Guest guest Posted May 22, 2012 Report Share Posted May 22, 2012 Liz, Sorry but Infantile Scoliosis group is not the place for this. Lida HOSPITAL APPOINTMENT I am getting worried about a hospital appointment on Thursday, its to check a spot on my leg which has got a bit bigger, just a precaution. I have got to go on my own, I didn't expect my partner Graham to come as he has an art course. However yesterday he said he would come from his art course and arrive in the evening. He was going to come up Thursday mornijng originally but is going to a funeral of a friend's friend so said he's coming later! Today I asked him to confirm he was coming tomorrow, he now says he has got to do a TV for his dad! His mum is getting cross with him now, he goes to his parents only when he goes out for a drink with his dad and not to see his mum, I can see her point now! He said he will go round to his parents when I'm there an extra night so he sees his mum, even if I can't go with him. I told him he can do this, however he also goes out a couple of nights a week with his mates and one night for a drink with his dad! At the moment I have strained a ligament and find it difficult walking, I said I didn't mind the change of plan about Thursday when he told me earlier but now I can't stop crying about it! I am supposed to be going to Brompton with him for a breathing check up in a few weeks to support him, I will carry oxygen on the train to go with him. If I don't go he has his dad to go with him. He has very rarely had to go on his own. When he had a tumour he had his parents and me going with him. . If he knows I am telling anyone how upset I am he will be cross, he is going counselling today and said he can't stand me being upset as he's got enough to put up with, it seems his dad can tell him to do things for him! I know his mum has been a bit awkward with me about going with Graham on her own, but in a way I can see how hurt she is, he visits his nan of 90 but doesn't want to see her, his dad can't do a thing wrong! It seems he likes the selfish people! I look forward to your comments, bet if I had a better figure he would come with me anywhere! Best wishes Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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