Guest guest Posted March 17, 2006 Report Share Posted March 17, 2006 OH, I SO feel ya!!its the same around here too,,my dh says, well, you deal with the drs all the time, you know more whats going on, I trust your decisions.and thats it. and I want to say........but I dont want to be the only one to make the decisions!!Help me!! but he works, and I dont, and so it all falls to me. It helps that my dr is so understanding, and helps me with decisions. I ask question after question(I bet you couldnt tell that, huh? LOL) and she is so patient with me. When the boys needed their stomach surgery, she even hooked me up with another mom from her clinic in my state who had a child the same age, who had the same surgeon, and gave me her phone number(before I had a computer). That helped so much. But this, this internet deal, is way better than that. I have given up on it. It isnt worth the arguements. I need to lean on someone with it, and once the decisions are made, he backs me up and comes for surgeries and things like that. I lean more on my dr for information and support for these things. I hope your dr is supportive of you. best of luck valarie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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