PALPIATIONS AND MY MOLE RESULTS

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I went for the results of the mole which was removed a couple of weeks ago near my ankle, it was benign as I thought which is good. My partner's palipitations were checked at A & E on Sunday, his heart is OK, they think it may be stress. I am really cross with his Dr who he went to today she did an ECG which was also OK, she said its probably stress but is going to give him a 24 hour heart ECG which he has to press when he feels the pain! If she thought it was stress why didn't she give him anxiety pills or diffierent antidepressants. I b urst into tears when he came home, he said I am selfish as he is getting the attention. I am worri3ed now as they are not dealing with his anxiety which is causing him to shout at me a lot, blaming me for causing his

palpitations. I have had chest pains myself today, out of breath too, I'm not telling my partner as he will probably say I'm trying to get attention again. He admits he should have been given different pills or anxiety tablets but would't say anything to the Dr. He has gone out with his dad tonight, they think the Dr is wonderful. He told me earlier he couldn't cope with me much more as I'm making him ill but then apologised. I was the one who made him go to A & E. I had a counsellor ring me up today to say that she thinks I nedd couhnselling rather than phone sessions, this would mean I wouldn't see Graham as often, he went for 20 weeks himself rece ntly and had to go backwards and forwards to my hojme. I know it would give me someone to talk to. My family don't seem to understand especially my sister Sue, think they want me with Graham upsetting me no matter

what, as long as I don't affect the family by needing help! I know his mum wouldn't like me being anxiosu all the time with him being disabled too, she may be agreeing with him tonight that I am selfish and just want attention from him. What have I done to deserve this? I told Brompton on his behalf he may need a sleep study, he asked me to do it, I am willing to help him, I would like to visit in Brompton when he goes for his sleep study but he said it would be too much with me carrying oxygen, he will probably get transport there. He does take me to Papworth for my sleep studies in the car so I feel guilty. I don';t like being shouted at though, no thanks to his Drs. I lopk forwared to hearing from you. Liz What can I do about my partner's anxiety/