Guest guest Posted September 4, 2005 Report Share Posted September 4, 2005 Honey you will all stay in my prayers.She should be seeing a doctor (shrink) all the time,not just on meds and nothing else.You guys are staying in my prayers and thank god they have you.The grandchild is safe and your daughter can still see her child.Lets hope this baby can give her a reason to live. Gail http://deveauxkennels.tk mailto:gaila@... -----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies [mailto:Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies ]On Behalf Of connie mcclainSent: September 4, 2005 3:54 PMHepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies Subject: RE: Deb: Everyone Gail, is on meds. She keeps trying to od on them. Then they switch them. Hopefully with some of the stress off her (Serena), she will begin to snap out of it but for right now she seems lost in space, almost like shes on drugs but shes not. Mental illness SUCKS. Maybe with time she will see life is good. I pray she does, till then my heels are dug in . ConnieGail Deveaux <gaila@...> wrote: God bless you hon.I knew you would do it.God knew you were needed right where you are.Listen check out the shrinks and see if one of them will put her on meds and go to the appointments.Do some fast talking and maybe she will agree.Take care hon and stay healthy. Gail http://deveauxkennels.tk mailto:gaila@... -----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies [mailto:Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies ]On Behalf Of connie mcclainSent: September 2, 2005 9:35 AMHepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies Subject: RE: Deb: Everyone Gail, it doesnt matter if youre next of kin here in the states. If youre over 18, nobody can force you to get help, just have you committed for 72 hours, which has been done at least 8 times just this year. They keep letting her back out again. I dont think, were it my choice, that i would opt for a mental hospital long term, anyway; most of the time she comes out of there more normal, but with the weight of ALL the patients on her, and all their conditions. I cant remember what normal is, just sometimes fantasize about it. Actually, looking back on it, I'm not sure I ever knew normalcy. Just scratching to stay sane myself. On a good note my older sister is finally talking to me again, and i missed her so badly. The family split up for a very long time due to MOMs mental illness, and a divorce and blah blah blah, people had to choose sides. you know how THAT goes. Im with Danny, Semper Fi, do or die. I have a baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaybeeeeeeeeee, and shes CUUUUUUTE and she loooooooves me, so life is good, and God still hands out miracles even in Satans world. Connie ps. Did i mention I'm still CLEAR and that stupid doctor said i wouldnt live to see Serena born!! Now im raising her. Thank you God.Gail Deveaux <gaila@...> wrote: Thank god your daughter loves her daughter enough to give her to you.If she gets divorced you are her next of kin and with help from the doctors you can force her to get help.At least that is the way it works in Canada.I have a daughter that is a manic depresent but I can't force her into the hospital unless she is divorced then I am her next of kin and can do something to force her to het help. Gail http://deveauxkennels.tk mailto:gaila@... -----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies [mailto:Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies ]On Behalf Of connie mcclainSent: September 1, 2005 9:12 PMHepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies Subject: Re: Deb: Everyone Well, Danne, my daughter is 27 years old, so counseling is only Her option, much as i beg. Her baby is under two, and just today they both signed full parental rights to me, so i will be raising her. do you think they do counseling for toddlers? conniedanne <dannegrl2003@...> wrote: Connie sweetie if you have not done so get that kid in some counseling as soon as you can. The earlier the better. Good Luck love d connie mcclain <crochetlady1001@...> wrote: Suzie, i will pray for sweet Deb. I may still get custody of Serena, cuz her mommy is self mutilating now and im horrified and terrified, so please pray for my little tiny family whats left of it. Shes so suicidal and i keep tryin to show her over and over and over and over how much i love her but it seems shes disconnected from emotions totally of late. i with i could take it off her and put it on me. Ok, kids, i need your prayers badly. im spinnin out but still holdin on by my gray hairs. on a good note, the diet is goin well and ive lost twenty pounds in three weeks. its down to a pound every OTHER day now but i guess when you get old your metabolism really DOES slow down. i heard on the radio that 2000 steps equals 100 calories off if you step fast, so ive been walking at night, now i have to do it with the baby but i have a stroller, so it may be MORE of a workout. I love you all. Im so busy i cant wait till things calm down a bit. Thinking of you constantly, Connie dannella Start your day with - make it your home page The light at the end of the tunnel may be you The light at the end of the tunnel may be you The light at the end of the tunnel may be you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2005 Report Share Posted September 4, 2005 I hope she stays close to the child.I don't want her to give up hope. Gail http://deveauxkennels.tk mailto:gaila@... -----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies [mailto:Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies ]On Behalf Of connie mcclainSent: September 4, 2005 4:46 PMHepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies Subject: RE: Deb: Everyone Gail, yeah, thats what i was prayin for. Hopefully she will see the baby healthy and happy and see that its not hopeless. ConnieGail Deveaux <gaila@...