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How do you know there is someone better able to look after your child? And if there is someone better do you think that because the child is not there own would they keep persuing the best interests of the child? I know there is some out there like that but i am sure not all. Please beleive in yourself. You CAN DO IT, not conventionally like all those other people but it is possible. Through creativeness and love anything is possible. Hmm darn the name escapes but there was this woman who was blind and deaf and still managed to get things done oh i know Helen Keller. So if someone with those aspects can get be so can we, but we have to try not to compare ourselves to anyone else because we are all unique, there is no comparison to any body on this planet that matches exactly your qualifications for this child. All you can ever

do is your best and as you become more aware more things will open up to you and your child. Unfortunately you have to go searching as these things dont arrive at your door. But i am certain you have the skills to find what you need. And the love and caring to help this child succeed. Hugs Jewelly "Blair, Al & the kids" <foreverfamilyof5@...> wrote: I feel I need to comment on this topic. I am new to this group and am still waiting to find out what my son's (8) formal diagnosis is. When he started preschool is when we started seeing alot of aggression, anger and violence toward his peers. I think I read every parenting book out there. We hoped he would adapt

over time, but every time he started a new grade we'd be into it full blown all over again. Last year is when it finally clicked he wasn't growing out of it, and it wasn't just my bad parenting. I guess the point to my rambling is, I feel like yes, I promised someone before this life that I would cherish this special little person and help him through his challenges. That doesn't mean that some days I don't just bawl myself to sleep feeling completely inadequate and wondering why me? There are people better equipped to handle him than me out there! But then I look into his sweet little face and I realize that God gave him to me, because I need him as much as he needs me. Alyssa Everyone is raving about the all-new beta. If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured or faraway. Henry Thoreau Send instant messages to your online friends http://au.messenger.