Guest guest Posted November 30, 2010 Report Share Posted November 30, 2010 Hi. I haven't posted here in so long most of you won't know me, but I am facing a situation now that I really don't know how to handle and do not know anyone who has been in my spot, although from statistics I guess there are a lot of us. My husband of nearly 15 years left my two boys and me for another woman. Both of my boys are on the spectrum. My 13 yr old is high-functioning (Asperger's) and has OCD. My 5 yr old is nonverbal, has multiple sensory issues, eating issues, etc., Currently, we are in the process of divorcing. In October, my almost-ex moved in with a woman he'd known less than one month and continues to live with her and her two young children. This is NOT the woman he left us for and is, in fact, the third or fourth girlfriend he's had since leaving in June of this year. In between girlfriends, he has called me crying about what he did and that he didn't know what he was doing, and so on, and then the very next week he is "serious" with someone else. He cannot understand why I will not allow our children to meet this woman and her kids, saying it is because I am trying to be difficult or in control. That is not the reason. I do not think that any child should be exposed to anyone who has not been a consistent, significant other for at least six months but in particular, special needs kids should not be subjected to revolving door relationships. I have asked my son's therapists, my attorney, my counselor at church, my sons' doctors and a handful of friends their thoughts and NONE of them believe that my boys should be around this woman and her kids for at least six months after the divorce is final. So, I guess I'm asking for any input from those of you who may have been where I am, may know others who have dealt with this or just have some advice for me. I am trying to figure out what to put in my request for a Conduct Order for my kids and their visitation with their dad. It's just getting so frustrating. Thanks in advance. I may post this on a couple of other message boards I belong to so I can get as much help as possible. pyrgirl66@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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