Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 Alien = outsider Sociopsychologically the archetype resembles: Immigration extraterrestrial outsider, not fitting it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 Right. That's why it is a very apt archetype, I think. I have always felt like an alien - probably the extra-terrestrial kind, since earth people are just plain weird no matter what country one goes to. ;-) I don't buy into the negative scary image of the extra-terrestrials that has become the standard Hollywood projection. I imagine them more as Klaatu, looking similar to ourselves but with higher morals. I am acquainted with two alleged contactees who claim that the ones they met were pretty much like that. (Still just hearsay, of course.) Inger The Alien Archetype (autism, the feeling of being an alien) Alien = outsider Sociopsychologically the archetype resembles: Immigration extraterrestrial outsider, not fitting it. FAM Secret Society is a community based on respect, friendship, support and acceptance. Everyone is valued. Check the Links section for more FAM forums. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 It would take me two pages and the patients to write about it. I've studies what I call but cannot because I lack qualifications people who are not of autism who desire to acclaim that they are or that exists alien hybrids. Mostly in the UFO culture.. Is why I would like to Goto College, but not mundane introduction classes, it annoys me. Indipendently studied, indipendent thoughts... > > Right. That's why it is a very apt archetype, I think. > > I have always felt like an alien - probably the extra-terrestrial kind, > since earth people are just plain weird no matter what country one goes to. > ;-) > > I don't buy into the negative scary image of the extra-terrestrials that has > become the standard Hollywood projection. I imagine them more as Klaatu, > looking similar to ourselves but with higher morals. I am acquainted with > two alleged contactees who claim that the ones they met were pretty much > like that. (Still just hearsay, of course.) > > Inger > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 Ah, okay, yes I definitely understand that. Seems I've spent the majority of my life thinking if I just went somewhere else I'd fit in better. Took me a long time to realize that feeling uncomfortable in my own skin was going to have to be dealt with before I'd have a chance to feel remotely at ease anywhere at all (but I'd still have a preference for countries with separate bicycle paths, I hate living in an auto dominated culture)(oops, wow, that came out of nowhere didn't it? I can't help it---I live in Atlanta aka Autogeddon). Thanks and Inger for the clarification. Jill > > Right. That's why it is a very apt archetype, I think. > > I have always felt like an alien - probably the extra-terrestrial kind, > since earth people are just plain weird no matter what country one goes to. > ;-) > > I don't buy into the negative scary image of the extra-terrestrials that has > become the standard Hollywood projection. I imagine them more as Klaatu, > looking similar to ourselves but with higher morals. I am acquainted with > two alleged contactees who claim that the ones they met were pretty much > like that. (Still just hearsay, of course.) > > Inger > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 I've never really had the desire to fit in, I don't feel left out. > > Ah, okay, yes I definitely understand that. Seems I've spent the > majority of my life thinking if I just went somewhere else I'd fit > in better. Took me a long time to realize that feeling uncomfortable > in my own skin was going to have to be dealt with before I'd > have a chance to feel remotely at ease anywhere at all (but I'd still > have a preference for countries with separate bicycle paths, I hate > living in an auto dominated culture)(oops, wow, that came out of > nowhere didn't it? I can't help it---I live in Atlanta aka > Autogeddon). > Thanks and Inger for the clarification. > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 Right. I never particularly wanted to fit in either. Only with my closest friends. Oddly enough, when I've tried joining other forums, I don't feel as at home there as I do with the Aspies here in Tom's groups and in Leif's. Inger Re: The Alien Archetype (autism, the feeling of being an alien) Ah, it's not feeling left out, it's the constant misunderstandings from not fitting in! Very tiring! :-) > > > > Ah, okay, yes I definitely understand that. Seems I've spent the > > majority of my life thinking if I just went somewhere else I'd fit > > in better. Took me a long time to realize that feeling uncomfortable > > in my own skin was going to have to be dealt with before I'd > > have a chance to feel remotely at ease anywhere at all (but I'd still > > have a preference for countries with separate bicycle paths, I hate > > living in an auto dominated culture)(oops, wow, that came out of > > nowhere didn't it? I can't help it---I live in Atlanta aka > > Autogeddon). > > Thanks and Inger for the clarification. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > FAM Secret Society is a community based on respect, friendship, support and acceptance. Everyone is valued. Check the Links section for more FAM forums. