Re: Just expressing my feelings...

[Guest guest]

" I will wait a day and sleep on it before deciding

what to do so as to not do anything hasty. "

Never do anything on the spur of the moment.

Raven

[Guest guest]

Inger! Please don't go! I just went to look for the forum guidelines

and happened to see this last post of Raven's to you. I realize that

we barely know each other, but there seem to be some unresolved hurt

feelings in this forum? It is not my place to comment on those, but

you are too

good a moderator who works too hard to remain fair, for this forum to

risk losing you. Please

don't go!

:-(

Jill

" I'm feeling sad and crying right now and am

seriously

> thinking of leaving. "

>

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I hope I didn't answer this post too late. Anyway, I think your'e the most interesting person on this forum and would never have wanted you to leave. I have been sick for a couple days and haven't had the time to answer any posts.Inger Lorelei <inglori@...> wrote: As I said before, I don't often have feelings, but now I do.I wish that someone would have let me know sooner if they found a few neutral posts about the subject so offensive. In Sweden, we can discuss such thing matter-of-factly if the subject ever happens to come up, without anyone thinking much of it. Informative programs are aired on TV. That's the culture I am coming from. If that is too much for some from other parts of the world, I really am sorry. I did not mean to offend.I'm feeling sad and crying right now and am seriously thinking of

leaving. Perhaps my presence will only keep causing contention with me and Tom going separate ways and I don't want the forum to suffer from our personal differences. I still appreciate Tom in so many ways and feel grateful that he let me stay on here as admin despite everything, and me admittedly being quite a pain in the neck lately.But I have limits too and I think they have been reached now.I will wait a day and sleep on it before deciding what to do so as to not do anything hasty. I have come to feel very close to many on this board and would surely miss being part of this family. :´(Inger

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I hope I didn't answer this post too late. Anyway, I think your'e the most interesting person on this forum and would never have wanted you to leave. I have been sick for a couple days and haven't had the time to answer any posts.Inger Lorelei <inglori@...> wrote: As I said before, I don't often have feelings, but now I do.I wish that someone would have let me know sooner if they found a few neutral posts about the subject so offensive. In Sweden, we can discuss such thing matter-of-factly if the subject ever happens to come up, without anyone thinking much of it. Informative programs are aired on TV. That's the culture I am coming from. If that is too much for some from other parts of the world, I really am sorry. I did not mean to offend.I'm feeling sad and crying right now and am seriously thinking of

leaving. Perhaps my presence will only keep causing contention with me and Tom going separate ways and I don't want the forum to suffer from our personal differences. I still appreciate Tom in so many ways and feel grateful that he let me stay on here as admin despite everything, and me admittedly being quite a pain in the neck lately.But I have limits too and I think they have been reached now.I will wait a day and sleep on it before deciding what to do so as to not do anything hasty. I have come to feel very close to many on this board and would surely miss being part of this family. :´(Inger

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[Guest guest]

Along with other people I do not want you to go - I have not found

anything you have posted offensive - I would have told you so if I

had.

To be honest the only post that I found a little off was the post

where Tom included a section of the story Bonnie wrote - and it was

not Tom's post that offended me, but that story. I realise he posted

that to make people aware of what we were discussing in connection to

Bonnie's stories.

The fact that you and Tom disagree on things should not be an issue -

I sometimes disagree with people - I'd hate to think I would not be

allowed to remain here just because I have different opinions to some.

I do sometimes wonder if your and Tom's disagreements are more

personal though due to your history - I'm not saying that is the

case, but I do often wonder when I see your disagreements on the

boards.

I am very comfortable with your prescene here and would miss you.

There are going to be times when people disagree that to me is

natural, from time to time there may be conflicts, but if they can be

resolved all the better, resolved hopefully without anyone leaving -

or moderation, or threat of.

>

> As I said before, I don't often have feelings, but now I do.

>

> I wish that someone would have let me know sooner if they found a

few

> neutral posts about the subject so offensive. In Sweden, we can

discuss such

> thing matter-of-factly if the subject ever happens to come up,

without

> anyone thinking much of it. Informative programs are aired on TV.

That's the

> culture I am coming from. If that is too much for some from other

parts of

> the world, I really am sorry. I did not mean to offend.

>

> I'm feeling sad and crying right now and am seriously thinking of

leaving.

> Perhaps my presence will only keep causing contention with me and

Tom going

> separate ways and I don't want the forum to suffer from our

personal

> differences. I still appreciate Tom in so many ways and feel

grateful that

> he let me stay on here as admin despite everything, and me

admittedly being

> quite a pain in the neck lately.

>

> But I have limits too and I think they have been reached now.

>

> I will wait a day and sleep on it before deciding what to do so as

to not do

> anything hasty. I have come to feel very close to many on this

board and

> would surely miss being part of this family. :´(

>

> Inger

>

[Guest guest]

> Inger: "But I have limits too and I think they have been reached now."I concur!I will need to see a rapid improvement towards normal conversations here to be able to continue.  Rainbow

[Guest guest]

I'd just like to know what a normal conversation is :-)

Welcome back too, glad your mum is okay.

>

> > Inger: " But I have limits too and I think they have been

reached

> now. "

>

> I concur!

>

> I will need to see a rapid improvement towards normal

conversations

> here to be able to continue.

>

> Rainbow

>

[Guest guest]

I was just thinking the same thing.

Tom

Administrator

I'm normal, everyone else is abnormal.

[Guest guest]

That's how I've felt all my life... :-D

Inger

Re: Just expressing my feelings...

I was just thinking the same thing.

Tom

Administrator

I'm normal, everyone else is abnormal.

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