Guest guest Posted July 7, 2010 Report Share Posted July 7, 2010 Dear , This is the kind of situation like soldiers in a war, believing in God or not, they ask for help. If God isn't your cup of tea, get as still as possible and ask the Universe for help, and to take over. You will be heard and helped, and the situation too. This may be what she needs to appreciate You. I have had miracle after miracle doing that. Love, Francine Speak with Him Thou for He hearest. Spirit with Spirit can speak. Closer is Love than breathing, Nearer than hands and feet. (with appreciation for Tennyson) DD leaving We are in the middle of getting a divorce ( finally ) after 28 years of marriage to a asperger man who does not care about me at all. I am not upset at all about that. What I am upset is that my 17 soon to be 18 year old year DD is going to live with him. She is not ready to live on her own and that is what living with him will be. She cannot realize when her meds needs to be refilleds and things like that. Last month, they went to Chicago together and they had a fight . He left her alone in the hotel room and she was crying and she texted me all upset. I would never do that to her but he thinks that that is OK to do to. I could hardly sleep last night. I know that there is nothing that I can to stop her because she is going to be 18 but I just wanted to vent Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 7, 2010 Report Share Posted July 7, 2010 Dear , This is the kind of situation like soldiers in a war, believing in God or not, they ask for help. If God isn't your cup of tea, get as still as possible and ask the Universe for help, and to take over. You will be heard and helped, and the situation too. This may be what she needs to appreciate You. I have had miracle after miracle doing that. Love, Francine Speak with Him Thou for He hearest. Spirit with Spirit can speak. Closer is Love than breathing, Nearer than hands and feet. (with appreciation for Tennyson) DD leaving We are in the middle of getting a divorce ( finally ) after 28 years of marriage to a asperger man who does not care about me at all. I am not upset at all about that. What I am upset is that my 17 soon to be 18 year old year DD is going to live with him. She is not ready to live on her own and that is what living with him will be. She cannot realize when her meds needs to be refilleds and things like that. Last month, they went to Chicago together and they had a fight . He left her alone in the hotel room and she was crying and she texted me all upset. I would never do that to her but he thinks that that is OK to do to. I could hardly sleep last night. I know that there is nothing that I can to stop her because she is going to be 18 but I just wanted to vent Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 7, 2010 Report Share Posted July 7, 2010 ((hugs)) I am so sorry you're going through this. You must be so worried. On the practical side, have you brought this up with the judge and/or attorney representing you in the divorce? If you have specific examples and some medical reasons why it wouldn't be in her best interest, please bring this up in your proceedings. Again, my heart goes out to you. Take care, http://mamabegood.blogspot.com/ > > We are in the middle of getting a divorce ( finally ) after 28 years of marriage to a asperger man who does not care about me at all. I am not upset at all about that. What I am upset is that my 17 soon to be 18 year old year DD is going to live with him. She is not ready to live on her own and that is what living with him will be. She cannot realize when her meds needs to be refilleds and things like that. Last month, they went to Chicago together and they had a fight . He left her alone in the hotel room and she was crying and she texted me all upset. I would never do that to her but he thinks that that is OK to do to. I could hardly sleep last night. I know that there is nothing that I can to stop her because she is going to be 18 but I just wanted to vent > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 7, 2010 Report Share Posted July 7, 2010 ((hugs)) I am so sorry you're going through this. You must be so worried. On the practical side, have you brought this up with the judge and/or attorney representing you in the divorce? If you have specific examples and some medical reasons why it wouldn't be in her best interest, please bring this up in your proceedings. Again, my heart goes out to you. Take care, http://mamabegood.blogspot.com/ > > We are in the middle of getting a divorce ( finally ) after 28 years of marriage to a asperger man who does not care about me at all. I am not upset at all about that. What I am upset is that my 17 soon to be 18 year old year DD is going to live with him. She is not ready to live on her own and that is what living with him will be. She cannot realize when her meds needs to be refilleds and things like that. Last month, they went to Chicago together and they had a fight . He left her alone in the hotel room and she was crying and she texted me all upset. I would never do that to her but he thinks that that is OK to do to. I could hardly sleep last night. I know that there is nothing that I can to stop her because she is going to be 18 but I just wanted to vent > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 8, 2010 Report Share Posted July 8, 2010 Thanks for both of your replies. Oh yes God is my cup of tea and yes I talk to him all the time . He gets a ear full. I have an appt with my lawyer next week. There really is nothing that I can do regarding who she lives with> I do not want to force her to live with me. Medically she only takes Focallin XR 15 mg so there really is no reason that way .. I want her to live with me because that is where she likes it. It is just another stressor in my all ready stress filled life Thanks > > We are in the middle of getting a divorce ( finally ) after 28 years of marriage to a asperger man who does not care about me at all. I am not upset at all about that. What I am upset is that my 17 soon to be 18 year old year DD is going to live with him. She is not ready to live on her own and that is what living with him will be. She cannot realize when her meds needs to be refilleds and things like that. Last month, they went to Chicago together and they had a fight . He left her alone in the hotel room and she was crying and she texted me all upset. I would never do that to her but he thinks that that is OK to do to. I could hardly sleep last night. I know that there is nothing that I can to stop her because she is going to be 18 but I just wanted to vent > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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