Guest guest Posted December 7, 2007 Report Share Posted December 7, 2007 I have a friend with a 5yr old daughter. She apparently acts ok as long as she is home or with family. But she will not talk in school to her teachers and she has no friends because she won't talk to anyone. It's to the point that it's affecting her grades in school. Considering we are halfway through school one would think that the kids would get accustomed to their teachers or at least the kids and start to open up at some point. But not her. She won't talk to the teacher at all and she hasn't made any friends because she won't speak to anyone. I don't know all the details like if she has certain mannerisms or anything, but she asked me to do some research about the not talking to people and everything I've searched has led me to autism. Is it possible? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2007 Report Share Posted December 11, 2007 There are supershy children . And some of them take a long time to feel safe and free to participate. What they see at home is most important; so it seems to me. Francine In a message dated 12/11/2007 12:38:16 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, nancypiloto@... writes: I have a friend with a 5yr old daughter. She apparently acts ok as long as she is home or with family. But she will not talk in school to her teachers and she has no friends because she won't talk to anyone. It's to the point that it's affecting her grades in school. Considering we are halfway through school one would think that the kids would get accustomed to their teachers or at least the kids and start to open up at some point. But not her. She won't talk to the teacher at all and she hasn't made any friends because she won't speak to anyone. I don't know all the details like if she has certain mannerisms or anything, but she asked me to do some research about the not talking to people and everything I've searched has led me to autism. Is it possible? See AOL's top rated recipes and easy ways to stay in shape for winter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2007 Report Share Posted December 11, 2007 There is also a rare anxiety disorder called selective mutism - you can google their home page. Marcisunrose101@... wrote: There are supershy children . And some of them take a long time to feel safe and free to participate. What they see at home is most important; so it seems to me. Francine In a message dated 12/11/2007 12:38:16 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, nancypiloto writes: I have a friend with a 5yr old daughter. She apparently acts ok as long as she is home or with family. But she will not talk in school to her teachers and she has no friends because she won't talk to anyone. It's to the point that it's affecting her grades in school. Considering we are halfway through school one would think that the kids would get accustomed to their teachers or at least the kids and start to open up at some point. But not her. She won't talk to the teacher at all and she hasn't made any friends because she won't speak to anyone. I don't know all the details like if she has certain mannerisms or anything, but she asked me to do some research about the not talking to people and everything I've searched has led me to autism. Is it possible? See AOL's top rated recipes and easy ways to stay in shape for winter. Never miss a thing. Make your homepage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2007 Report Share Posted December 11, 2007 There is also a rare anxiety disorder called selective mutism - you can google their home page. Marcisunrose101@... wrote: There are supershy children . And some of them take a long time to feel safe and free to participate. What they see at home is most important; so it seems to me. Francine In a message dated 12/11/2007 12:38:16 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, nancypiloto writes: I have a friend with a 5yr old daughter. She apparently acts ok as long as she is home or with family. But she will not talk in school to her teachers and she has no friends because she won't talk to anyone. It's to the point that it's affecting her grades in school. Considering we are halfway through school one would think that the kids would get accustomed to their teachers or at least the kids and start to open up at some point. But not her. She won't talk to the teacher at all and she hasn't made any friends because she won't speak to anyone. I don't know all the details like if she has certain mannerisms or anything, but she asked me to do some research about the not talking to people and everything I've searched has led me to autism. Is it possible? See AOL's top rated recipes and easy ways to stay in shape for winter. Never miss a thing. Make your homepage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2007 Report Share Posted December 11, 2007 My son did this very early. He was Dx'd with something called selective mutism. You can do some research about it online. he is now 12 and still extremely shy but will speak some to adults. He is now fine with his peers. -son Brady 12 -bp,asp,add,tourettes7 th grd middle school, IEP one on one aidemainstream. Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 11, 2007 Report Share Posted December 11, 2007 My son did this very early. He was Dx'd with something called selective mutism. You can do some research about it online. he is now 12 and still extremely shy but will speak some to adults. He is now fine with his peers. -son Brady 12 -bp,asp,add,tourettes7 th grd middle school, IEP one on one aidemainstream. Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2007 Report Share Posted December 12, 2007 there is def super shy kids ,there is also social phobia disorder which is extreme shyness to the point people avoid places etc.... shyness isnt always a sign of autism look at the symptoms signs of autism if the shyness aspect is the only thing i would not think it autism. but with out an actual dr you wont know for sure . so id just get her looked at.some kids can also have selective mutism which is basically where they can talk but are choosy where and with who they talk with .instead of worrying and researching and scaring your self get her evaluated by a pro and go from there good luck Vickie WwW.SparkleTags.Com----- Original Message ----From: "sunrose101@..." <sunrose101@...>Autism and Aspergers Treatment Sent: Tuesday, December 11, 2007 11:31:08 AMSubject: Re: Could it be a form of autism? There are supershy children . And some of them take a long time to feel safe and free to participate. What they see at home is most important; so it seems to me. Francine In a message dated 12/11/2007 12:38:16 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, nancypiloto writes: I have a friend with a 5yr old daughter. She apparently acts ok as long as she is home or with family. But she will not talk in school to her teachers and she has no friends because she won't talk to anyone. It's to the point that it's affecting her grades in school. Considering we are halfway through school one would think that the kids would get accustomed to their teachers or at least the kids and start to open up at some point. But not her. She won't talk to the teacher at all and she hasn't made any friends because she won't speak to anyone. I don't know all the details like if she has certain mannerisms or anything, but she asked me to do some research about the not talking to people and everything I've searched has led me to autism. Is it possible? See AOL's top rated recipes and easy ways to stay in shape for winter. Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2007 Report Share Posted December 12, 2007 sounds like selective mutism Could it be a form of autism? > I have a friend with a 5yr old daughter. She apparently acts ok as > long as she is home or with family. But she will not talk in school to > her teachers and she has no friends because she won't talk to anyone. > It's to the point that it's affecting her grades in school. Considering > we are halfway through school one would think that the kids would get > accustomed to their teachers or at least the kids and start to open up > at some point. But not her. She won't talk to the teacher at all and > she hasn't made any friends because she won't speak to anyone. > > I don't know all the details like if she has certain mannerisms or > anything, but she asked me to do some research about the not talking to > people and everything I've searched has led me to autism. > > Is it possible? > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2007 Report Share Posted December 12, 2007 my husband was this kind of kid. his teachers were so frustrated with him. he has social anxiety now. but my son never warms up to the teachers. year after year and he has aspergers, I think you should ask this mom if this child had been in school before? its very hard to go from a stay at home child to being thrust into the cold cruel world of school.. Colleen sunrose101@... wrote: > > There are supershy children . And some of them take a long time > to feel safe and free to participate. What they see at home is most > important; so it seems to me. > > Francine > > In a message dated 12/11/2007 12:38:16 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, > nancypiloto@... writes: > > I have a friend with a 5yr old daughter. She apparently acts ok as > long as she is home or with family. But she will not talk in > school to > her teachers and she has no friends because she won't talk to anyone. > It's to the point that it's affecting her grades in school. > Considering > we are halfway through school one would think that the kids would get > accustomed to their teachers or at least the kids and start to > open up > at some point. But not her. She won't talk to the teacher at all and > she hasn't made any friends because she won't speak to anyone. > > I don't know all the details like if she has certain mannerisms or > anything, but she asked me to do some research about the not > talking to > people and everything I've searched has led me to autism. > > Is it possible? > > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > See AOL's top rated recipes > <http://food.aol.com/top-rated-recipes?NCID=aoltop00030000000004> and > easy ways to stay in shape > <http://body.aol.com/fitness/winter-exercise?NCID=aoltop00030000000003> > for winter. > > > __________ NOD32 2233 (20070501) Information __________ > > This message was checked by NOD32 antivirus system. > http://www.eset.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2007 Report Share Posted December 12, 2007 my husband was this kind of kid. his teachers were so frustrated with him. he has social anxiety now. but my son never warms up to the teachers. year after year and he has aspergers, I think you should ask this mom if this child had been in school before? its very hard to go from a stay at home child to being thrust into the cold cruel world of school.. Colleen sunrose101@... wrote: > > There are supershy children . And some of them take a long time > to feel safe and free to participate. What they see at home is most > important; so it seems to me. > > Francine > > In a message dated 12/11/2007 12:38:16 A.M. Eastern Standard Time, > nancypiloto@... writes: > > I have a friend with a 5yr old daughter. She apparently acts ok as > long as she is home or with family. But she will not talk in > school to > her teachers and she has no friends because she won't talk to anyone. > It's to the point that it's affecting her grades in school. > Considering > we are halfway through school one would think that the kids would get > accustomed to their teachers or at least the kids and start to > open up > at some point. But not her. She won't talk to the teacher at all and > she hasn't made any friends because she won't speak to anyone. > > I don't know all the details like if she has certain mannerisms or > anything, but she asked me to do some research about the not > talking to > people and everything I've searched has led me to autism. > > Is it possible? > > > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > See AOL's top rated recipes > <http://food.aol.com/top-rated-recipes?NCID=aoltop00030000000004> and > easy ways to stay in shape > <http://body.aol.com/fitness/winter-exercise?NCID=aoltop00030000000003> > for winter. > > > __________ NOD32 2233 (20070501) Information __________ > > This message was checked by NOD32 antivirus system. > http://www.eset.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2007 Report Share Posted December 12, 2007 Hi, interestingly I was just looking up Selective Mutism when just wrote. This is also what came to my mind as well. http://www.anxietynetwork.com/spsm.html Her mother can also watch the ‘Early Signs’ video on Autism Speaks http://www.autismspeaks.org/?gclid=CLXHtrHyopACFQSWHgodIj6jQQ   Gail A. Could it be a form of autism? I have a friend with a 5yr old daughter. She apparently acts ok as long as she is home or with family. But she will not talk in school to her teachers and she has no friends because she won't talk to anyone. It's to the point that it's affecting her grades in school. Considering we are halfway through school one would think that the kids would get accustomed to their teachers or at least the kids and start to open up at some point. But not her. She won't talk to the teacher at all and she hasn't made any friends because she won't speak to anyone. I don't know all the details like if she has certain mannerisms or anything, but she asked me to do some research about the not talking to people and everything I've searched has led me to autism. Is it possible? No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.503 / Virus Database: 269.17.1/1182 - Release Date: 12/12/2007 11:29 AM No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.5.503 / Virus Database: 269.17.1/1182 - Release Date: 12/12/2007 11:29 AM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2007 Report Share Posted December 12, 2007 I have a 15 yr old son who is NOT AS, but is super shy.It has affected him in many aspects. Getting him into a social skill class was helpful. Kernan Quantum Biofeedback Therapist Theta Practitioner/ Medical Intuitive www.quantumassociatesoftuah.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 12, 2007 Report Share Posted December 12, 2007 I have a 15 yr old son who is NOT AS, but is super shy.It has affected him in many aspects. Getting him into a social skill class was helpful. Kernan Quantum Biofeedback Therapist Theta Practitioner/ Medical Intuitive www.quantumassociatesoftuah.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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