> wrote: Honey you will all stay in my prayers.She should be seeing a doctor (shrink) all the time,not just on meds and nothing else.You guys are staying in my prayers and thank god they have you.The grandchild is safe and your daughter can still see her child.Lets hope this baby can give her a reason to live. Gail http://deveauxkennels.tk mailto:gaila@... -----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies [mailto:Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies ]On Behalf Of connie mcclainSent: September 4, 2005 3:54 PMHepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies Subject: RE: Deb: Everyone Gail, is on meds. She keeps trying to od on them. Then they switch them. Hopefully with some of the stress off her (Serena), she will begin to snap out of it but for right now she seems lost in space, almost like shes on drugs but shes not. Mental illness SUCKS. Maybe with time she will see life is good. I pray she does, till then my heels are dug in . ConnieGail Deveaux <gaila@...> wrote: God bless you hon.I knew you would do it.God knew you were needed right where you are.Listen check out the shrinks and see if one of them will put her on meds and go to the appointments.Do some fast talking and maybe she will agree.Take care hon and stay healthy. Gail http://deveauxkennels.tk mailto:gaila@... -----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies [mailto:Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies ]On Behalf Of connie mcclainSent: September 2, 2005 9:35 AMHepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies Subject: RE: Deb: Everyone Gail, it doesnt matter if youre next of kin here in the states. If youre over 18, nobody can force you to get help, just have you committed for 72 hours, which has been done at least 8 times just this year. They keep letting her back out again. I dont think, were it my choice, that i would opt for a mental hospital long term, anyway; most of the time she comes out of there more normal, but with the weight of ALL the patients on her, and all their conditions. I cant remember what normal is, just sometimes fantasize about it. Actually, looking back on it, I'm not sure I ever knew normalcy. Just scratching to stay sane myself. On a good note my older sister is finally talking to me again, and i missed her so badly. The family split up for a very long time due to MOMs mental illness, and a divorce and blah blah blah, people had to choose sides. you know how THAT goes. Im with Danny, Semper Fi, do or die. I have a baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaybeeeeeeeeee, and shes CUUUUUUTE and she loooooooves me, so life is good, and God still hands out miracles even in Satans world. Connie ps. Did i mention I'm still CLEAR and that stupid doctor said i wouldnt live to see Serena born!! Now im raising her. Thank you God.Gail Deveaux <gaila@...> wrote: Thank god your daughter loves her daughter enough to give her to you.If she gets divorced you are her next of kin and with help from the doctors you can force her to get help.At least that is the way it works in Canada.I have a daughter that is a manic depresent but I can't force her into the hospital unless she is divorced then I am her next of kin and can do something to force her to het help. Gail http://deveauxkennels.tk mailto:gaila@... -----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies [mailto:Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies ]On Behalf Of connie mcclainSent: September 1, 2005 9:12 PMHepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies Subject: Re: Deb: Everyone Well, Danne, my daughter is 27 years old, so counseling is only Her option, much as i beg. Her baby is under two, and just today they both signed full parental rights to me, so i will be raising her. do you think they do counseling for toddlers? conniedanne <dannegrl2003@...> wrote: Connie sweetie if you have not done so get that kid in some counseling as soon as you can. The earlier the better. Good Luck love d connie mcclain <crochetlady1001@...> wrote: Suzie, i will pray for sweet Deb. I may still get custody of Serena, cuz her mommy is self mutilating now and im horrified and terrified, so please pray for my little tiny family whats left of it. Shes so suicidal and i keep tryin to show her over and over and over and over how much i love her but it seems shes disconnected from emotions totally of late. i with i could take it off her and put it on me. Ok, kids, i need your prayers badly. im spinnin out but still holdin on by my gray hairs. on a good note, the diet is goin well and ive lost twenty pounds in three weeks. its down to a pound every OTHER day now but i guess when you get old your metabolism really DOES slow down. i heard on the radio that 2000 steps equals 100 calories off if you step fast, so ive been walking at night, now i have to do it with the baby but i have a stroller, so it may be MORE of a workout. I love you all. Im so busy i cant wait till things calm down a bit. Thinking of you constantly, Connie dannella Start your day with - make it your home page The light at the end of the tunnel may be you The light at the end of the tunnel may be you The light at the end of the tunnel may be you The light at the end of the