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 I've always been big into escape - like getting away from anywhere I am - often left to my own devices away from it all I am fine - but this becomes harder as an adult with responsibilities that I must engage in. As a child I had various places I could hide out away from all human contact, now it seems to track me down, even when I try to avoid it :- ( letters, phonecalls, etc - if I'd have known the full extent of intrusion on becomming an adult I would have tried to avoid it kicking and screaming - still it is not all bad. Since you like Pratchett you might like Rincewind's (wizard character) take on this, which he kind of says it's the running away that is important bit - not the destination :-) > > Ah, okay, yes I definitely understand that. Seems I've spent the > majority of my life thinking if I just went somewhere else I'd fit > in better. Took me a long time to realize that feeling uncomfortable > in my own skin was going to have to be dealt with before I'd > have a chance to feel remotely at ease anywhere at all (but I'd still > have a preference for countries with separate bicycle paths, I hate > living in an auto dominated culture)(oops, wow, that came out of > nowhere didn't it? I can't help it---I live in Atlanta aka > Autogeddon). > Thanks and Inger for the clarification. > > Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 This is the forum I have always felt the most comfortable in, it still took me a little while to feel safe after seeing what happened on other forums and worried that it would happen here too. This place feels very familiar to me now and I care about the people here and have gotten used to the different characters and is always nice to get to know new people too (lot less scary on here than in RL) :-) Aspergia was the first Aspie forum I went on, but by the time I found it things were already starting to go downhill for that message board, however just finding a place where I was not considered a freak and nutcase was very nice :-) Unfortunately the flame fighting etc had already begun on Aspergia when I got there. I remeber some from Aspergia that are here, I think and Strict, Tom of course - have I missed anyone out? possibly Loner Mutant? > > Right. I never particularly wanted to fit in either. Only with my closest > friends. > > Oddly enough, when I've tried joining other forums, I don't feel as at home > there as I do with the Aspies here in Tom's groups and in Leif's. > > Inger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 Hello, - Yes, those mundane introduction classes can be tedious, I agree. It wasn't until I studied music that I managed to tolerate them---it helped enormously to have a group of people as passionate as myself to share the burden. Have you considered going to school for music? I can tell from your posts that you are extremely passionate about it. I'm not quite sure what you mean about " people who are not of autism who desire to acclaim that they are or that exists alien hybrids " ? Does this mean that you do not believe that Autism occurs on a spectrum? Do you believe that many claim to be Autistic and are not? What would they gain by doing so? Jill > > > It would take me two pages and the patients to write about it. > > I've studies what I call but cannot because I lack qualifications > people who are not of autism who desire to acclaim that they are or > that exists alien hybrids. Mostly in the UFO culture.. > Is why I would like to Goto College, but not mundane introduction > classes, it annoys me. > > Indipendently studied, indipendent thoughts... > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 exterritorial = extraterrestrial > > In the UFO culture there exists theories that extraterrestrial implanted humans with alien DNA. > > Some say that political figures are actually part exterritorial. > > With autism the alien archetypical reference is clear, whereas with the ufo culture it stems from conspiracy ideas. > > > --------------------------------------------------------- > > To claim to be autistic and not would likely be to influence a politic. Such as if an organization wanted something changed concerning a general P.V it could theretically do so by acting as one or more. > > Which reminds me why would any autism group have a leader claim to be a Satanist, it seems to be counter-active. Yet such things really are not my concern simply because the if's are possibilities, such as with conspiracy theory it is not of fact, rather imagination. > > I am not an autism expert, most of things I cannot respond to. To me it is a label not an identity, in a severe sense the label and the identity combined with " beliefs " make groups into cults. > > Yet that is only truthful when there is only limited ways to perceive in accordance to the group ideology, otherwise it is not welcome. > > ------------------ > > I have a bad hand, so I can only do certain instruments, I always wanted to learn the piano and guitar, mostly the piano. It is math, it is focus and I might be able to do it still. I cannot read music notes and like making things up as I go. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 I have heard about alien DNA somewhere now that you are refreshing my memory. It didn't concern me because my view of creation includes any aliens---they have the same creator that I do, in the same way that we are all human, so are we all children of the creator whether we are of this planet or another. You are putting a great deal of effort into your advocacy efforts, aren't you? You must be very strong minded. I admire your efforts. I'm sorry to hear about your hand. Sounds as though you haven't let it prevent you from doing a great deal with music! If there is a community college that offers music near you, please consider speaking with someone in the department. They might be willing to work with you, especially considering the compositions you are putting together. I didn't think I would be able to study music because I had given up piano at 16 but the department was willing to work with me. Patterns and relationships, you're right, it is math. At least, that's the math it is for me. Maybe find someone with an interest in AS/autism who is interested in music therapy? Maybe a graduate student who would trade with you, their experiences for yours? Music was my door back into formal education. I can't recommend it highly enough. I cannot comment on Satanism as I have no personal knowledge of it. Jill Hello, - > > Yes, those mundane