Guest guest Posted August 31, 2006 Report Share Posted August 31, 2006 Because my problems are too difficult to fix. Involving themselves in them would get them depressed and then THEY'D become suicidal...somenthing they really could not survive. Other people have faltered undber less stress that I have endured under, so I know they could not at all handle my problems. Yom Administrator Why will no one help? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2006 Report Share Posted September 5, 2006 Are you sure? What about counselors? My husband has done counseling and has seen a lot. He's known two people with multiple personality disorder, so as rare as that is, that shows you how much he's seen. He said there's a lot of people with problems, people you would never think had problems, and a lot of people have a lot of problems, some horrible. I saw that too, when I worked at a Psych clinic. I myself have been through a lot and can often understand what other people are going through. What about a strong friend? An Aspie? Besides, they may have faltered under their own stress, but won't under yours. But a counselor would most likely be better. And you can tell them anything without worrying about your relationship with them, as you would with a friend or family member. > > Why will no one help? > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2006 Report Share Posted September 6, 2006 I had been in counseling for six years. The outcome of the experience was that my counselor basically said " Aside from the AS, the problem is not psychological. You need a lawyer. You need a better boss. You need for your mom to go into rehab. You need for people to stop acting so stupid, etc. My problems baffle lawyers, bosses don't grow on trees, mom won't go into rehab and my dad is averse to an intervention, and people don't willingly avoid acting stupid, nor do they change their behavior for the asking. My problems are too lengthy to go into. Suffice it to say I have asked for help from the correct and proper sources and have stymied all of them, or else they made the problems worse rather than better. To date there is only one person that I feel I can rely on, and she has so many problems of her own to deal with that I can't ask her for the help I need right now. Tom Administrator Re: In Utero Learning Are you sure? What about counselors? My husband has done counseling and has seen a lot. He's known two people with multiple personality disorder, so as rare as that is, that shows you how much he's seen. He said there's a lot of people with problems, people you would never think had problems, and a lot of people have a lot of problems, some horrible. I saw that too, when I worked at a Psych clinic. I myself have been through a lot and can often understand what other people are going through. What about a strong friend? An Aspie? Besides, they may have faltered under their own stress, but won't under yours. But a counselor would most likely be better. And you can tell them anything without worrying about your relationship with them, as you would with a friend or family member. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 7, 2006 Report Share Posted September 7, 2006 I'm sorry you can't get the help you need. > > Re: In Utero Learning > > Are you sure? What about counselors? My husband has done counseling > and has seen a lot. He's known two people with multiple personality > disorder, so as rare as that is, that shows you how much he's seen. > He said there's a lot of people with problems, people you would never > think had problems, and a lot of people have a lot of problems, some > horrible. I saw that too, when I worked at a Psych clinic. I myself > have been through a lot and can often understand what other people > are going through. What about a strong friend? An Aspie? Besides, > they may have faltered under their own stress, but won't under yours. > But a counselor would most likely be better. And you can tell them > anything without worrying about your relationship with them, as you > would with a friend or family member. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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