Guest guest Posted December 15, 2006 Report Share Posted December 15, 2006 , because you know what you want and you are at peace with your decision, this is a good decision. I wish you all the best. Just as I say that having children is not for everyone, I also believe that being in a relationship is not for everyone either. Raven > > I am very happy, dispite the person being nice. I just could not > handle being around so much. The emotions, the pone calls waking me > up, before I went to sleep and when she was at work between customers. > > She is nice, but for m first relationship, and hopefull my last, I > could not handle it. > > In general I feel liberated, quite comforted with aloneness and am > genuinly happy. > > She was my first and last girlfriend.. > > Young > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 I think maybe you miss her a bit though ? Else you would not be posting your breakup here. It must have been a new and interesting experience for you at least. Keep your mind and hegart open. Perhaps someday a woman will cross your path who will be more in tune to you and your needs, and you will be able to like her and love her back a bit more. My best wishes to you. Tom Administrator I am very happy, dispite the person being nice. I just could not handle being around so much. The emotions, the pone calls waking me up, before I went to sleep and when she was at work between customers. She is nice, but for m first relationship, and hopefull my last, I could not handle it. In general I feel liberated, quite comforted with aloneness and am genuinly happy. She was my first and last girlfriend.. Young Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 wrote: " ... <snip> ... I have little ability to get another girl friend, this one was by luck. " , luck has everything to do with it and ability has little to do with it. I know that my boyfriend and I were not looking to be in a relationship with someone else when we began our relationship. In fact, for a very long time we were very good friends. He is now my best friend. :-) Luck was a huge factor in us getting to this point in our situation. It was luck that brought us into each other's circle of influence. It was luck that allowed us to connect intellectually. Luck played a huge role in all of this. And for me, luck is just another way of saying that I was able to see the path Great Spirit set before me and to travel it as best I could. The rewards so far have been well worth the journey. So while you may not go looking for another girlfriend, , do not close your heart to the possibility that the right girlfriend will cross your path and linger. Raven Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 wrote: " ... <snip> ... I have little ability to get another girl friend, this one was by luck. " , luck has everything to do with it and ability has little to do with it. I know that my boyfriend and I were not looking to be in a relationship with someone else when we began our relationship. In fact, for a very long time we were very good friends. He is now my best friend. :-) Luck was a huge factor in us getting to this point in our situation. It was luck that brought us into each other's circle of influence. It was luck that allowed us to connect intellectually. Luck played a huge role in all of this. And for me, luck is just another way of saying that I was able to see the path Great Spirit set before me and to travel it as best I could. The rewards so far have been well worth the journey. So while you may not go looking for another girlfriend, , do not close your heart to the possibility that the right girlfriend will cross your path and linger. Raven Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 I remember two weeks before getting this girlfriend I did pray for one. I don't believe in prayer other then a manifestation of intent in the mind. There was this one really hot girl that came up to me at a place. Yet like usuall I tend to walk away.ravenmagic2003 <ravenmagic2003@...> wrote: wrote: " ... <snip> ... I have little ability to get another girl friend, this one was by luck." , luck has everything to do with it and ability has little to do with it. I know that my boyfriend and I were not looking to be in a relationship with someone else when we began our relationship. In fact, for a very long time we were very good friends. He is now my best friend. :-) Luck was a huge factor in us getting to this point in our situation. It was luck that brought us into each other's circle of influence. It was luck that allowed us to connect intellectually. Luck played a huge role in all of this. And for me, luck is just another way of saying that I was able to see the path Great Spirit set before me and to travel it as best I could. The rewards so far have been well worth the journey. So while you may not go looking for another girlfriend, , do not close your heart to the possibility that the right girlfriend will cross your path and linger. Raven Turning In Big BrotherMy First Authored BookOnline For Free..http://www.nathanyoung.net __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 I remember two weeks before getting this girlfriend I did pray for one. I don't believe in prayer other then a manifestation of intent in the mind. There was this one really hot girl that came up to me at a place. Yet like usuall I tend to walk away.ravenmagic2003 <ravenmagic2003@...> wrote: wrote: " ... <snip> ... I have little ability to get another girl friend, this one was by luck." , luck has everything to do with it and ability has little to do with it. I know that my boyfriend and I were not looking to be in a relationship with someone else when we began our relationship. In fact, for a very long time we were very good friends. He is now my best friend. :-) Luck was a huge factor in us getting to this point in our situation. It was luck that brought us into each other's circle of influence. It was luck that allowed us to connect intellectually. Luck played a huge role in all of this. And for me, luck is just another way of saying that I was able to see the path Great Spirit set before me and to travel it as best I could. The rewards so far have been well worth the journey. So while you may not go looking for another girlfriend, , do not close your heart to the possibility that the right girlfriend will cross your path and linger. Raven Turning In Big BrotherMy First Authored BookOnline For Free..http://www.nathanyoung.net __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2006 Report Share Posted December 16, 2006 I have gained some additional experience. Never have I before had a girlfriend or was witness to the inter-personal dynamics of a relationship in an understanding way. Thing was sometimes I wanted no contact physically and to tell her I didnt want to be touched or interact as I was just in a generally regressive mood it would be recieved as a rejection. I've been approached by women in the past my age group, all I declined as all of it was alien to me. Now that I understand some things it seems better. My past girlfriend and I never had an arguement, yet there are a few things I could not stand. I think she had a stronger sex drive then me, it was sort of annoying and if I didnt have relations such as one time she started crying and throwing a fit of sort in the bathroom. There is no many emotional interpretations and if concerning that. It is very stressfull. Me never wanting to upset her made me miserable. Young <nathaninfortuna@...> wrote: I remember two weeks before getting this girlfriend I did pray for one. I don't believe in prayer other then a manifestation of intent in the mind. There was this one really hot girl that came up to me at a place. Yet like usuall I tend to walk away.ravenmagic2003 <ravenmagic2003 (DOT) ca> wrote: wrote: " ... <snip> ... I have little ability to get another girl friend, this one was by luck.", luck has everything to do with it and ability has little to do with it. I know that my boyfriend and I were not looking to be in a relationship with someone else when we began our relationship. In fact, for a very long time we were very good friends. He is now my best friend. :-)Luck was a huge factor in us getting to this point in our situation. It was luck that brought us into each other's circle of influence. It was luck that allowed us to connect intellectually. Luck played a huge role in all of this. And for me, luck is just another way of saying that I was able to see the path Great Spirit set before me and to travel it as best I could. The rewards so far have been well worth the journey.So while you may not go looking for another girlfriend, , do not close your heart to the possibility that the right girlfriend will cross your path and linger.RavenTurning In Big BrotherMy First Authored BookOnline For Free..http://www.nathanyoung.net __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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