introduction classes can be tedious, I agree. It > wasn't until I studied music that I managed to tolerate them---it > helped enormously to have a group of people as passionate as myself > to share the burden. Have you considered going to school for music? I > can tell from your posts that you are extremely passionate about it. > > I'm not quite sure what you mean about " people who are not of autism > who desire to acclaim that they are or that exists alien hybrids " ? > Does this mean that you do not believe that Autism occurs on a > spectrum? Do you believe that many claim to be Autistic and are not? > What would they gain by doing so? > > Jill > > > New Song > http://www.aspergershosting.com/audio/Onwah.wma > > --------------------------------- > Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 School is a new place with new situations. While in high schoo my mind was always mixed up from going to one place to another. I'd like to stay in one place, be familurized with the same people and as I get more comfortible with it just listen to lectures freely. I wouldl ike to write papers then have teachers read them and write back to me concerning what I wrote. While getting credit is not vitial it still is motivating. Creationism indicated origination... 1. Everything cannot come from nothing and have that nothing become all things. 2. More so the concept and invisioned reality of orgination has to do with mind, not product of the universe externa from thought origination. There is no paradox, just limitations to perception and the fact of the minds origination. I speak of ultimate origination and not origination of random things, perhapsl ike this solar system, it was product of another event. The origination and or originator complex is seemingly to most impossible to understand. > > I have heard about alien DNA somewhere now that you are refreshing my > memory. It didn't concern me because my view of creation includes any > aliens---they have the same creator that I do, in the same way that > we are all human, so are we all children of the creator whether we > are of this planet or another. > > You are putting a great deal of effort into your advocacy efforts, > aren't you? You must be very strong minded. I admire your efforts. > > I'm sorry to hear about your hand. Sounds as though you haven't let > it prevent you from doing a great deal with music! If there is a > community college that offers music near you, please consider > speaking with someone in the department. They might be willing to > work with you, especially considering the compositions you are putting > together. I didn't think I would be able to study music because I had > given up piano at 16 but the department was willing to work with me. > Patterns and relationships, you're right, it is math. At least, > that's the math it is for me. Maybe find someone with an interest in > AS/autism who is interested in music therapy? Maybe a graduate > student who would trade with you, their experiences for yours? Music > was my door back into formal education. I can't recommend it highly > enough. > > I cannot comment on Satanism as I have no personal knowledge of it. > > Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 25, 2006 Report Share Posted March 25, 2006 School is a new place with new situations. While in high schoo my mind was always mixed up from going to one place to another. I'd like to stay in one place, be familurized with the same people and as I get more comfortible with it just listen to lectures freely. I wouldl ike to write papers then have teachers read them and write back to me concerning what I wrote. While getting credit is not vitial it still is motivating. Creationism indicated origination... 1. Everything cannot come from nothing and have that nothing become all things. 2. More so the concept and invisioned reality of orgination has to do with mind, not product of the universe externa from thought origination. There is no paradox, just limitations to perception and the fact of the minds origination. I speak of ultimate origination and not origination of random things, perhapsl ike this solar system, it was product of another event. The origination and or originator complex is seemingly to most impossible to understand. > > I have heard about alien DNA somewhere now that you are refreshing my > memory. It didn't concern me because my view of creation includes any > aliens---they have the same creator that I do, in the same way that > we are all human, so are we all children of the creator whether we > are of this planet or another. > > You are putting a great deal of effort into your advocacy efforts, > aren't you? You must be very strong minded. I admire your efforts. > > I'm sorry to hear about your hand. Sounds as though you haven't let > it prevent you from doing a great deal with music! If there is a > community college that offers music near you, please consider > speaking with someone in the department. They might be willing to > work with you, especially considering the compositions you are putting > together. I didn't think I would be able to study music because I had > given up piano at 16 but the department was willing to work with me. > Patterns and relationships, you're right, it is math. At least, > that's the math it is for me. Maybe find someone with an interest in > AS/autism who is interested in music therapy? Maybe a graduate > student who would trade with you, their experiences for yours? Music > was my door back into formal education. I can't recommend it highly > enough. > > I cannot comment on Satanism as I have no personal knowledge of it. > > Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2006 Report Share Posted March 26, 2006 Wow, , you've just described me better than most people who've 'known' me for years! When I was a child, I would hide in closets, behind sofas, outside in special areas I had created in the bushes...anywhere I could