tunnel may be you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2005 Report Share Posted September 5, 2005 Yes Connie they do!!! Honest!!! They do!!! check with the caseworkers... They'll hook ya up.. Hug Serena for me.. Tomorrow my oldest daughter goes to court.. The state stepped in and took her kids.. I have her last two plus the one I have always had Maurice..So we have three kids at home now.. The case workers took the baby (Jessie)out of her house Friday..Maurice got his sister (Joenecia) Wednesday..Collected all her change and put himself and sister on the city bus to my house..He brought her home first..Amazing, Kid power!!!!Addiction hurts all not just the addict!!! Learning how to diaper a moving target all over again.. What fun!!! Boo -- Re: Deb: Everyone Well, Danne, my daughter is 27 years old, so counseling is only Her option, much as i beg. Her baby is under two, and just today they both signed full parental rights to me, so i will be raising her. do you think they do counseling for toddlers? conniedanne <dannegrl2003@...> wrote: Connie sweetie if you have not done so get that kid in some counseling as soon as you can. The earlier the better. Good Luck love d connie mcclain <crochetlady1001@...> wrote: Suzie, i will pray for sweet Deb. I may still get custody of Serena, cuz her mommy is self mutilating now and im horrified and terrified, so please pray for my little tiny family whats left of it. Shes so suicidal and i keep tryin to show her over and over and over and over how much i love her but it seems shes disconnected from emotions totally of late. i with i could take it off her and put it on me. Ok, kids, i need your prayers badly. im spinnin out but still holdin on by my gray hairs. on a good note, the diet is goin well and ive lost twenty pounds in three weeks. its down to a pound every OTHER day now but i guess when you get old your metabolism really DOES slow down. i heard on the radio that 2000 steps equals 100 calories off if you step fast, so ive been walking at night, now i have to do it with the baby but i have a stroller, so it may be MORE of a workout. I love you all. Im so busy i cant wait till things calm down a bit. Thinking of you constantly, Connie dannella Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 6, 2005 Report Share Posted September 6, 2005 Thank god those children have loving family.The world is so screwed up especially because of drugs.Hope she can get help and that the children don't hurt to much. Take care. Gail http://deveauxkennels.tk mailto:gaila@... Re: Deb: Everyone Well, Danne, my daughter is 27 years old, so counseling is only Her option, much as i beg. Her baby is under two, and just today they both signed full parental rights to me, so i will be raising her. do you think they do counseling for toddlers? conniedanne <dannegrl2003@...> wrote: Connie sweetie if you have not done so get that kid in some counseling as soon as you can. The earlier the better. Good Luck love d connie mcclain <crochetlady1001@...> wrote: Suzie, i will pray for sweet Deb. I may still get custody of Serena, cuz her mommy is self mutilating now and im horrified and terrified, so please pray for my little tiny family whats left of it. Shes so suicidal and i keep tryin to show her over and over and over and over how much i love her but it seems shes disconnected from emotions totally of late. i with i could take it off her and put it on me. Ok, kids, i need your prayers badly. im spinnin out but still holdin on by my gray hairs. on a good note, the diet is goin well and ive lost twenty pounds in three weeks. its down to a pound every OTHER day now but i guess when you get old your metabolism really DOES slow down. i heard on the radio that 2000 steps equals 100 calories off if you step fast, so ive been walking at night, now i have to do it with the baby but i have a stroller, so it may be MORE of a workout. I love you all. Im so busy i cant wait till things calm down a bit. Thinking of you constantly, Connie dannella Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 7, 2005 Report Share Posted September 7, 2005 Connie I have been looking for that link about Insurance that I said I would send.. It is hiding from me since Im tryin to find it. I just wanted you to know I didnt forget you. love and hugs d connie mcclain <crochetlady1001@...> wrote: Thank you sweetie, for caring. Maybe i will do that!! But first i have to unpack her stuff and wash it all. I got her some new duds. Shes adorable and seems happy with me. I wonder if our righteous group leaders would let me post a pic of her in her new dress her Gramma got her? Do you think? Actually maybe Suzie could post it cuz i dont have delphi plus. Soon as the legal crap is over i think i will go ahead and talk to someone cuz theres times i lose the view of the light at the end of the tunnel, and thats totally out of character for me. Id probably show up and just spend an hour crying and then feel my old self again. For those of you on tx, I want to stress to you that no matter how crappy you feel now, i remember it VERY well, there WILL come a day when you will have so much energy you wont believe it. Recovery is so wonderful, I'd forgotten what energy felt like. In a way im happy to have a chance to be able to make a difference in one little life, and its kinda cool, cuz i know HOW to do it now, unlike when my kids were kids, and i can do it RIGHT cuz of all the shouldas and wouldas before. Again, thanks for caring. Conniedannegrl <dannegrl2003@...