia

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Thank you again Ken and everyone else. We are, at present, in touch with an

Auditory Processing Specialist ising the Johansen Method.

Helen, if you want to contact me offline, message me and I'll share info we

gathered and the contacts we found with reference to glue ear/CAPD.

Lorene was going through training in ADOS when she made the assessment of Kuba,

and her diagnosis was confirmed by her tutors. I think she is fully qualified

to do ADOS now, but it may be worth checking with her.

Thanks again,

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our first pediatrician meeting in February 2009, she gave us an appointment for

receiving a diagnosis in July 2009. In the time between those 2 dates we changed

diet and started biomedical. During the diagnosis meeting they basically did a

long interview with us barely noticing Kuba. We said Lorene did the ADOS with

Kuba and according to it Kuba was not autistic. They would not accept Lorene's

assessment . At this point we also knew that Kuba had constant glue ear but we

knew nothing about the condition which was presented to us a minor problem. We

went to the meeting prepared that they would give us a diagnosis, instead we

were told they were not sure what his difficulties were and because Kuba was

improving greatly, they wouldn't give us a diagnosis. After summer holiday,

Jakub had another ear infection. Then we started ABA and our therapist said that

she suspected some

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> > auditory problems because Jakub guesses a lot. We started thinking and

reading about it and the obvious starting point was glue ear. We read that

contrary to what we were told glue ear gives a lot of behavioural problems

(sometimes similar to autistm) and if not treated in time can lead to auditory

processing disorder. We wrote a letter to our ENT department (which was

" monitoring " Kuba's hearing loss of more than 30 dB for over a year) that we are

no longer willing to do so and requested immediate surgery. Kuba had his

grommets inserted in March this year. They sent us appointment for ADOS when we

were away on holidays. And they have now sent another appointment for

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> > Sorry for the long history. As Jakub gets older its more and more obvious he

is not autistic, but he hates the hospital and doesn't like being tested. I feel

he might not behave in the hospital the same way as anywhere else. I also feel

that even if he was autistic he is so high on the spectrum that the diagnosis at

this point would not help him, especially in Scotland where I feel this

diagnosis is an excuse for not doing anything about child's health or education.

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three, or can suggest any other options to us, we'd greatly appreciate it.

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Thank you again Ken and everyone else. We are, at present, in touch with an

Auditory Processing Specialist ising the Johansen Method.

Helen, if you want to contact me offline, message me and I'll share info we

gathered and the contacts we found with reference to glue ear/CAPD.

Lorene was going through training in ADOS when she made the assessment of Kuba,

and her diagnosis was confirmed by her tutors. I think she is fully qualified

to do ADOS now, but it may be worth checking with her.

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Kasia

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our first pediatrician meeting in February 2009, she gave us an appointment for

receiving a diagnosis in July 2009. In the time between those 2 dates we changed

diet and started biomedical. During the diagnosis meeting they basically did a

long interview with us barely noticing Kuba. We said Lorene did the ADOS with

Kuba and according to it Kuba was not autistic. They would not accept Lorene's

assessment . At this point we also knew that Kuba had constant glue ear but we

knew nothing about the condition which was presented to us a minor problem. We

went to the meeting prepared that they would give us a diagnosis, instead we

were told they were not sure what his difficulties were and because Kuba was

improving greatly, they wouldn't give us a diagnosis. After summer holiday,

Jakub had another ear infection. Then we started ABA and our therapist said that

she suspected some

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> > auditory problems because Jakub guesses a lot. We started thinking and

reading about it and the obvious starting point was glue ear. We read that

contrary to what we were told glue ear gives a lot of behavioural problems

(sometimes similar to autistm) and if not treated in time can lead to auditory

processing disorder. We wrote a letter to our ENT department (which was

" monitoring " Kuba's hearing loss of more than 30 dB for over a year) that we are

no longer willing to do so and requested immediate surgery. Kuba had his

grommets inserted in March this year. They sent us appointment for ADOS when we

were away on holidays. And they have now sent another appointment for

September.

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> > Sorry for the long history. As Jakub gets older its more and more obvious he

is not autistic, but he hates the hospital and doesn't like being tested. I feel

he might not behave in the hospital the same way as anywhere else. I also feel

that even if he was autistic he is so high on the spectrum that the diagnosis at

this point would not help him, especially in Scotland where I feel this

diagnosis is an excuse for not doing anything about child's health or education.

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> > Thank you for reading and if you could suggest what you would do of the

three, or can suggest any other options to us, we'd greatly appreciate it.

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> > Kasia

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