Guest guest Posted January 11, 2007 Report Share Posted January 11, 2007 Yes its just the college students known as pushy, thats why I couldn't be honest about not going. Susie " They ask me am I gonna go to london tomorrow and i was so afraid to be honest with them and I just say yes i've paid it all, but i haven't really, because i was so worried they might keep going on at me and I don't like that. So Its ok to tell a white lie now again and i know they will forget and not noticed i'm not there. " I think in the future you would be better off telling the truth and if they persist in asking you things you do not want to say, just answer " I'd rather not talk about that just now if you don;t mind. " Sticking up for yourself and being honest will make you feel better and won't leave you with a guilt trip.TomAdministrator -- My private email address: susie4uk2006@...My group email: susannah2005uk@...My Website at: http://susie4uk2005.tripod.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 11, 2007 Report Share Posted January 11, 2007 I think they will forget about it anyway lol, Susie > > " They ask me am I gonna go to london tomorrow and i was so afraid to > be honest with them and I just say yes i've paid it all, but i haven't > really, because i was so worried they might keep going on at me and I > don't like that. So Its ok to tell a white lie now again and i know > they will forget and not noticed i'm not there. " > > I think in the future you would be better off telling the truth and if > they persist in asking you things you do not want to say, just > answer " I'd rather not talk about that just now if you don;t mind. " > > Sticking up for yourself and being honest will make you feel better > and won't leave you with a guilt trip.> > Tom> Administrator>PLUS you don't have to remember which lies were told and to whom. The truth is always the truth no matter who you tell it to while lies require a lot of time and effort to keep straight.Raven -- My private email address: susie4uk2006@...My group email: susannah2005uk@...My Website at: http://susie4uk2005.tripod.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 11, 2007 Report Share Posted January 11, 2007 Yeah at least i'm not only one. I don't like to travel that far with students incase they may not look after me and thats what worries me. Susie susie, i don't like travelling much either. I dread planes. I like to know exactly where I am going, how long the travel will take. I have to pack days in advance, but I prefer a week. I have not left the country in 22 years. I would be very scared. I also don't want someone that I don't know to drive. mimi -- My private email address: susie4uk2006@...My group email: susannah2005uk@...My Website at: http://susie4uk2005.tripod.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2007 Report Share Posted March 23, 2007 yeah i don't know if its possible lol, my mother does my head in so does y other family members. Susie " I'm finding it hard to cope with college life and stress etc. " Yes. College life can be stressful. " This morning in IT principles class, the course team leader had a word about us all about the workshop making it compulsory and that means I would have to go , but i don't want too because i have problems with change and it really frustrates me and makes me stomache really tight, does anybody know what i mean by that? its not very nice feeling. " I know what you mean by that feeling. However, part of college is handling these experiences. That is what college is. And so, if we expect to graduate and get a degree, we must cope. Life is similar. As much as we would like to change the world to suit our needs, the world will not bend to our whims. We can, however, try to make lives for ourselves which will be as stress free as possible.TomAdministrator -- My private email address: susie4uk2006@...My group email: susannah2005uk@...My Website at: http://susie4uk2005.tripod.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 23, 2007 Report Share Posted March 23, 2007 yeah i don't know if its possible lol, my mother does my head in so does y other family members. Susie " I'm finding it hard to cope with college life and stress etc. " Yes. College life can be stressful. " This morning in IT principles class, the course team leader had a word about us all about the workshop making it compulsory and that means I would have to go , but i don't want too because i have problems with change and it really frustrates me and makes me stomache really tight, does anybody know what i mean by that? its not very nice feeling. " I know what you mean by that feeling. However, part of college is handling these experiences. That is what college is. And so, if we expect to graduate and get a degree, we must cope. Life is similar. As much as we would like to change the world to suit our needs, the world will not bend to our whims. We can, however, try to make lives for ourselves which will be as stress free as possible.TomAdministrator -- My private email address: susie4uk2006@...My group email: susannah2005uk@...My Website at: http://susie4uk2005.tripod.com/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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