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I am going to try to make this very to the point, I am pretty scattered right now which is a bummer, since yesterday I had a half day spa day and was very very relaxed. Ok, so here is what happened: Yesterday I had a spa day, and was unbelievably relaxed (no pain for the first time in over 10 years), Hope was very wound up because Molly was home. We were all thrilled, the issue for her (she has AS), is that I went straight into work after I picked her up from the airport, so that I could go to my appointment. She went with my mom and hung out and then we had dinner together. Ok, so - we got home, and Hope who has cried for Molly every day was clingy and crying to be with Molly. Molly gets overwhelmed very easily and by 9pm she was doing that shrill leave me alone stuff and being a complete jerk. I finally got Hope to sleep, and I guess I was pretty exhausted because

I literally slept until noon. Molly tried to watch Hope, but Hope once she fixates on something perseverates BAD. So, like for example, she wants to go on the computer, she will ask, and we will say, after so and so is done, she will literally come and say every 35-40 seconds now now now??? and climb all over you etc., so anyways, I get up and Max was supposed to do his chores (haven't been done in several days) and help Hope plant her new baby plants, and he is yelling, Molly is yelling, Hope is losing it and I at this point have a migraine. I don't know how to make this all work. I have talked to the kids at length about Hope - who has autism. Max when he gets mad, yells at me and says that I never make her do anything. When he is calm he tries to get it, but once he loses his temper or gets overhwhelmed - he has SID noise defensive - he starts yelling and says really hurtful things to me about not being

able to control Hope or how she is such a brat, last night Molly was doing the same thing. So we have flip flopped from Molly being all about Hope to Sara being that way. I bought sara a book called, everyone is different for siblings of kids with autism and it made a huge difference. Anyways, I am so frustrated, the benefits of the spa massage - the lady is a holistic health practitioner who also works in a hospital working with people who have fibromyalgia and cfs which is what I have, are gone. If there are no dogs in Heaven, then when I die I want to go where they wentWill There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your

face.Ben A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loveshimself.Josh Billings

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