sit and dream in peace. You (and every other parent) should give yourself a pat on the back for managing to look after yourself AND your child/children. I wish we lived near each other so I could be a 'big sister' to your child (if you liked me in real life, that is :-). It overwhelms me thinking about the amount of interaction you must tackle. Speaking of which, have you read Helen DeWitt's The Last Samurai? I agree with Rincewind: It IS the running away and not the destination! :-) Jill > > I've always been big into escape - like getting away from anywhere I > am - often left to my own devices away from it all I am fine - but > this becomes harder as an adult with responsibilities that I must > engage in. > > As a child I had various places I could hide out away from all human > contact, now it seems to track me down, even when I try to avoid it :- > ( letters, phonecalls, etc - if I'd have known the full extent of > intrusion on becomming an adult I would have tried to avoid it > kicking and screaming - still it is not all bad. > > Since you like Pratchett you might like Rincewind's (wizard > character) take on this, which he kind of says it's the running away > that is important bit - not the destination :-) > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2006 Report Share Posted March 26, 2006 Yeah I hid in bushes too :-) Also the back of my wardrobe would come off and there was crawl space behind it I could get into and then I would place back on wardrobe and hide out - I also loved making dens :-) It would be nice to know you in RL - if you want send me an email directly to chat off boards - then we not taking up all board space chatting :-) However I think my son needs a big brother, as there are some things I cannot really help him with (I won't go into detail), but I am trying to find something like a befriending service or something - unfortunately not many services like that near me. Not read the book you mentioned - any good? Or let me know what it's about it an email if you want. > > Wow, , you've just described me better than most people > who've 'known' me for years! When I was a child, I would hide in > closets, behind sofas, outside in special areas I had created in the > bushes...anywhere I could sit and dream in peace. You (and every > other parent) should give yourself a pat on the back for managing to > look after yourself AND your child/children. I wish we lived near > each other so I could be a 'big sister' to your child (if you liked > me in real life, that is :-). It overwhelms me thinking about the > amount of interaction you must tackle. Speaking of which, have you > read Helen DeWitt's The Last Samurai? > > I agree with Rincewind: It IS the running away and not the > destination! :-) > > Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 26, 2006 Report Share Posted March 26, 2006 It occurred to me that you might be interested in bioacoustics? http://www.birds.cornell.edu/brp/index.html I despised highschool. It almost put me off formal schooling forever, I was that burned out by the end. In fact, it wasn't until I returned at the age of 24 that I discovered how much I love school, that it was simply that I'd been in the wrong environment (hypercompetitive college prep) and in the wrong state of mind (mind-numbing epilepsy meds) to be able to appreciate it. My time spent in the music department at my local community college truly was music therapy for me. I was with the same small group of students for two years because we were all taking the same classes, were all using the practice rooms at the same time, had the same teachers, all were performing together, studying together, helping each other learn...music is marvellous to study as a language because most people have strong opinions about it, so everyone has to work together and agree on how to discuss it so that they can perform together. I wish that schools would not give up teaching music for this reason. I'm sorry to go on and on about this, but when I returned to school (I had completed all of my music requirements and little of my core work, had to get a job), I was amazed at the improvements in my skills. I was able to sit through 3 hour classes thanks to the discipline I'd gained from 4-6 hours of daily practice, I was able to take good lecture notes because my listening skills had improved immeasurably, thanks to ear training and melodic/harmonic dictation. Most surprising to me was the new pleasure I took in mathematics as I finally began to see it as a language, too. Wow, I'm sorry to go on and on about this but studying music has given me so much. Do you have many schools near you? I didn't mean to get into creationism, only just to say that the idea of alien dna doesn't bother me. I have enough to worry about here and now without worrying about how the universe began! :-) Jill > > School is a new place with new situations. While in high schoo my mind > was always mixed up from going to one place to another. I'd like to > stay in one place, be familurized with the same people and as I get > more comfortible with it just listen to lectures freely. > > I wouldl ike to write papers then have teachers read them and write > back to me concerning what I wrote. While getting credit is not vitial > it still is motivating. > > Creationism indicated origination... > > 1. Everything cannot come from nothing and have that nothing become > all things. > > 2. More so the concept and invisioned reality of orgination has to do > with mind, not product of the universe externa from thought origination. > > There is no paradox, just limitations to perception and the fact of > the minds origination. I speak of ultimate origination and not > origination of random things, perhapsl ike this solar system, it was > product of another event. > > > The origination and or originator complex is seemingly to most > impossible to understand. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2006 Report Share Posted March 30, 2006 > Also the back of my wardrobe would come > off and there was crawl space behind it I could get into and then I > would place back on wardrobe and hide out - I also loved making > dens :-) I bet that was nice and cozy (were you a fan of The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe? ;-) > It would be nice to know you in RL - if you want send me an email > directly to chat off boards - then we not taking up all board space > chatting :-) Thank you for the invitation! I feel a bit shy, however, because I'm very slow with writing (actually haven't tried chat; I've only tried IM and that was too hectic for me). How would you feel about an 'old- fashioned' e-mail friend? Send me a private e-mail if you like (I won't be offended if you don't, I understand we're all busy, especially parents). > > However I think my son needs a big brother, as there are some things > I cannot really help him with (I won't go into detail), but I am > trying to find something like a befriending service or something - > unfortunately not many services like that near me. I wonder if this is something we in the AS community couldn't organize? There must be loads of us who could be good big brothers/big sisters who would be able to provide a non-parental friend for the occasional outing? I was so fortunate to have a piano teacher who was also willing to talk with me, who let me see that not all adults were like the ones at my high school, I don't know what I would have done without him, sometimes I think he saved my life. In fact, he probably did. Emotionally and academically, since I never would have made it back to formal education without music. Anyway, I hope you find someone to help with your son, I know it must be tough as a mother trying to raise a boy to a man. That's part of the book I mentioned, it's about a single mother raising a son (she uses the film The Seven Samurai for male role models :-). If you are interested, here's the Amazon link: http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/0099284626/qid=1143730303/sr= 8-1/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl/203-9886826-2389555 Jill Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 30, 2006 Report Share Posted March 30, 2006 " I bet that was nice and cozy (were you a fan of The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe? ;-) " Not really, the idea of another and unkonwn world in my wardrobe was not agreeable with me, I already had my own inner worlds anyway :-) However I can reccomend 'Screw Tapes' by same author :-) " Thank you for the invitation! I feel a bit shy, however, because I'm very slow with writing (actually haven't tried chat; I've only tried IM and that was too hectic for me). How would you feel about an 'old- fashioned' e-mail friend? Send me a private e-mail if you like (I won't be offended if you don't, I understand we're all busy, especially parents). " I was rather wary of chat and IM - instant messages though you only have to talk to one person at a time - I like email though - more processing time :-) I am not always the quickest responder though - I will try to remember to email you directly, but my memory sometimes fails - if you do email I will respond - eventually :-) " That's part of the book I mentioned, it's about a single mother raising a son (she uses the film The Seven Samurai for male role models :-). If you are interested, here's the Amazon link: " Thanks for info' I have saved it - I have to be careful logging into Amazon - I love books and end up buying quite a few, Amazon just make it toooooooooo easy to buy :-) > > > Also the back of my wardrobe would come > > off and there was crawl space behind it I could get into and then I > > would place back on wardrobe and hide out - I also loved making > > dens :-) > > I bet that was nice and cozy (were you a fan of The Lion, the Witch > and the Wardrobe? ;-) > > > It would be nice to know you in RL - if you want send me an email > > directly to chat off boards - then we not taking up all board space > > chatting :-) > > Thank you for the invitation! I feel a bit shy, however, because I'm > very slow with writing (actually haven't tried chat; I've only tried > IM and that was too hectic for me). How would you feel about an 'old- > fashioned' e-mail friend? Send me a private e-mail if you like (I > won't be offended if you don't, I understand we're all busy, > especially parents). > > > > However I think my son needs a big brother, as there are some > things > > I cannot really help him with (I won't go into detail), but I am > > trying to find something like a befriending service or something - > > unfortunately not many services like that near me. > > I wonder if this is something we in the AS community couldn't > organize? There must be loads of us who could be good big > brothers/big sisters who would be able to provide a non-parental > friend for the occasional outing? I was so fortunate to have a piano > teacher who was also willing to talk with me, who let me see that not > all adults were like > the ones at my high school, I don't know what I would have done > without him, sometimes I think he saved my life. In fact, he probably > did. Emotionally and academically, since I never would have made it > back to formal education without music. Anyway, I hope you find > someone to help with your son, I know it must be tough as a mother > trying to raise a boy to a man. That's part of the book I mentioned, > it's about a single mother raising a son (she uses the film The Seven > Samurai for male role models :-). If you are interested, here's the > Amazon link: > > http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/0099284626/qid=1143730303/sr= > 8-1/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl/203-9886826-2389555 > > Jill > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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