Re: Re: Behavior Issues 911

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I have noticed with the good comes the badMy little guy will pick up and learn a lot of goodThings from "normal neurological" developing children But he will also pick up the bad, he is like a tapeRecorder. So my advise is to just know whatKind of child you have, and if you suspect He may be picking up some inappropriate behaviorsHave a talk with the teacher and see if she canSuggest some strategies within her classroom to Address this behavior as a whole. Sent from my iPhoneOn 2012-01-31, at 5:02 PM, "Jill" <jgmangus@...> wrote:

my son started to do really inappropriate things and laughing. We decided he didn't understand a good joke from a bad joke. So we started catching him doing funny things (appropriate) and would say... that's a good joke, and make a big deal out of it. But when it was inappropriate, we'd be short and stern and tell him "not good" joke.

This may work with your son because you have examples of good funny names but also bad ones. You can also provide candy or some reinforcement for the good ones!

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> I'd say since about October my special guy has been using foul language, and calling people names, not all of the names are bad ones (a lot of them are silly off the wall names like, he calls my signficant other a Chopper). He was sent home with a note in his B/pack from his teacher specifying that he was calling others names to aggrivate them. He told me who started the name calling, because he didin't do this before this school year started. Progressively it is getting worse and he has also gotten rather bold and is talking back. I need to know if there are any other parents experiencing the same or similar types of behaviors, if there are any workable modification ideas out there. Feedback is greatly appreciated.

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You know it's funny because jusrt yesterday a note was sent home about the name calling. This particular group of teachers are in one word appalling. I write to his academic and social skills teacher multiple times during the week, and unless the implication is made that I will go higher within the district, I don't get the response you'd expect from these professionals. I am inreasing becoming frustrated and at often times quite angry, because as a parent of this child, I am expected to accept it without causing waves in the school system. At this point, I can honestly say that I'm not going to let them persuade me into retreating...I don't know how I will accomplish it, but I have no choice. From: Abbona <jessica17@...> "autism " <autism > Sent: Tuesday, January 31, 2012 5:48 PM Subject: Re: Re: Behavior Issues 911

I have noticed with the good comes the badMy little guy will pick up and learn a lot of goodThings from "normal neurological" developing children But he will also pick up the bad, he is like a tapeRecorder. So my advise is to just know whatKind of child you have, and if you suspect He may be picking up some inappropriate behaviorsHave a talk with the teacher and see if she canSuggest some strategies within her classroom to Address this behavior as a whole. Sent from my iPhoneOn 2012-01-31, at 5:02 PM, "Jill" <jgmangus@...> wrote:

my son started to do really inappropriate things and laughing. We decided he didn't understand a good joke from a bad joke. So we started catching him doing funny things (appropriate) and would say... that's a good joke, and make a big deal out of it. But when it was inappropriate, we'd be short and stern and tell him "not good" joke.

This may work with your son because you have examples of good funny names but also bad ones. You can also provide candy or some reinforcement for the good ones!

Jill

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> I'd say since about October my special guy has been using foul language, and calling people names, not all of the names are bad ones (a lot of them are silly off the wall names like, he calls my signficant other a Chopper). He was sent home with a note in his B/pack from his teacher specifying that he was calling others names to aggrivate them. He told me who started the name calling, because he didin't do this before this school year started. Progressively it is getting worse and he has also gotten rather bold and is talking back. I need to know if there are any other parents experiencing the same or similar types of behaviors, if there are any workable modification ideas out there. Feedback is greatly appreciated.

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We had approx 3 months of really severe swearing and name calling.  Joe loved teh reaction....and school and I agreed would would fully and completely ignore and after a few weeks - no more F bombs. 

KateOn Tue, Jan 31, 2012 at 10:23 PM, Mandy <mandyjo1964@...> wrote:

 

You know it's funny because jusrt yesterday a note was sent home about the name calling. This  particular group of teachers are in one word appalling. I write to his academic and social skills teacher multiple times during the week, and unless the implication is made that I will go higher within the district, I don't get the response you'd expect from these professionals. I am inreasing becoming frustrated and at often times quite angry, because as a parent of this child, I am expected to accept it without causing waves in the school system. At this point, I can honestly say that I'm not going to let them persuade me into retreating...I don't know how I will accomplish it, but I have no choice.

From: Abbona <jessica17@...> " autism " <autism >

Sent: Tuesday, January 31, 2012 5:48 PM Subject: Re: Re: Behavior Issues 911

 

I have noticed with the good comes the badMy little guy will pick up and learn a lot of goodThings from " normal neurological " developing children But he will also pick up the bad, he is like a tape

Recorder. So my advise is to just know whatKind of child you have, and if you suspect He may be picking up some inappropriate behaviorsHave a talk with the teacher and see if she can

Suggest some strategies within her classroom to Address this behavior as a whole. Sent from my iPhoneOn 2012-01-31, at 5:02 PM, " Jill " <jgmangus@...> wrote:

 

my son started to do really inappropriate things and laughing. We decided he didn't understand a good joke from a bad joke. So we started catching him doing funny things (appropriate) and would say... that's a good joke, and make a big deal out of it. But when it was inappropriate, we'd be short and stern and tell him " not good " joke.

This may work with your son because you have examples of good funny names but also bad ones. You can also provide candy or some reinforcement for the good ones!

Jill

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> I'd say since about October my special guy has been using foul language, and calling people names, not all of the names are bad ones (a lot of them are silly off the wall names like, he calls my signficant other a Chopper). He was sent home with a note in his B/pack from his teacher specifying that he was calling others names to aggrivate them. He told me who started the name calling, because he didin't do this before this school year started. Progressively it is getting worse and he has also gotten rather bold and is talking back. I need to know if there are any other parents experiencing the same or similar types of behaviors, if there are any workable modification ideas out there. Feedback is greatly appreciated.

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