PALPITATIONS

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Hope you can help. My partner keeps geting palpitations, he uses a ventilator at night and has a heart murmur, very slight leaking value. I am very upset and down today, I had a car accident yesterday. My partner Graham keeps saying that I am part of the course of his palpitations as I panic and get upset so much. He said don't worry as it makes him worse. He is staying with me fora few days then we are supposed to be going back to his home so we can go away. He said he will go to his Dr when he gets home, won't go to mine as he said they ccan't do anything, even to be looked at. I am really upset when he says I am part of the course, I am scared of saying much to him in case I say the wrong thing

and get him uptight. All I am doing is cry when I am alone, feel life's not worth it sometiems, only that I have family and friends. He has anxiety and depression and has always shouted at me when he's worried. What have I done to deserve all thsi worry. What makes it worse is that I have lost both my partents and a partner about 10 years ago who was very fat and had heart failure. I am scared of having a laugh now, things seem to go wrong when I do, Graham went to Brompton not long ago with his mum for a check up, he didn't mention the palpitations then, he was only given an outpatients appointments which I'm really annoyed about, his mum didn't even go in with him or ask if he had any symptooms which I would have done. I have a leg infection again at the moment, waiting fora scan to see if blood vessels are damaged. I did have good news today that my mole I had

removed from m y ankle is benign. Graham even shouted at me in the waiting room when I asked how he was and was going to walk out as he said I annoy him and get him uptight. He didn't even tell his mum tonight when she rang as he said she has enough worry with his dad who has COPD. I look forward to your comments about this also palpitations and what causes them. Many thanks Liz