> wrote: Connie Hun I Know they do young children. I had my nephew in counseling at 4. I Suggest you check with a pediatrician they can help you find some help. It is never easy what you are doing, but well worth it. My prayers are with you. d connie mcclain <crochetlady1001@...> wrote: Well, Danne, my daughter is 27 years old, so counseling is only Her option, much as i beg. Her baby is under two, and just today they both signed full parental rights to me, so i will be raising her. do you think they do counseling for toddlers? conniedanne <dannegrl2003@...> wrote: Connie sweetie if you have not done so get that kid in some counseling as soon as you can. The earlier the better. Good Luck love d connie mcclain <crochetlady1001@...> wrote: Suzie, i will pray for sweet Deb. I may still get custody of Serena, cuz her mommy is self mutilating now and im horrified and terrified, so please pray for my little tiny family whats left of it. Shes so suicidal and i keep tryin to show her over and over and over and over how much i love her but it seems shes disconnected from emotions totally of late. i with i could take it off her and put it on me. Ok, kids, i need your prayers badly. im spinnin out but still holdin on by my gray hairs. on a good note, the diet is goin well and ive lost twenty pounds in three weeks. its down to a pound every OTHER day now but i guess when you get old your metabolism really DOES slow down. i heard on the radio that 2000 steps equals 100 calories off if you step fast, so ive been walking at night, now i have to do it with the baby but i have a stroller, so it may be MORE of a workout. I love you all. Im so busy i cant wait till things calm down a bit. Thinking of you constantly, Connie dannella Start your day with - make it your home page The light at the end of the tunnel may be you dannella Start your day with - make it your home page The light at the end of the tunnel may be you dannella __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 8, 2005 Report Share Posted September 8, 2005 D, dont worry about it, honey, i think im gonna go with plan b, workin out the finances on paper today to see if i can do it. conniedannegrl <dannegrl2003@...> wrote: Connie I have been looking for that link about Insurance that I said I would send.. It is hiding from me since Im tryin to find it. I just wanted you to know I didnt forget you. love and hugs d connie mcclain <crochetlady1001@...> wrote: Thank you sweetie, for caring. Maybe i will do that!! But first i have to unpack her stuff and wash it all. I got her some new duds. Shes adorable and seems happy with me. I wonder if our righteous group leaders would let me post a pic of her in her new dress her Gramma got her? Do you think? Actually maybe Suzie could post it cuz i dont have delphi plus. Soon as the legal crap is over i think i will go ahead and talk to someone cuz theres times i lose the view of the light at the end of the tunnel, and thats totally out of character for me. Id probably show up and just spend an hour crying and then feel my old self again. For those of you on tx, I want to stress to you that no matter how crappy you feel now, i remember it VERY well, there WILL come a day when you will have so much energy you wont believe it. Recovery is so wonderful, I'd forgotten what energy felt like. In a way im happy to have a chance to be able to make a difference in one little life, and its kinda cool, cuz i know HOW to do it now, unlike when my kids were kids, and i can do it RIGHT cuz of all the shouldas and wouldas before. Again, thanks for caring. Conniedannegrl <dannegrl2003@...> wrote: Connie Hun I Know they do young children. I had my nephew in counseling at 4. I Suggest you check with a pediatrician they can help you find some help. It is never easy what you are doing, but well worth it. My prayers are with you. d connie mcclain <crochetlady1001@...> wrote: Well, Danne, my daughter is 27 years old, so counseling is only Her option, much as i beg. Her baby is under two, and just today they both signed full parental rights to me, so i will be raising her. do you think they do counseling for toddlers? conniedanne <dannegrl2003@...> wrote: Connie sweetie if you have not done so get that kid in some counseling as soon as you can. The earlier the better. Good Luck love d connie mcclain <crochetlady1001@...> wrote: Suzie, i will pray for sweet Deb. I may still get custody of Serena, cuz her mommy is self mutilating now and im horrified and terrified, so please pray for my little tiny family whats left of it. Shes so suicidal and i keep tryin to show her over and over and over and over how much i love her but it seems shes disconnected from emotions totally of late. i with i could take it off her and put it on me. Ok, kids, i need your prayers badly. im spinnin out but still holdin on by my gray hairs. on a good note, the diet is goin well and ive lost twenty pounds in three weeks. its down to a pound every OTHER day now but i guess when you get old your metabolism really DOES slow down. i heard on the radio that 2000 steps equals 100 calories off if you step fast, so ive been walking at night, now i have to do it with the baby but i have a stroller, so it may be MORE of a workout. I love you all. Im so busy i cant wait till things calm down a bit. Thinking of you constantly, Connie dannella Start your day with - make it your home page The light at the end of the tunnel may be you dannella Start your day with - make it your home page The light at the end of the tunnel may be you dannella __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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