Re: I have a question Gail

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Hi Glenda.. I know your message says Gail, and not Del, but I can't tolerate what your TP Co-ordinater is doing. ANYONE that disrespects someone else, sick or not, by treating them like they are a dummy, (not planned), and act as if they are the Grand Poo-Pah that is all knowing, and makes us feel ignorant, insecure, humiliated, to the point of you writing what you did to Gail, should possibly be reprimanded. At the least, put your feelings on paper and ask to meet with them and their superior, and discuss how you feel. Use examples that actually happened to describe what she/he said to make you feel less than good about yourself and chances of survival.. Anything less than that is not acceptable. Your not looking for new friends, your looking for guidance, help, understanding about what your going through. HELL!! THEY BETTER KNOW MORE THAN YOU OR ME, THEY WENT TO SCHOOL

JUST TO LEARN THIS STUFF! It's easier to keep you in the dark and baffle you with Bull S*%$ than it is to handle what ever it is you need handled....or....treat you in a manner as if talking down to a three year old. I don't know her/him, but it sounds as if there is an insecurity issue going on inside them, and they act this way so you don't ask something they don't have an answer for... or they have lost the reason they chose to help others, or they are just burnt out. Occasionally we all may treat someone with without dignity or respect, but if this becomes the norm, and not the exception, it needs to stopped before it really gets out of hand. Sadly..... ya' know what? This technique works!!! It's unfortunate but true......she/he has successfully caused you to not want to ask questions for fear of being humiliated. This may

not be a conscious act on her/his part, but the dynamics of getting to the point of feeling "stupid" is present.... Right? Just look at your message again. I have experienced the same sensation as you are, but mine would stop after a BM.. it is a gut wrenching pain in the very lower abdomen, that makes you think (and sometimes do) scream out loud. I hope for the best, and you deserve the best. NO ONE has the right to talk down to you...not even your parents. I had a boss one time that belittled people, and I took him in his office and said."I need this job, but my father doesn't even talk to me that way. What makes you think I'm going to take this crap from you"? Problem solved...worked there 6 years.. Good Luck. Del glendajohn25@...

wrote: Gail, Thank you, I am uncomfortable and concerned. But my TX coordinator makes me feel stupid when I call. Have a great day. Happy New Year, Glenda __________________________________________________

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Sounds like your tx coordinator is on a power trip.Go to emergency and see if they can help you if your doctor won't.Let me know what happens.

Gail

Re: I have a question Gail

Gail,

Thank you, I am uncomfortable and concerned. But my TX coordinator makes me feel stupid when I call.

Have a great day. Happy New Year, Glenda