Re: Disrespectful ? WAS: Playboy

[Guest guest]

" Male versions exist too, I would guess the gigolo, would be one

variant of it. "

I think I may have had the misfortune to meet the male version :-( He

was not a gold digger though - just out to get what he could with

little care or real consideration for me - it hurt :-(

Then again I think it likely that he was a gold digger with others

(he to my recollection admitted such).

>

>

> In a message dated 3/12/2006 7:31:08 A.M. Eastern Standard Time,

> julie.stevenson16@... writes:

>

> I don't think she is as bad as the female described - just

> different. Anyway this female friend of mine I know that she is

> incredibly insecure and has many difficulties, but one would only

> know that if one gets to truly know her.

>

> She comes across as extremely confident, will flirt with any man -

> will also use men to get what she wants (she has admitted so), she

> has also said she can get any man she wants and she truly believes

> that.

>

>

>

> This kind of woman used to be called a vamp, short for vampire. It

describes

> a woman who will use her sex appeal and guile to get what she

wants from

> men. They are also cold-hearted and very self-centered. I've not

heard this term

> used in a long time, but the archetype still exists and I have seen

then.

>

> Male versions exist too, I would guess the gigolo, would be one

variant of

> it. You see them now and then, usually temporarily attached to some

Hollywood

> starlet or sometimes in the crime shows as men who courted a rich

woman and

> took her money.

>

> From my analysis, the girl in question was one based on her own

words and

> actions. She made no effort to present herself in any other fashion

in word or

> deed. I heard rumors, but only was involved with the one. Much

worse was going

> around involving other people.

>

> Anyway, this is the last I'll be saying on this matter. I thought

the post

> would be taken in a humorous light, but I was wrong. Perhaps I

should have

> mentioned the other girl who was in a magazine and was proud of it.

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

On 12 Mar 2006 greebohere wrote:

> She does nothave many female friends - one reason being

> she tends to flirt with female friends partners and

> might possibly even take it further.

I don't know how common this is, but it seems that some women

like to associate with such women, even to the extent of the

non-flirtatious friend letting it adversely affect her

relationships with men.

Perhaps it's just more common for some people to be attracted to

their friends' partners than it for people to be deliberately

flirtatious.

Maybe it's an NT thing, because from outward appearance the

people whose partners are the targets of the flirtation act

annoyed. But that's just outward appearance, which can be

deceiving when observing NTs.

[Guest guest]

No I haven't as generally I have very little to no interest in

celebs - to me they are there to star in films - to me that is about

as far as my interest goes in them - still the guy who played 'Willy

Wonka' in the latest version of 'Willy Wonka's choclate factory' I've

heard some say he is aspie - the character 'Willy Wonka' in that film

certainly came across that way in my opinion :-) ny Depp?

" These days I might have asked if she had done

> any

> > > modelling, but at that time I was still quite unsocial. "

> > >

> > > Perhaps you would have had an answer, but it may not have been

> the

> > > correct answer either. Rather than skew the answer by asking

> > > questions with veiled agendas, asking direct questions -- no

> matter

> > > how hard they may seem to you -- will yield direct answers.

> > >

> > > Again, there is no animosity. My reason for taking you to task

> is

> > > because innuendo, assumptions, conjecture, stereotypes and more

> > > paint people ugly who do not deserve to be painted ugly.

> > >

> > > Sometimes all those innuendos, assumptions, conjectures,

> > stereotypes

> > > and more drive people to commit suicide ... sometimes those

> people

> > > are little children. :-(

> > >

> > > Raven

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

I've no idea - I call her a friend because I have known her since

childhood, but I don't really see her that much, but I don't tend to

see people at all that much - I tend to be rather reclusive. This may

change come September if I can manage to get back to college.

>

> > She does nothave many female friends - one reason being

> > she tends to flirt with female friends partners and

> > might possibly even take it further.

>

> I don't know how common this is, but it seems that some women

> like to associate with such women, even to the extent of the

> non-flirtatious friend letting it adversely affect her

> relationships with men.

>

> Perhaps it's just more common for some people to be attracted to

> their friends' partners than it for people to be deliberately

> flirtatious.

>

> Maybe it's an NT thing, because from outward appearance the

> people whose partners are the targets of the flirtation act

> annoyed. But that's just outward appearance, which can be

> deceiving when observing NTs.

>